Emeka Ike Is A Drug Addict, He Smokes Marijuana – Suzanne Emma Dares Ex-Husband In New Interview

Emeka Ike Is A Drug Addict, He Smokes Marijuana Weed – Suzanne Emma Dares Ex-Husband In New Interview

In an exclusive interview, Suzanne Emma, ex-wife of renowned Nollywood actor Emeka Ike, breaks her silence and shares her side of a tumultuous story that has kept the internet ablaze. Her narrative paints a picture of a marriage fraught with abuse, betrayal, and a struggle for identity and freedom.

Suzanne’s encounter with Chude, a notable Nigerian talk show host, was not just an interview; it was a revelation of years of suppressed emotions and untold stories. She opened up about her life with Emeka Ike, addressing the grave accusations he had levelled against her, including allegations of withholding his children, crippling his businesses, and attacking his career.

The interview began with Suzanne recalling the moment she learned about Emeka’s latest media outburst. The pain and frustration in her voice were palpable as she recounted her decision to finally speak up. For a decade, she had silently endured the aftermath of an abusive relationship, but the constant media bashing and defamation by Emeka pushed her to her limits.

Contrary to popular belief, Suzanne clarified that Emeka never knelt in court to beg her to stay in the marriage. In fact, he had publicly stated, “Who wants you back?”, a comment that even the judge acknowledged. This was a stark contrast to the image of a pleading, remorseful husband that the media had portrayed.

Suzanne’s marriage to Emeka was marked by control and abuse from the onset. She entered the relationship with dreams of becoming an actress, only to have them crushed by Emeka, who forbade her from pursuing her passion. She was also barred from participating in the Miss Nigeria pageant, despite being approached by an agency. Her aspirations and independence were systematically stifled under the guise of preserving their relationship.

The abuse in their marriage wasn’t just physical; it was multi-faceted, encompassing verbal, emotional, psychological, and financial aspects. Suzanne described how Emeka’s controlling nature extended to her career choices, her self-expression, and even her basic freedom to work. The marriage, which began when she was just 18, quickly turned into a prison of sorts, with Emeka dictating every aspect of her life.

Suzanne’s turning point came after a particularly brutal incident of physical abuse, which left her temporarily paralyzed. This incident, witnessed by their children and Emeka’s personal assistant, marked the beginning of the end of their marriage for Suzanne. Yet, she stayed for two more years, enduring more abuse and trying to protect her children from their father’s wrath.

Emeka’s allegations that Suzanne had stolen his properties and sabotaged his career were vehemently denied. She left the marriage with nothing but her clothes, certificates, and two of their children. Her departure was a desperate escape from a life of constant fear and oppression.

The interview with Chude was a cathartic moment for Suzanne. For the first time, she had the platform to share her story, to clear her name, and to confront the narrative that Emeka had spun in the media. Her story is a testament to the resilience and strength of a woman who survived an abusive relationship and is now bravely facing her past to ensure a better future for herself and her children.

Suzanne Emma, in her heart-wrenching interview with Chude, delved deeper into the intricate details of her marriage to Emeka Ike, a relationship that was far from the glamorous facade often associated with celebrity unions. Her revelations painted a picture of a life dominated by fear, control, and abuse.

Suzanne’s journey with Emeka was not just marred by physical violence; it was a complex web of emotional and psychological torment. She recounted numerous instances where Emeka’s words and actions deeply scarred her, to the point where she preferred physical abuse over the emotional and verbal onslaught. This pattern of abuse, as Suzanne described, escalated as she began to assert herself more in the relationship.

Her attempts to establish some semblance of independence were met with severe backlash. Emeka’s controlling nature extended to every facet of her life, stripping her of her identity and aspirations. The dream of being an actress, which initially brought her into Emeka’s life, was quickly squashed under his directive. Suzanne’s attempts to pursue modeling and participate in beauty pageants were also crushed by Emeka’s insistence that such endeavors would ruin their relationship.

