Sept 18, 2012 – My Uncle Impregnates Me & Threatens To Send Me Packing If I Don’t Abort
My name is Damilola, I’m 23 years old. I lost my parents in the Christmas Day Bombing in Madalla in 2011.
Since the death of my parents, life has become a struggle for me.
I thought all hope is gone before my uncle who lives in the North came to my rescue. He told me to come and live with him.
I moved into his house in early February of this year and he promised to fund my education.
I never knew this is the beginning of my misery in life.
Few months back his wife traveled abroad to stay with their children for the summer and since then he has started behaving funny towards me.
He has been constantly demanding for sex from me as if am his wife.
On one occasion, he called me to his bedroom but I refused knowing the dare consequences of it.
I asked him how on earth could I sleep with my father’s younger brother but he didn’t pay attention to my question.
Since my refusal, he has been threatening me, he even told me he will send me back to my village if I don’t allow him to sleep with me.
After so much pressures and beating, I allowed him to have sex with me.
Few weeks ago, I started feeling so dizzy and tired. He then asked me to go for a check up and the doctor confirmed am indeed seven weeks pregnant for him.
I told my uncle about the development and he asked me to abort the pregnancy. I’m afraid I, I’ve not done such thing before and the worst of it is that his wife would return by month end. He threatened to throw me out of the house if I don’t terminate the baby.
I’m in a desperate situation, what should I do please advice me.
Email dated Sept 17 from one Dammy O.
Please let’s contribute. Your input might save this girl’s life.
segun Benz
September 18, 2012 at 1:30 PM
The girl should abort the pregnancy to avoid conflict for the family. Or should better live the baby to avoid the risk of her life
Salami Oluwasegun Arisekoleola
September 18, 2012 at 1:31 PM
T̅ђє̲̣̥ world @stake.
Ikechi
April 22, 2013 at 4:04 PM
You made me to laugh that’s wonderful where are we up to GOD have mercy.
Ovie
September 18, 2012 at 1:41 PM
According to tradition it is abormination report 2 d police and dat evil uncle must b stone 2 death
Azubuike Azubuike
September 18, 2012 at 1:44 PM
wao dis is really terrible, pls dont abort d baby, u can report to any NGO availabe to help u and as tell ur church. Dis is d price d christians pay 4 making Jonathan president yet he dont seem to know hw d poor nigerians are faring wit his anti-pple policies, corruption everywhere, fuel subsidy removal wich made cost of living go high everywhere, today if u go 4 any recruitment even as a security personnel if u dont lobby and know anyone 4get it, d side effect is boko haram, kidnapping, armed robbery, corruption in public offices. Nigerians are becoming wiser by d day.
Samuel Henry
September 18, 2012 at 1:46 PM
Hi Dami, email me: jkhhenry@yahooo.com, in send your acct details n your phone no. remain bless
Samuel Henry
September 18, 2012 at 1:46 PM
Hi Dami, email me: jkhhenry@yahooo.com, in send your acct details n your phone no. remain bless
Smith Rich
September 18, 2012 at 2:13 PM
my own advice is dat u should abort d pregnancy bcus it wasent your fault but dat of Boko haram bomb blast dat send your parent 2 there early grave n dat is y God is going 2 c u through so dat u will finish your education in his assistance. remain bless
Rebecca John
September 18, 2012 at 2:32 PM
Dami you are not going to abort that baby! cuz we all do not know what that baby will become in future if he/she is be born, keep it! let your foolish and stupid uncle face the music if the wife got to know about it.
Dami my girl you are not the first person that got pregnant though is an abormination but even God knows that is not your fault.
and I strongly believe that your uncle must face the consequences okey. KEEP IT
OUR GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU OKEY.LUV YOU.
Chinaemerem Afamefuna Austyn
September 18, 2012 at 2:37 PM
My dear friend pls take a refuge in a church if your a Christan. preferably a Catholic Nouns convent will take good care of you.
Sunday Solanke
September 18, 2012 at 3:15 PM
Dami, pls don't abort the baby & don't be afraid of your uncle. PLS report him to an NGO dat cares 4 WOMEN/GIRLS/LADIES in dis type of situation.
