Dear Aunty Temi,
I am a 26-years-old virgin. People say if I get married I’d have a problematic pregnancy. Is it true? Please advise me!
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Girls…girls…girls, I can’t help but wonder where you get all these myths about virginity from neither do I know the type of brains that formulate them but I can guess they come from children of the devil! DO YOU KNOW HOW GOLDEN, HOW PRECIOUS, HOW UNCOMMON, HOW GLORIOUS IT IS TO BE A VIRGIN AT 26? Mark my words; even if you think you’re not good-looking, you have what it takes to magnetize the best things in life to yourself including the most honorable men, one of which would adore you and take good care of you for the rest of your life! DID YOU KNOW THAT? You have what some of the most beautiful women in the world can never have if only you would be spiritually-awake to see what’s inside you and activate it; use it as a weapon to have dominion over all things. You have what it takes to have phenomenal success and live your dream life no matter the adverse combination of your circumstance.
You have what can make you possess so much of the power of God and be a threat to stupid, bad, devil all the days of your life! Sadly, instead of basking in the glory of what you’ve painstakingly developed yourself to become, you are busy hanging around wet blankets and envious lot who have long been lost in the wilderness of life and confused by the devil and those who wish they kept themselves till their wedding night! Haa…haa…haa…shaking my head….May the devil not have the last laugh over your life and destroy the palace God is constructing for you by making you fall foolishly for its (devil’s) wiles!
Your virginity has absolutely nothing to do with your fertility or child delivery! It has no adverse effects on your health either! Preserving your virginity till marriage is in the interest of your destiny and the very best thing that could happen to any young lady! Do you know the magnitude of trouble you’d be saving yourself from? Do you know how fast you’ll manifest the glory of God because you’ve not loaded yourself with transference of strange spirits from multiple sex partners you’d never know till Jesus comes? Did you know so many men and women are in pain today due to spiritual problems emanating from sex? Do you know so many children who were formed by God as shining stars on earth may never fulfill destiny because they came through a channel which could not afford them a stable home, good upbringing and nurture them to align with God’s divine agenda?
My uncommon anonymous,
Certainly, you are very far from the Holy Spirit. Your spiritual life is questionable otherwise you would never listen to the rot people have been feeding you with least of all be afraid! If you were filled with the power of the Holy Ghost, you should be rejoicing at what God has planned for you,(1 Cor.2:9-11) wallowing in the joy and admiration it will bring you and championing chastity till marriage! I pray you don’t misuse your precious state!.
I hope you activate the power of God in you and get your virginity to be the best thing that happened to you! BE CAREFUL, BE CAREFUL, BE CAREFUL! The ball is in your court. We all are entitled to make choices that suit us the best. However, being a virgin at 26 deserves no less than the best things in life most of all spiritual gifts that would ensure your entire time on earth is blissful! Receive sense in Jesus name!