The abuse culminated in an incident that left Suzanne nearly paralyzed. This moment, occurring in front of their children, was a turning point for her. The physical violence had reached a peak, but even then, she stayed for two more years, a decision she reflects on with regret and disbelief.

Addressing Emeka’s claims of her sabotaging his career and stealing his property, Suzanne categorically denied these allegations. She shared that she left the marriage with nothing more than personal belongings and her children. She emphasized that the narrative spun by Emeka in the media was a gross misrepresentation of the truth.

Suzanne also spoke about the custody battle for their children. Despite the court’s decision, Emeka kept the children away from her, leading them to believe she had abandoned them. This action, according to Suzanne, was another form of punishment and control that Emeka exerted even after their separation.

In a revealing moment, Suzanne discussed the financial struggles they faced during their marriage, countering Emeka’s claims of her extravagant spending. She painted a picture of a family constantly in financial turmoil, partly due to Emeka’s alleged drug use, which she believed played a significant role in their failed plans and projects.

The interview with Suzanne Emma is not just a tale of a broken marriage in Nollywood. It’s a stark reminder of the often-hidden realities of domestic abuse. Her story sheds light on the complexities of abusive relationships, the difficulty of leaving, and the courage it takes to speak up. It’s a call to society to listen, support, and not judge those who find themselves in similar situations. Suzanne’s journey is a testament to resilience, a voice for the voiceless, and a beacon of hope for others enduring similar trials.

See the raw excerpt of the interview below:

The interview took place between talk show host Chude Jideonwo and Suzanne Emma, the estranged wife of popular Nollywood actor Emeka Ike.

Introduction from the host:

