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I’m Married But Sex Now Irritates Me. What’s The Way Forward

August 22, 2012 – I’m Married But Sex Now Irritates Me. What’s The Way Forward

This woman needs your input.

She is a 32 years old woman who is happily married for five years.

She is finding sex very irritating at this stage in her life.

Read her email dated August 22 below.

“I am 32yrs old and I have been married for 5years with 3kids. My last is 15months old. After my last child I don’t enjoy sex anymore. I just pray my husband hurries up and get it over with. 99% of the time I fake orgasm. My husband happens to be the 2nd guy I’ve ever slept with all my life. I tried discussing this with my husband but pretended as if it happened to a friend and the 1st thing that came out of his mouth was “that marriage is dead. So her husband is sleeping with a wood” So i kept my mouth shut and didn’t disclose that I was the one. I have tried all the things I have read especially online to see if I can build my libido but nothing is working. I will like to know if there are other women out there who are going through or have gone through same thing and what they did. Please help!”

Your contributions will be highly appreciated for this woman.



  1. ikatuboh Alison B

    August 23, 2012 at 8:16 PM

    The only solution is for she to go on her knees & talk to God in prayers,bible said cast ur burden upon him.

  2. Kenneth

    August 24, 2012 at 12:21 AM

    My support is dat she shuld pray nd fast over d issue nd God wil show her d right way.

  3. tonye princess

    August 24, 2012 at 11:23 AM

    my candid suggestion is to cast her mind back to the past life,and i think there is somebody she is in love with apart from her husband thats y her love life is divided.

  4. TT

    August 24, 2012 at 1:13 PM

    You need to pray, and also tink of the good times u’ve ever had with ur husband.

  5. Ojo oyewole

    August 30, 2012 at 5:11 AM

    Go and pray to God, with him all thing are possible

  6. Damino

    August 30, 2012 at 8:11 PM

    There are some herbs dat increases has hapened to a frnd of mine and was treatd by local herb.try yemkem

  7. Joshua ibrahim

    September 4, 2012 at 7:13 AM

    Pls read jer 29:11 and bliv God will see u through

  8. Gatamwarwa

    September 8, 2012 at 5:14 AM

    May be there is some thing you hate on him.pls pray

  9. Marvis

    September 10, 2012 at 4:03 PM

    I surgest she make out time 2 spend d weekend wit her husband let her try 2 tink of d gudtimes dey hav spent 2geda b4 havin kids

  10. obohblessed

    September 27, 2012 at 9:37 AM

    prayer is d key 2 such situatn,nd dnt 4get hw u started ur luv life.

    • oseghale blessing

      October 3, 2012 at 3:18 PM

      try 2 remember the first time u met each is boring when u wit sum1 u dnt love.its like rape.try and rekindle wat u feel 4each oda.

  11. Pastor Uluba Jawur

    October 11, 2012 at 5:43 PM

    Does he do things that show you that he doesn’t love or respect you? If he doesn’t love or respect you, your desire for sex may dwindle. Anyway, everything is possible with God and with him or her that believes (Matthew 19:26; Mark 9:23; 10:27; Luke 1:45; 18:27). While I agree that you should pray about it, also ensure that you don’t worry at all (Philippians 4:6). I await your testimony my friend.

  12. babafemi

    December 9, 2012 at 6:12 PM

    I don’t want to sound religious; i think she needs a sex therapist or better still a psychologist, she may hav a troubled mind without knowing what d problem is, she can also speak wit a counsellor.

  13. Upleeke

    December 10, 2012 at 12:43 PM

    The Lady needs to see Specialists and explain her Situations to them. Every Problem Shared, problem Solved. Dont be shy and voice out.

  14. Oluwatade Samuel

    January 16, 2013 at 5:10 AM

    I will suggest that our sister seek expert on this issue. In addition she could buy ‘TREVO’ the latest supportive nuitritional in the market. I had reccomended it to friends and they having wonderful testimonies. Above all prayer is also needed.

  15. isabella anderson

    January 20, 2013 at 10:54 PM

    Madam ur case is veri complicated bt my advice 4 u is dat u shld watch pop movies 2 build up ur sex urge.

  16. chuka

    February 18, 2014 at 8:01 AM

    there is a fondermental issue here. the guy must have done something to her that realy hurt her. she should try and talk it over with him and find a place in her heart to forgive and forget. its only prostitutes that fake sex. its indeed emotional

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