Muslim Husband Divorces Wife For Attending Church & Over Her Inability To Read Quran

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September 7, 2017 – Muslim Husband Divorces Wife For Attending Church & Over Inability To Read Quran & Pray In Islamic Way

A wife today told an Idi-Ogungun Customary Court at Agodi in Ibadan that her husband, Taofeek, hated her because of her inability to read Qur’an and pray in Islamic way.

NAN reports that Olayemi Ajetunmobi’s husband, Taofeek, had approached the court for the dissolution of his 19-year-old marriage blessed with three children, citing wife’s insincerity and lack of cooperation.

Olayemi told the court that she agreed to convert to her husband’s religion 19 years ago before the marriage, but could not cope with Islamic doctrines.

“I cannot read Qur’an or observe the daily five prayer times and other Islamic rites, but I go to church without the knowledge of my husband.

“I lied to my husband that I did not attend any church,” she said.

She pleaded with the court not to grant the request of her husband, saying “I still recognise him as my husband”.

Taofeek also described his wife as a talkative and that his relationship with her was full of “deceit and insincerity”.

“I do not want any ugly occurrence because I have a hot temper; we have been living together like cat and rat since last year.

“The court should uphold my request so that peace could reign and both of us could live happily in our respective locations.”

The President of the court, Chief Mukaila Balogun, leading other members — Aare Samotu and Ganiyu Alao — granted the dissolution of the marriage and awarded custody of the first two children to the husband and the third child to the wife.

Balogun ordered the petitioner to pay N4,000 as monthly allowance to the respondent for the upkeep of the third child.

The court also ordered the petitioner to pay N12,000 and N5,000 as house rent and packing allowance respectively to the respondent.

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12 thoughts on “Muslim Husband Divorces Wife For Attending Church & Over Her Inability To Read Quran

  1. SHE CONVERTED OUT OF LOVE OR FEAR?I PITY THE CHILDREN INVOLVED AND HOW TO COPE WITH SUCH SEPARATION.WE ALWAYS CLAIM TO BE RELIGIOUS BUT YET FULL OF DECIET.WONDER IF IGNORANCE OR LACK OF EXPOSURE IS THE CULPRIT HERE.

  2. Well, Islam has rules and guidelines. This is not like many other religion where you do what you like. Islam does not forbid Muslim men from marrying christian or Jewish women, as highlighted in the verse below:

    “Made lawful to you this day are At‑Tayyibaat [all kinds of Halaal (lawful) foods, which Allaah has made lawful (meat of slaughtered eatable animals, milk products, fats, vegetables and fruits)]. The food (slaughtered cattle, eatable animals) of the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) is lawful to you and yours is lawful to them. (Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time when you have given their due Mahr (bridal-money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage), desiring chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock) not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girlfriends”

    [al-Maa’idah 5:5]

    That’s basic Islamic injunction. However there is figh or Islamic jurisprudence which states that there are conditions for marrying christian or Jewish women. You can not force her to change her religion. Sh keeps her religion but she will have no priority as to religion of their children. Thats her husband responsibility. As you can see sincerely according to this judgement handed by the judge, husband is responsible for all the children even though of them is not under his custody. Just bcus she has the right to keep hr religion doesnt mean her husband cannot persuade her to embrace Islam. There is difference btw persuading someone to embrace a religion from forcing someone. It depends on how husband approach the matter. I think her husband should have done more. Not everyone can recite Arabic Quran. He should have gave her copy of Quran in language she understands. Slowly she picks up from there. My mother was christian before she married my father. Today, she is one of the “as-salatu” groups.

    I hope in the future the woman will see the light of Islam and embrace it. It does takes time and patience. The court did the right thing by separating them and having the man to take more responsibilities.

  3. The has got another woman, hence he want her to go after 19 years. God will see the woman through she should be prayerful.

  4. At Tundun, if you said the man is a fool you may be right but I think the bigger fool here is the woman that would enter a coursed marriage with a coursed man with her eyes wide open. Now, see the result.
    Foolish woman.
    Of all the men around it was a stupid muslim terrorist she chose to marry. Maybe she even did that against the warnings of her parents or wellwishers who knows?