This is an exclusive. Susan Emma, the wife of famous actor, Emeka, Ike, is speaking to the press for the first time in her life.
Her husband has made heavy accusations that she has withheld his children from him, that she has crippled his businesses, that she has attacked his career and insinuated that people are after his life. She reached out to me to tell her side of the story incidentally, a few weeks ago, had confirmed Emeka as a guest, but couldn’t schedule it because our seizing recordings were ending.
Emeka was invited to talk to me and he agreed. Unfortunately at the last minute he had another engagement. I had said he will make it again.
But today, we have an emotional roller coaster of a conversation with Susan, his ex wife, and their son, their first son, Michael.
Whatever you think of this story, it is going to shock you. It is going to shock you deeply.
Jude: Thank you so much for joining me.
Suzanne: Thank you very much.
Jude: Yeah. These are not the best of times to be meeting.
It seems I want to go straight into it, you know, because the internet has been on fire
Yes.
Over the past one week because of allegations, heavy allegations that your ex husband Yeah.
made before I talk about the issues where were you when you had these things?
it was early in the morning. Yeah.
I I just woken up and I saw, a message from my sister, you know, and it was, like, just become his at it again, you know.
And then going into the the message and seeing the same thing that has been going on for the past 10 years.
And, I just, like, this is it. I’ve had enough.
You know, I I need to put an into this. Right.
You know, because I feel like I kind of ran out of an abusive relationship, but I’m still under abuse for the past 10 years.
Because I’ve tried to move on with my life.
I’ve tried to build my life from scratch, you know, but this person just keeps going to the media space to bash, you know, defame me and cook up lies and just say things that never existed or, you know, something that he he has built up on, you know.
So, I just decided it’s time to speak up.
This is the first time that you are ever speaking up on this issue in the media, isn’t it?
Yes, it is.
Yes. What we remember from this marriage as a as the public is.
And then in 2016 2017, we know that was in court with you
Yes.
Begging you not to go. Yeah.
The news that we heard was that he knelt down in court and begged you and his friends knelt down the court and begged you.
No, that never happened.
That never happened.
Yes. That never happened. In court, you would always say that, he would do the right thing.
He would come to my family, you know, who would discuss and everything, and, you know, they’ll they’ll tell us to go back and do that.
And they will adjourn the case.
The next adjourn date, we come back they ask me, did he come to you?
I would say, no, because that never happened. You understand?
In fact, if I may say in court, he had actually told me and said, Who wants you back?
And I had pointed out to the judge and the judge has said that he hurt him, you know, so it was early for sad you know, because he just wanted to look good and to stretch the the joy the cut for his proceedings more than it should have been done.
He there was never any day his friends did reach out. You understand? But they were not in court.
Nobody knelt down in court to beg me.
So you said that you survived an abusive marriage, you know? Yeah. What do you mean exactly by that?
Okay. So, it started off as verbal.
It started off as cemental Tortio, started as a as psychological, started off as financial you know, financial abuse because I was not allowed to work.
You understand?
He didn’t allow you to work.
Didn’t allow me to Actually, I wanted to be an actress. That’s why I became his friend.
I was modeling at that time. I just come out to secondary school I was eighteen.
And then I met him along the line and I wanted to be, you know, someone who would put me into the industry and all that and categorically told me I wouldn’t, act because it would destroy our relationship because at that time we had gotten it on a relationship, you know.
And he said he was planning to marry me and, you know, the tabloids, then it was newspapers.
So they’ll talk about him, talk about me, I need to break them the the the relationship and all the marriage, you know.
so he told you not to become an actor because of the relationship.
Yes. Yes. He did say that even stopped my modeling career.
In fact, I had been approached by an agency to to to be sponsored for miss Nigeria at that time.
That was this was 99. He also refused.
He said he could handle me crying if I don’t towing, you know, things like that.
And I had to go back to the agency to see my parents, my family didn’t want me to do it.
And then I went to my family and said, the agency dropped me because because I didn’t know to to say to them because he was saying, no, that I won’t do it.
You met when you were eighteen? Yes. You got married when you were nineteen.
No, we didn’t get married till I was, I think 23 going on 24.
I was already pregnant with our second child.
When when we got my in fact, I had to be the one to speak out, like, you need to do something because this is our second child.
So I was already heavy and, I regret it. Why? Yeah.
Because, even during the wedding, he came late from the state he was shooting at that time, they never blessed us.
It was his older sister’s husband who was studying and, you know, the wine changing and blessings and all that was done.
