Nigerian Gay Kenny Brandmuse Narrated How Marriage Crashed Bcos He’s Attracted To Men

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Jan 8, 2015 – Kenny Brandmuse Talks Divorce & Ex-Wife: Nigerian Gay Narrated How Marriage Crashed Bcos He’s Attracted To Men

When I first told my ex-wife that I was gay, we were far from being married. I wanted her to find other men honorably, who had a thing for women. I never did. I ‘swear down.’ I was only obeying the popular demand of traditions. Now, this was my terrible mistake. No one should live their life based on dogmas and other people’s expectations. As far as I could remember, even though I was always dating girls, I had always preferred being with a man. I had fought it with every fiber of spirituality in me as a Pentecostal preacher boy (find details and journeys in my book ‘THE EXODUS.’) The more I fought my sexual preference for men, the more I became more miserable. Unfortunately, as erroneously believed, sex wasn’t the problem. I had been having sex with women as far back as a twelve-year-old. Sexuality is whom we are emotionally present with, not whom we are sleeping with. And oh boy, she really tried to make me a heterosexual. But I’m still not, sadly.

One of those pre-marriage days, while we were with our marriage counseling team, I brought up the issue again – that I had always had a preference for men. I wanted the Ministers to dissuade her from the marriage. I just couldn’t put a ring on a fat big lie. My father taught me one principle: DIE FOR YOUR OWN TRUTH, EVEN IF IT’S UNPOPULAR, BUT DON’T HARM OTHERS WITH IT. She was so happy to tell the ministers, as quickly as she could, that my feelings for men would all be gone, because she believed it was a childhood disorder. I guess she meant she was going to fck my brains into heterosexuality. This is a mistake a lot of us make. We all want to change people to conform to our preferences. We find it easier to play god in the lives of people we did not make.

After six years together, I knew I was not getting any better. I STILL LOVED MEN. And one day, because I didn’t want to cheat on her, I humbly asked her that we should go our separate ways. That was when all hell broke loose. She suddenly forgot about how it all started. In court, she told the Judge how she suddenly found out that I was gay, and how it’s against the Law of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. In other words, she wanted me sentenced to the new 14 years jail term served by the Nigerian government. Luckily, I was in a civil court. Sadly, that day, I had to duck my face in shame as the crowd jeered at me for being whom I had always been. ‘You faggot’ ‘Oh what a shameful man!’ ‘homo!’ ‘Na wa o ‘ I still don’t know how I walked out of the court premises that day. ( this case is still ongoing) What about my business.? Tell any client in Nigeria that you are gay, and you lose their business. That’s exactly what happened. I lost friends, businesses, sponsorships and family members. I had to start my life all again. Applied for a new job. Get back to school. Although my ex-wife is one of the most faithful and beautiful women in Nigeria, she is a victim of institutionalized homophobia. Just like many people who are reading this.

It will be exactly a year today, when Nigeria instituted a law to jail people like me. What’s our offense? Because we are simply wired differently. There are only about 5 to 10% of homosexuals in every population as cited by popular findings and documents. Why is a 90% dominant population afraid of its 10%? Shouldn’t you care about us? Don’t you think it’s a lot easier to be seen as part of the 90%? And before you throw those religious verses at us for being wired differently, I want to leave you with my favorite Bible verses from Romans 8:Italics mine:

That Nothing Can Separate Us from ( the universal narrative of ) God’s Love

31 What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? 32 Since he did not spare even his own Son ( in the popular narratives according to the Christian Faith ) but gave him up for us all, won’t he also give us everything else? 33 Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for his own? No one—for God himself has given us right standing with himself. 34 Who then will condemn us? No one…

38 And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[b] neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. 39 No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in ( in the narrative of ) Christ Jesus our Lord.