    At IGBANDA, well said. I thought I am the only one here with such observation.
    That boko haram girl will never comment untill the topic has something to do with her religion of bondage.
    That‘s why she and I don‘t always get along. It will ever remain that way untill she repent from being a fanatic on NG or better still, do the needful by being silent.
    She makes more sense when she doesn‘t comment at all than when she does and she knows it.

    I take a stroll…

    • May God help us, perhaps this woman may not no that this man will turn to fanatic all of a sudden afterall they have been living together for the past 19yr with love; something like this happen to my sister despite that she is a Muslim like his husband who happens to be a wonderful husband and a moderate Muslim, immediately this man came back from Mecca he turn to fanatic all of a sudden to everybody surprise so we should not blame this woman instead pray for her.

  5. WHY DID YOU MARRY HER WHEN YOU KNOW THAT SHE DID NOT BELIEVE IN THE SAME IDEOLOGY, ,

    PEOPLE SHOULD LOOK AT THESE THINGS BEFORE YOU DATE SOMEONE, IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO KNOW THAT THEY WOULD ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE ,

    BECAUSE ONCE YOU GET MARRIED ,IT MEANS YOU HAVE THROWN AWAY YOUR FREEDOM AND WHATEVER YOU BELIEVES. YOU CAN NOT MAKE DECISION ON YOUR OWN.

    IT MEANS IF YOUR HUSBAND IS A PAGAN ,HE CAN INITIATE YOU TO BE PAGANISM, AND WHEN YOU SAY NO TO THEIR OWN IDEA,THEN THERE WOULD BE A WAR

    THE SAME THINGS APPLY TO HAVING SEX, SOME MEN LIKE TO ABUSE THEIR WIVES IN THE BEDROOM .BY FUCKING NOT FUCKING HER IN THE RIGHT PLACE/PUNANI AND ENSD UP WANTING TO FUCK HER IN THE MOUTH.

    BECAUSE HE HAS BEEN USED TO DO BLOWJOB WITH OTHER WOMEN, IN WHICH SOME WOMEN USED THEIR MOUTH TO SCRUB ALL THEIR ARSEHOLE AND SUCK THEIR DICK,

    WHICH A LOT OF WOMEN ALWAYS LIKE TO DO BEHIND CLOSED DOOR, 75% OF WOMEN SUCK DICKS, EVERYDAY. SO BEWARE OF WHO YOU KISS.

    WHEN YOU ARE DATING, THEY WILL NOT BRING THE IDEA,
    THEY WOULD PRETEND TO BE A SAINT.

    WHILE THEY WILL DO IT IN SECRET WITH SOMEONE ELSE,

    THEN AS SOON AS YOU MARRIED THEM, THEY WILL SUDDENLY CHANGE AND ASK YOU TO DO IT FOR THEM , IN WHICH YOU MAY NOT LIKE IT.

    WHICH MAKES YOU FEELS DIRTY AND STINKING. BUT HE WILL NOT WANT TO ACCEPT THAT YOU DO NOT LIKE THE IDEA OF USING YOUR MOUTH ON HIS PRIVATE PART

    THEN, HE WILL START TO MAKE TROUBLE UNTIL YOU AGREE TO ALLOW HIM FUCK YOUR MOUTH DOWN TO YOUR THROTH.

    PLEASE I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT USING YOUR MOUTH TO FUCK A MAN ,MEANS YOU ARE ABUSING YOUR SPIRIT, AND MAKING YOURSELF BE A FOOL INFRONT OF HIM .

    THAT IS WHY YOUR SPIRIT WILL MAKE YOU SUFFER AND EVERYTHING YOU DO WILL NOT BE SUCCESSFUL.

    PLEASE BE IN-CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE.

    DO NOT BECAUSE OF MARRIAGE ABUSE YOUR SPIRIT IN THE BEDROOM.RESPECT YOUR SPIRIT.

    LOVE YOURSELF,

    DO NOT LET MEN MAKES YOU A FOOL IN THE BEDROOM. BECAUSE THAT DOES NOT MAKE HIM TO STAY WITH YOU FOREVER.

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