All through when we had collected the lease from my uncle and giving to him, and we were preparing on our side and I was always calling him, are you, you know, in tune with your family on the list to get everything?
His family came empty handed. They didn’t bring anything.
In even a family would always laugh at me at my back and say I married myself.
Wow.
You know, it was always a case of, she wants to marry a star and she has to work for it.
And I did. I slid for that family. Everything that he wanted to do I was a designated driver.
Everything that he wanted to do, I was the one who was always doing things for them.
I was in it on my side because of lost because this was my family.
As long as, you know, you are my friend or you are my husband’s people, you are my family because my mom was a single parent.
You’re on the hand. I come from a very humble background, you know, but not that humble. You understand?
Because my mom strives she worked hard to take care of our kids, but she protected us.
And she brought us in this very close knit, very loving home that, you know, we grew up in and so I always felt like every families like that you understand.
So, the question is, somebody would wonder about is, why why did you go ahead with the waiting despite all the disrespect?
You know, he’s waiting for about 5 years in a state relationship.
His family not paying the right price, him coming late. Obviously, there were signs. Why did you go ahead?
I didn’t see the signs as signs You understand?
I I didn’t start in hindsight, I wouldn’t even date him. You understand?
But then at that time, he was my first everything, first boyfriend. I just came out of secondary school.
I just came out of not knowing you know, anything.
I think it was when I got to be 24 that I started understanding that this is not right.
This is not how I should be treated, you know, I I now started seeing that you know, I I wouldn’t accept some things you know, that kind of thing.
And that’s why I said I regret it even doing that. Yeah. And it was until I was 28.
29 going into my thirties, I started fighting back.
Right.
And then it’s now escalated from, you know, verbal and all that name became physical. Right. Do you understand?
And then still living with that, people will say, you know, it’s a man’s world and you would I I I didn’t think of myself, you know, but until the last time that he did beat me up and I was almost paralyzed.
That was when I decided that I need to go. But still, I stayed 2 more years after that.
You know, but
It beats you until you’re almost paralyzed.
Yes, he did. Yes, he did.
I we had gone out with the kids and we came back and, I was changing my daughter, and he saw, you know, her naphtha rash, and it was a bad naphtha rash, and It was all over the place, angry, and all that.
That should be molested. And I said, How? This is Napierash, and he was going on and shouting.
Who did I give you daughter to this and that and then I should they need to they need to check her and everything and I tried to calm him down there.
This is Napura Ash. I used slim instead of powder.
That’s why it’s so red, you know, that kind of thing.
And he was going on and on and I was like, okay, and at that point I was getting upset, you know, like you can’t be doing this And then he he I was like, okay, give me money.
Let me take her to the hospital and let’s get her checked. And then he hits me, you know.
And at that point, I had like, you know, like you can’t keep beating me up, you know, and I held his hand and so he just turned me over and hits me, and then he hit me at the back of my neck here, and that was it.
I lost sensation to all my body, my body part. I went down on the floor.
I couldn’t feel my arms. I couldn’t feel anything and it kept hitting me.
It kept telling me and hitting me and I was shouting and mecca, if she hit me one more time, I would die.
I can’t feel anything. I was only seeing the stars.
So when he hits me, it goes poof, you know, that kind of thing.
And that was only what I was saying.
I could talk, I could hear, I could see but I couldn’t feel. This was in front of our kids.
This was in front of his his PA at that time, Deborah And I was, you know, trying to move my body.
My body wasn’t moving, you know.
So when he realized himself, he got up, he walked out of the house.
And I was there for like 10, 15, 20 minutes. I don’t know.
I was still trying to move trying to move trying to move my body and then I felt this sensation all over like a million pins, you know, poking me, picking me and everything.
And I think the nurse were beginning to connect or something, you know, and then I got some And now when I saw the boy, the boy keeping from the door, I guess he had told the boy to come and check if I died, you know, that kind of thing.
And then I spoke the boy’s name, I said, De Bola, and the boy ran out.
I think he didn’t want to come close so that he don’t say he’s the one that killed me or something.
And then I had his car serviced. And I picked my children and I ran to a friend’s house.
He’s denying me, but I always there are people that I run to their houses every time he beats me up, people die around to their houses in the middle of the night, people die around to their houses and their collapse.
All this happened and they are living weaknesses, I have pictures.
I presented those pictures during the divorce I still have those pictures, but I’ll only give my evidences in court.
