My Hubby Hasn’t Made Love To Me In 4 Years

June 2nd, 2012 – My Hubby Hasn’t Made Love To Me In 4 Years

We received an email from a woman who is seeking for your input on the current problem she is facing in her marriage.

Apparently her husband hasn’t made love to her since the birth of her 4 year old son.

Please read the letter below and leave your comments.

I have been married for 5 years and I have a four  year old son. The problem is my husband has not kissed me or made love  to me in over 4 years. I have tried everything but he just wont do it. I  cry myself to sleep most nights after he rejects me. Apart from this,  everything else is fine and our friends and family have no idea what’s  going on. I need advice.

A. what can the reason be ? because I honestly don’t think he is cheating on me.

B.  what can I do about the situation cos I’m feeling like my youth is  wasting away. I will soon be 30. I married him at 25 and I’m like is it  when I’m 45 he will be ready to get freaky. All my friends now have 2  or 3 kids but I still have 1.

I’m just so confused i haven’t cheated on him (I have thought of it) but I just cant. I have prayed, I  have fasted, I have cried, I have begged, I  have asked him so many times forget the sex, just give me a reason, just tell  me why you wont or tell me why you cant. He still has erections when I  touch him so he’s not impotent so I really cant explain it at all.

I’m writing you now after another rejection, tears rolling down my face as I  type. Its just heart breaking. I hope you and your readers can help me  before I go crazy or do something horrible.

Your inputs will be highly appreciated