Sept 18, 2012 – My Uncle Impregnates Me & Threatens To Send Me Packing If I Don’t Abort
My name is Damilola, I’m 23 years old. I lost my parents in the Christmas Day Bombing in Madalla in 2011.
Since the death of my parents, life has become a struggle for me.
I thought all hope is gone before my uncle who lives in the North came to my rescue. He told me to come and live with him.
I moved into his house in early February of this year and he promised to fund my education.
I never knew this is the beginning of my misery in life.
Few months back his wife traveled abroad to stay with their children for the summer and since then he has started behaving funny towards me.
He has been constantly demanding for sex from me as if am his wife.
On one occasion, he called me to his bedroom but I refused knowing the dare consequences of it.
I asked him how on earth could I sleep with my father’s younger brother but he didn’t pay attention to my question.
Since my refusal, he has been threatening me, he even told me he will send me back to my village if I don’t allow him to sleep with me.
After so much pressures and beating, I allowed him to have sex with me.
Few weeks ago, I started feeling so dizzy and tired. He then asked me to go for a check up and the doctor confirmed am indeed seven weeks pregnant for him.
I told my uncle about the development and he asked me to abort the pregnancy. I’m afraid I, I’ve not done such thing before and the worst of it is that his wife would return by month end. He threatened to throw me out of the house if I don’t terminate the baby.
I’m in a desperate situation, what should I do please advice me.
Email dated Sept 17 from one Dammy O.
Please let’s contribute. Your input might save this girl’s life.
December 7, 2012 at 11:20 PM
i pray for u,for the lord intervention
December 8, 2012 at 11:56 PM
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December 12, 2012 at 3:10 PM
Miss dami the first solution u have to do is to relocate to lagos and start life all over again here is my number I will help u out if u get to lagos 08138145553 make sure u call me ok.
December 14, 2012 at 2:09 PM
Miss Damni, you have not committed the worst sin ever. Don’t think of taking the life of the child. You are not its creator. Mistakes have been made. From your story,you are not to blame. First, go to GOD in genuine repentance. Our GOD is a merciful FATHER, HE will have mercy on you. Second, go to your church and report it to your pastor and proceed to your kinsmen and tell them what your uncle has done to you before he first accuses you of waywardness. Your uncle must take care of that child. May GOD strenghtens you as you go about it in JESUS’ Name. Amen.
December 15, 2012 at 9:13 AM
pls ma darlin damilola dnt try 2 abort dat baby bcos it is abominaton to man also a sin 2 God pls keep my child for me my God will see you through pls kindly Mail me @ http://firstname.lastname@example.org or call:07034909110,07080152038 for more prayers,as for ur he will die a misterious death like that of ur parent,pls take heart and pray always,am sorry for this incident.
December 22, 2012 at 2:20 PM
My dear, pls dnt do it. Go 2 any Motherless babies hme aroud u. Am vry sure deY wil help u.
December 26, 2012 at 4:35 PM
Dear Siz pliz for Heaven’s sake don’t abort…that will haunt you for life…better still fear God more than your uncle.Pliz pliz pliz dont abort
December 28, 2012 at 8:15 AM
She should abort d pregnancy dat will b a better way and nothing will happen 2 her by gods grace.
January 12, 2013 at 9:07 AM
Go get a lawyer and sue him to cout. Or just report to the police.
January 14, 2013 at 9:34 PM
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January 20, 2013 at 1:33 PM
Its so pathetic, I will advice u abort d pregnancy though its risky 2ur health but 2 avoid sadness and unending sorrow in d future. After d abortion u make sure u move out from dat ur uncle’s cubicle dat calls house. To av u as my sister is what I can do for u but too pay d school fee is something serious. If we can see I know all shall be possible by d grace of God….Just av it in mind that “All is well”….u can reach me on dis e-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org then will knw what to do. Take heart
January 22, 2013 at 3:58 PM
plz demi dnt abort d baby. He/she may b d source ov ur blexing k
January 23, 2013 at 5:57 AM
Pls don’t abort de baby.
January 26, 2013 at 10:39 PM
Its so pathetic but don’t abort d baby , God dat created mouth has known wat it will eat.just a life challenge God will send a helper 2 u my dear.
January 27, 2013 at 4:55 PM
u must not abort that pregnacy or u wil face the consequences of God almighty.that is al i have to tell you
February 23, 2013 at 4:59 AM
plz dnt abort da baby in da end ur baby da best tanf dat eva happend to ya ur gonna thank me one day
March 3, 2013 at 7:18 AM
The girl should tell the man to rent an apartment for her so she can leave the house and have her baby so that the man’s wife when returned will not know that the husband is reponsible. And if the man refused to do so, she should leave the man’s house and later come back when the woman is back to tell her the thrut how every thing happened.