Right. So so here, for for each kids, well, the, you have him have custody of the children and the courts determine that and say you could have access.
So And my my lawyers had advised that it is a high court because this was, customer records because we’re only married traditionally.
There was only that traditional marriage that we had.
We never did the, you know, formal one of going to the registry because he always has one woman out there who wants to give him American papers or who wants to give him this paper and that paper, well, I never consented to it because I would always say, you go there and you marry this women for papers in front of god and the minister, you’re not saying this is fake.
This is for paper.
So, he keeps the children away from you as some kind of punishment. I’ve had a divorce.
And then tells them that you have abandoned them.
Yes. Yes. When I reconciled with them, I didn’t want to come out and say, I’m here to get you, you know, and your mom and this and that.
I have custody of you because I was awarded sole custody of the children.
Well, I had to build my relationship back with them and let them, you know, know me again and my daughter didn’t recognize me.
She thought the other lady was her mom because she was 2 when she was taking away from me.
When I had left, I had left with my 2 younger kids because I felt they still needed me.
You said this marriage was abusive almost on the dead cause.
So, you you mentioned was financial abuse, was verbal abuse, it was emotional abuse. Yes.
What do you mean by verbal and emotional abuse?
you know, insult putting you down every time. So you
had a terrible temper?
Yes. When I got out and I was in a friend’s car, I didn’t know I used to sit like this.
And that was because of the the lashing. I jumped out of removing the echo before.
I’ve attempted suicide 3 times.
Because of your husband?
Yes. He’s not saying all these things.
The pastors, the same pastors, the church has sent passes to our house, and he’s out there.
I’m in the bathroom. I want to sleep my wrists.
I’ve got pack of blade and him and the parcels are out there banging down my door, banging down the bathroom door.
You understand because he was he was, you know, somehow I preferred physically.
I preferred him to beat me Now to say things to me.
So the words he was saying to you were so horrible that you were taking over the line.
Yes. He would describe you in like you’re an it would describe you like you are not worth anything.
And what.
Jude: When did the physical violence start?
Suzanne: That started, like I said, when I started fighting back, because and and I think he did feel that I was growing wings, and I needed to be clipped.
You know, clamped down. So that was when it started.
There was a time we went to the hospital, my child was sick, and I was we didn’t have money.
You know, and I was trying to negotiate with the hospital if we could treat the child and would pay later.
And it was taking a little bit of time. You just came in and was yelling at me.
He said you are a fool. You don’t know how to do things. Who are these people? You can’t even talk to them.
Who are they? They are beneath you and you’re allowing them to do this and do that and I got upset and I was like, why are you being a jerk?
You know, excuse my language? And I went off into the car to sit down and immediately he was coming into the car.
His punch was the first thing that I was seeing on my jaw.
Right in front of people in the car, in the car park, you know, you know, so things like that, you dare not speak back.
You cannot look him in the eye and talk when he’s at it.
He was always you know, you have to do this. You have to do that.
You know I made you. You made me. I was eighteen.
I was pregnant with 2 of your kids when I got  into the university. Yeah.
I’m grateful for that. You understand, but that does not mean that I have to be under you.
I needed to be somebody of my own.
I needed to have my own path in life, but he wouldn’t accept anything. He wouldn’t accept anything.
The house he said, he’s claiming that he built for my mom, he didn’t build her any house.
My mom’s house was built in the seventies. How old was he in the seventies?
She was renovating, and she was doing the back, you know, and as a son-in-law, yes, he did give a gift.
You understand which we were grateful for. You understand, but he never built a house for her.
He Keeps blowing things out of proportion. You understand?
And then the school he’s claiming about, I mean, We didn’t spend that much money. So you
spent it funny on 50,000,000 now, I went down the gym.
That’s the new amount now. It used to be 100,000,000. Now, it’s 480,000,000.
The schooling costs us that much. We were still owing the owner of the house.
We had leased the building for 10 years it wasn’t really completed and we’re gonna complete it and, you know, do other things and then make it suitable for school and all that.
But we didn’t even complete the building. You understand?
So the, you know, we we don’t have spend about 30,000,000, 20,000,000, you know, but for publicity sake, you know, at first he was claiming it was 100,000,000 and now I don’t know where 480,000,000 is coming from.
Jude: It perhaps it was paid in dollars? And so he’s in the exchange rate. Yeah. Okay.
Jude: So the school thing that he so he says that you took his school.
Let’s not Let’s take the allegations one after the other. He says you took the school from him.
Is that true?