Udoka Ibe
September 18, 2012 at 3:25 PM
My Dear Dami don’t abort the baby cos God knws Y it happen lyk dat and If u go ahead and do it He will question U,,,,and U don’t knw what the Child will turn to be tomorrow maybe He will be a source of help for U cos of ur difficulties since the death of ur parents . ,,, instead let Him sent U back to ur Village,,,He is not ur God,,,Leave every thing to God, cos we do not war against flesh and blood,,,,the Lord is ur strength my Dear,,,
ahmad
September 18, 2012 at 3:40 PM
Infact, this is indeed terrible may the lord put you through.
Minister
September 18, 2012 at 5:20 PM
i will advice you to keep the baby and not to abort it, because it a big SIN if you do sumtin like that and also your life will be in danger…you no what i mean ……let him trow you out of his house and face the disgrace that will follow him by his family, children and friends and others…so dear dn’t do abortion ….save ur life..
Jossy Dominion Owule
September 18, 2012 at 6:02 PM
my dear sister, i think u made a big mistake at the initial stage. U shld have agreed to go back to the village instead of sleeping with him, bcos it’s taboo sleeping with ur uncle. Although, i know u did it out of fear but u shldn’t have agreed with him. Anyway, no cause for alarm, all things being equal, make sure u stay in that house until his wife return. Make sure u expose him in the presence of his wife and the public. Meanwhile, do not abort the baby for God is against abortion.
I wish u good luck in all endavours, God will definitely see u through. pray without ceasing.
Opar
September 19, 2012 at 2:45 AM
Hi Dammy,pls abort it and let it go,GOD WIL c u tru {amen}.
Monday Chukwuyem
September 19, 2012 at 11:54 AM
u could'nt have socumed to his threat by allowing him, he may be the one to shame if he sent u to the village bc u must tell people why he sent u back.It has happen and the only option left is abortion, in other not to end up scandalising urself.Come to think of it who will u tell people is responsible for the pregnancy.U have to abort it and forget what the child may be in future, i too love children very well but take my candid advise to save your name.
Alex freeman nyonator
September 19, 2012 at 3:36 PM
They should send him to jail for live.
Ogar Val
September 19, 2012 at 7:39 PM
Dami baby! Pls! Just 4get who d child will become, what will u tell d child when he/she grows up? Dat his/her father is ur uncle? Pls just abort it b4 its too late bcos d older d pregnancy, d more d complication. Its not ur fault, God wil c u tru it.
KING POTASSIUM
September 20, 2012 at 8:11 AM
Hi dammy, don’t abort that pregnant, bcos they said things happen to make things happens, accept it as fate, pray to ur creator to show u d way, babe if he sent u away, may ur creator direct ur helper to u who wil help u.
Nneka Oguh lawrence
September 20, 2012 at 12:32 PM
Hi dammy plz dn’t abort d pregnancy. Its not right. if d child grows up, tell him/her every thing, I knw its not ur fault. He/she will understand. D baby might be of help to u in future. Ur uncle must surely dance the rhythm of the music he tuned on. report to d police, Ngo, ur reverend father or pastor ok. Its well
Daniel Ameh
September 20, 2012 at 4:49 PM
Hey dammy pls dnt abort dat pregnancy… Its against d comandmnt of God.. Dat means u’ve commited murder… Jst pray nd God wil c u through…. Nd remember it is written THE WICKED SHALL HAVE NO PEACE… Courage my frnd nd b strong, Jesus luvs u..
Jude Amara mack
September 21, 2012 at 11:58 AM
Hi Dammy, stupid enough 2 open ur legs 4 dat swine, you av ruined ur lyf. God makes a way in d hardest situations of our lives. goin 2 village or out of his hse wouldn’t av bin so catastrophic as diz. dat bastard shld rotten in jail n his p**is cut off.
Afolabi samson
September 22, 2012 at 9:43 AM
Dis is somehow convincing,its a taboo 4 a broda 2 impregnate her sister cos wot story wil u tell d child.go 2 church n explain urself,God wil c u through.