Suzanne: I left in the middle of the term. Right. I left a note October.
The school run till till 4th term. Okay. And they were dispatched. I don’t know.
Jude: So you don’t know what happened to this school?
Suzanne: I don’t know what happened. I only found out that he didn’t resume the school in January, and he had moved with the children.
So, I never knew. I never knew. Yeah. I don’t know.
Jude: : And he says that he went to the UK to the US with a luggage.
And by the time it came, you had stripped everything clean from him.
Suzanne: Okay. So, At that time, we didn’t have money. Okay.
The landlord had kicked us out of the house. The time we were giving had come to an end.
So we decided to move some things to the school compound because we still had space in still building the it’s not filled, the children, and all that.
So we had space. So I moved some things into that, into the school compound.
And I was living with his mom I was sleeping on the floor with my kids and his mom’s small apartment.
You understand? So I’ll call from Isolo to Magodo every day to run the school.
So that’s where the move is coming from. You understand?
Well, at that time, I planned to leave.
Okay.
So he traveled when he was within Nigeria, he traveled to.
So when I when I was moving, I selected my things and kept them aside with my 2 younger children.
Right. You understand? Yeah. So when he landed, and he called me to tell me I’d landed.
And I said, I’ve moved out. And he said, is that what you want? I said, yes.
He said, let’s keep it quiet. I don’t want anything in the media. I don’t want to know anything.
And I said, okay, no problem. And I’ve been keeping quiet for 10 years.
He has been the one doing all the talking right now, you know.
Jude: He says that you assaulted his mother.
Is that true?
Suzanne: No. That’s that’s quite the opposite.
So I just gave him to our last child and his mom, you know, was coming to help out and his mom will come Monday to Friday.
She leaves on Friday that she must go to church. She must attend her church.
So my mom comes Friday to help. You know, my mom will leave in the morning on Monday .
There was this one day his mom accosted my mom. you know, we’re all out there in, you know, talking and laughing and all that.
My mom, they picked her bag and said, she was leaving.
And by time she got into the middle of the compound, his mom hijacked my mom.
She was shouting and saying my mom has stolen her son’s money again. My mom should give her her money.
She needs her money. She wants to do things.
She tore my mom’s clothes and my mom was naked.
And my mom was like, can you find your son’s money on me?
My mom emptied her bags and everything and, you know, trying to say that I don’t have any money on me.
Which money have I stolen? You understand? And I got upset and I told her, Mommy, I am tired.
I am tired, you can have your son back and I picked my kids and I left.
The next day He called the pastor, he called me, we came back, and his sister was there, and, you know, ranting.
She’d bit of my mom, if my mom was still around, that my mom picked up her mother.
And I was like, I don’t understand. And she said, yes, that’s what they are saying.
And I was like, no, that’s never happened, you know.
And his mom, after everything, had told me that his son was the one propelling the beating parts that she never told anyone anybody ever beat her.
Jude: So his mother said she never told anybody about your mother.

Suzanne: My husband was the one propelling that’s she was beaten up.
Jude: What  you’re describing is a deeply toxic situation.
Suzanne: This is what I lived. This is what I lived 14 years of my life.
Jude: Now, there’s also the litigation of his properties that you essentially have taken away.
Suzanne: When I left, I only took my clothes, my international passport, my certificates, my 2 children and their clothes.
That was the only thing I took.
I’m not in possession of his properties where I didn’t know their locations and all that Well, how would you sell somebody’s property if you don’t have the papers or documents?
I don’t have anything. He’s the one who I have heard has been selling off his properties.
You know, we couldn’t even finish our our buildings and all that because of his drug use.
We couldn’t make things out of life. We couldn’t do anything with, you know, we couldn’t plan.
We couldn’t go ahead with our plans because of his drug use.

Emeka Ike’s Drug Addiction Problem Exposed By Ex-Wife.

Jude: So he had a drug problem? Yes. When you say trouble, you mean a drug?
Suzanne: Well, I didn’t know he was taking drugs.
It was when my kids came back, they told me that he takes drugs.
Jude: What kinds of drugs?
Meth, whatever. They said they found his paraphernalia.
You know, and that made me realize why, why money would finish, why we plan and say, okay, this one is coming in.
We need to do this. Going to do this and all of a sudden, one is gone.
Jude: You just described him as a drug addict essentially?
Suzanne: Yes.
Jude: Do you think the drugs alleged contributed to this entire lack of peace?
Suzanne: Yeah. It might have. I’m not a medical person, but I think it might have.
Even when I found out that he used to smoke marijuana and kicked against this.
What he said it is what makes him sane. He said it’s what, calm him down.
You know, and they try to make me understand that it’s medicinal.
It’s, you know, it’s okay and, you know, he needs it. You know, but I I don’t know.
Jude: What made you keep coming back?
This is a man who you’ve described, he beats you in front of your children.
He beats you in the car park in front of the hospital people.
He’d called you stupid and dumb you know, his sister and his brother had attacked you.
What made you keep coming back to that marriage?
Suzanne: I don’t know. I don’t know. Because, how do I put it?
In hindsight, I think it’s grooming. It’s grooming and he was threatening to kill me.
This man almost poured hot cooking oil on me. At a time.
He he will carry knife and he will be walking up and down the house.
I’ll just kill you and nobody will know. Nobody will find out. I’ll finish you off.
And the day he carried the hot oil, if I did not howl, I had to hug and clapped my hands.
And then he dropped the hot oil, and he walked out, and he was still even bragging and everything.
And I was on the phone with my sister crying and, you know, he just poured hot oil on me and my sister is like, no, he’s only bragging.
He’s only trying so he won’t do it. That was all I kept hearing.
Jude: Thinking about friends, he said that some people were blackmailing me.
That’s why you broke up with him, or that’s why you added defaults.
Suzanne: I don’t know. I don’t know anybody. I don’t know any such.
If it claims I took his properties, go to court When my mother died, he arrested me.
My mother was 2 weeks in the mortuary. I was in SARS office.
I hate to know when I’ve had left. Do you understand?
He said I’ve scanned it with his children and everything.
It was the the boss of the police who had told me that he can always arrest you.
It’s can harass you because it’s still your And if you don’t want him anymore, you need to divorce him.
So immediately I came back from my mom’s burial then I I went ahead with the because he was arresting my friends.
He was making sure that people run away from me. I lost people. People were scared.
People didn’t, you know, didn’t want to yes. Nobody buried my mother with me. No friend.
Buried my mom alone and I’m her last born.
My two sisters couldn’t come from wherever they were, but because of this man, you know, I didn’t have the back end that I needed, the support that I needed.
You understand? So, you know, it’s
What what you’re describing though is a could he use he talked about teaching your children about the psychopath and the social part.
If you are correct in everything you’ve just described about the actor, Emaki K, your ex husband, You were dealing with a sociopath because Yes.
I was. There was a day that he had finished between me and I was only floor looking at him, and then he was walking away.
He came back and I was like, it’s not me. It’s you making me do it.
And then Irani Bill, because I like to watch, crime channel, which, yeah, doing a accused me of wanting to kill him.
So I’m looking for the best possible possible means, but it was a police walk, you know, would always say, if I was abroad, I’ll I’ll do police work.
I like the police work. You know, I like code cases where they really dig and, you know, this kind of but something that struck me when he had said, it’s not me.
It’s you. You know, that denial, that putting the blame on the victim and all that.
And I quickly googled you know, psychopaths, but social path was the first and you had 10, 10 characteristics and all ten describe this person or 10.
And I called my sister and said, look at what I found. Look at this.
Look, this is what I’m facing. This is actually what going on, myself.
Like, let me do IIM 1 now.
You know, our family will always try to water down whatever you’re trying to bring up, and it wasn’t until after I left and he had said something and done something.
And my sister was like, Emma, I see it now. You were right.
As you’ve said, it fits the profile of the social path. Then it makes sense.
Why would he say all these things on left television when you have evidence when there are people who were witnessing it?
When they are friends, family.
Yes. They
can confirm it. Yes.
Suzanne: I think, he’s really convinced I won’t speak out.
Jude: I think so. I think so.
Suzanne: I think he really feels that he he finished the job. She’s never going to talk. I think so.
Yeah. And I I’m very sure this is gonna be shocker to him when this airs, I think so.
In fact, I’m expecting him to sue me because I don’t expect him to really stop, you know, but I would rather we go legal, you know, that that’s the way I do things.
Let’s, you know, just iron things out. You know, I’m here because he dragged me here.
He’s been dragging me here for the past 10 years. You understand?
And And initially, I will see people fighting for me. miss Malia, the only one talking.
This man is not saying anything.
You know, But right now, his only his narrative is the only one out there, and it’s becoming the truth.
You understand? And I needed to speak out, you know, for society’s sake. Yeah. You understand? Yeah. Yes.
What I’ve been through it’s something I will never wish for my enemy.
It’s something that I will never wish the devil himself.