Damino
September 22, 2012 at 11:53 AM
Pls dammy dnt try to abort o,wait til his wife cums bk and xpose him to d public.after xposin him,go straight to d NGO.God wil see u tru
jenny
September 23, 2012 at 2:42 PM
How can ur child be ur own cousin. U shud hav even ran out of d house b4 he says so. Instead of slpin wt him. Givin birth to d baby wont be an easy task o.
Olwale
September 24, 2012 at 8:55 PM
Dammy nawa ooooo what a young girl like u dat has a brighter future but nigeria prob as lead to were u don’t belong it a pity God is ur strength and he will be with u at all time Amen. Were d damage as been made already u need is solution to dis prob of urs and to seek for my advise pls kindly mail @ globalfortunesystemtec@yahoo.com for an important issue?
akande oladapo
September 25, 2012 at 1:27 AM
See I dnt knw why pple ar running away frm d truth u initiated d prblem urself why is it dat u didn’t wnt to go to d village if u go to d village does it mean u ar going to die u really wnt dat sex to be sincere u ar starvd of sex dat is it if u ar nt why did nt u find smbdy to report to if u can’t go to police ar u nt matured enough to kn dat u ll be pregnant wen u av sex it means u av been enjoying sex wit him b4 u gt pregnant who kns maybe if u ar nt pregnant u ll still continue to av sex wit him if dis story is true nd nt fabricatd u shld report to d police cos dis is rape they might nt even consider it as a rape cos after a lot of threaten u willingly accepted he did it nd u didn’t bother to go to hospital so hw will u nt get pregnant anyway dat house is nt safe 4 u anymore u can be killed jst for him to cover his atrocity.
danABAF
September 25, 2012 at 10:25 PM
hi, damy am so sory 4 wat happen, bt i nt tink openin ur legs is d best tin bt d deed as been don, u cn stat a new lyf poverty dos nt kill u cn alwayz struggle to success in lyf on ur own, cm start a new lyf wit me n ma family, wat u onli need is absolute trust, n i kw God in his mercy will hep us all, do nt abort d baby wat if it ur onli child or u die in d process, leave home b4 he send u packin, all u need is call my number 08097708333 n i wll tok 2 my parent on ur behave i hope 2 hear 4 u soon my e mail. jezreel28@live.com 08097708333’08095004810
danABAF
September 25, 2012 at 10:48 PM
consider ma request am so willin 2 hep tak resposibilities 4 d unborn innocent child.
Oha damian
September 26, 2012 at 10:40 AM
Let him be,dnt abort the child.kep the child he might be a blesing to u
Alex nyonator
September 26, 2012 at 12:23 PM
Shame!!
Mustapha adeyemo
September 27, 2012 at 3:36 AM
Do not abort the baby,the Almighty that created the mouth has know wat it wil eat..this just a life chalenge may god see you through…
Albert
September 27, 2012 at 6:53 PM
Face whatever it is but dont abort and make sure your uncle faces the consequences
chime blessed
September 28, 2012 at 4:23 AM
Hello pls my advice to is never think about abortion it sin before n it distures.email your contact wateva be it shelter nor support we talk direct ok.
topsy
September 30, 2012 at 2:39 PM
Dammy,pls don,t abort the pregnancy. God will take care of u and the baby, report to thepolice
Blessing
October 4, 2012 at 3:54 PM
Cwt hrt pls dnt murder d innocent child,GOD knew al diz b4 u were creatd. Gv u treasure-gift d chance 2 knw wat lyf is. It’s nt gonna b easy bt bear d unlastin shame on earth & enjoy an evalastin peace smday in HEAVEN.
Dmitri
October 7, 2012 at 10:51 PM
Hi Dear Dammy!
I am deeply touched by your story.
Please, do not despair !
Just remember that God loves You and the more desperate is your situation, the more god is willing to help You !
You lost your mother on earth, but please Believe, that you have our heavenly mother, Mother Mary in Heaven. Pray the Rosary and ask BLESSED VIRGIN to help you.
I am telling this from my own experience.
I will pray for you!
Please contact me at email dima357@gmail.com.
I will do my best to help you.
God bless you!
Your Dmitry
Jek
October 10, 2012 at 1:55 PM
its quite unfortunate oit hapens, to play safe u ought 2 hav protected urself or better stil get it straight 2 him 2 put-on condom to de situation u’re in… abortion??????? think twice its quite dangerous; only de lucky ones come out of it, pity! pity!! pity!!!
bello derrick
October 17, 2012 at 9:54 PM
Pls don’t abort de baby there is no proble without a solution ok u can email me bello.derrick.5@gmail.com stay cool bye
alexander
October 24, 2012 at 4:14 PM
Sue him to curt
Anthony Nkwonta
October 31, 2012 at 4:07 PM
please don't abort the baby.
markel123
November 10, 2012 at 9:14 PM
Hi dami, God wil c u tru all dis huddles. YOUR UNCLE Shud be flogged and hanged.
Jessica jamez
November 12, 2012 at 6:11 PM
Gf am gana advice yah az a sis nt do abort d baby….God knws y it apend,,,u abortin d unborn child u gana get hurt xome day..
mikel
November 14, 2012 at 7:58 AM
Please life never end my dear Damilola,I just read this now and i felt bad about hat happened to you but my Advice is this,Don;t Abort the babe dear,I have a daughter with a woman Thailand here and she stay in my country with my mom,i will be back in Nig this Xmas,i really need a woman to be my wife,if they trow u out,dont ever regret it,i am alive and i love to take te challenge and let your uncle see what you will be,i m not a guy to talk and dont fulfill what i said,just email me your name and mobile number and you will come back to NAIJA pal and tell everybody body that God has answered your prayer………Email me -mentor4u2007@yahoo.com.
I look forward to see your email please
mikel
November 14, 2012 at 7:59 AM
Please life never end my dear Damilola,I just read this now and i felt bad about hat happened to you but my Advice is this,Don;t Abort the babe dear,I have a daughter with a woman Thailand here and she stay in my country with my mom,i will be back in Nig this Xmas,i really need a woman to be my wife,if they trow u out,dont ever regret it,i am alive and i love to take te challenge and let your uncle see what you will be,i m not a guy to talk and dont fulfill what i said,just email me your name and mobile number and you will come back to NAIJA pal and tell everybody body that God has answered your prayer………Email me -meikelbkk@yahoo.com
I look forward to see your email please
Eze kelechi hyscent
November 18, 2012 at 6:41 PM
Oh sorry 4dat graet lost, ur parent. But b careful dis time, men are wicked they can use dis time to useless u more. Don,t abort dat baby, it wil b a remenbrance, what u passed through after u lost ur parent, i know if ur parent r alive, u wouldn,t hv lived wt dis evil Uncle. I can help u alittle, i just finish NYSC july dis yrs no job jet, u can hv my 2Go user Name Hyscent101 or Facebook Eze kelechi hyscent. Finally giv ur life 2jesus..
james innocent
November 19, 2012 at 1:41 PM
are a fool, very big one, sleeping with your uncle.
Dee
November 27, 2012 at 1:53 AM
This story was posted in September, surely the writer has made a decision by now so what was the end result, did you keep the baby? It’s called incest people so stop telling this girl to keep the chid!!!! What a miserable existence they will both have the poor girl can’t even fend for herself let alone a child!
Jimmy
December 3, 2012 at 9:01 AM
Don’t abort it. Instead sue for a legal redress
fanuel makalaundi
December 3, 2012 at 11:30 AM
i would advise you not to abort and if he chases you from his house and sends you to your village go.Know that he is not God,and your God’s creation so first kneel down and pray to THE ALMIGHTY GOD IN HEAVEN to forgive you for the sin you did of allowing sex with your uncle,then ask for guidance,HE will assist you.If you abort you will commit another sin so two wrongs cannot make a right thing
Ozed gbaba
December 5, 2012 at 11:56 PM
Very sorry for everythin?u had kw in early u would ve go to report ur uncle to ur relatives in d village.never d less keep baby for uncle is not ur foult?d battle is now left 4 him and his wife