25 thoughts on “Nigerian Gay Kenny Brandmuse Narrated How Marriage Crashed Bcos He’s Attracted To Men

  1. Is this the new trend among guys in Ondo? my best friend from Ondo just came out gay last also.
    U faggots need nothing but deliverance. Satan has fucked up your mind to end u in hell. I pity the woman that carried u to term

  2. Very soon you will start wearing pampers, they will deport u from that place to begin serving your 14 years sentence. maggot

    • Even d devil knows d bible,so the fact that he quotes bible verses does not mean he is a xtian,the bible also says,not all the people that calls me God shall inherit d kingdom of God.so,dont bring in religion @ all

  3. WELL DONE MY GUY, KEEP ON BONKING THE GAR DARM ASS HOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE,

    THE ASS IS YOURS FOR GOOD , IF YOU LIKE YOU CAN DO THE DOGGY OR HORSE ,
    PLEASE GO F**K ALL THE GAR DARM ASS IN THIS PLANET ,

    I WOULD LIKE TO SAY ,IT IS NOBODY BUSINESS , I WILL HELP YOU TELL ALL THE AMEBOS TO MIND THEIR OWN GAR DAM BUSINESS .

    BECAUSE, IT IS YOUR LEAKING ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS HOLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE AND YOU NEED TO PUT ON THE PAMPER AND USE BLEACH TO CURE THE SMELL , AND YOU DO NOT MIND IF MAGGOT COMES OUT OF YOUR CORKY. AHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

    MY GUY , CARRY ON BONKING THE GAR DAM ASS HOLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE AHR HA AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

  4. 1 corinthian 3:16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of GOd, and that the spirit of GOd dwelleth in you ? 17, IF any man defile the temple of GOd, him shall GOd destroy, for the temple of GOd is holy, which temple ye are. 18 Let no man deceive himself. If any man among you seemeth to be wise in this world , let him become a fool, that he may be wise. go to genesis 19 that you may know better, thank,s

  5. Heh is is not this man who live with HIV. Does this guy have it as well. Have they tested that his ex-wife. What a pity. Gays are initiated by evil spirits in dreams. Is a devil thing. God forgive this man and all gay men and lesbian women.

  6. You all are *****.why the insult when his try to say his mind..Am a proud Gay and am happy being that..

  7. Make all ov una wey de talk shut up dat una gutter wey una call mouth…….wetin b una biz.
    Una don check una sef finish, b4 una open dat una sewage ov a mouth.
    How eva, bros ah pity u, chaii! ah sowi 4 yhu ooo
    Ehya take heart……buh nede quote yeye bible script, me no lyk am. ‘Cause na satan been go church pass even up tu nau en boi-boizz don de kari award 4 lam.
    If u judge pesin, wia u dae go, Hell or Heaven??…..abeg make pesin ansa me.

  8. I am truly honored to be South African,and being married to a man after a misleading divorce with a woman. we have long passed the hatred stage.Homosexual laws protect women the most as men are not compelled to get married for societal expectation whilst with other men on the low.fact is same sex love is from biblical times.
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  9. Bro i feel ur struggle, we all human have one and u were able to pour out ur anguish, trauma and pain us, probably to get calm and meek advice yet some hypocrites dat called themselves Christians, abuse u d more. I pray u find peace Brother

  10. I feel your pain, but Nigeria is not a place for u, even the so called senators that made the law, some of them are gay. we live in a country where vital issues are ignored for trivial ones. We should be thinking of how this country will grow, bcos whether we make the law or not, guys are still fucking their ass holes.

  11. why would anybdy wana liv witout joy ng happiness……i will marry a man if dats wot wil make me happy…….jst d way an hetro feels on his wedding day……..i guese gays ar also human nt allien….

    we deserve liberty……note being gay doesnt makes us a bad person……i wonda if jesus christ was born in african……wil he succeed wit his mission for nt gettin married or aving a girl frnd at age 33…….am sure d fools dat rate dem self to b a good judge over others would av persecuted him for his lifestyle ……my question is….
    is der any perils noted caused by gay act……..unlike bokoaram……can u go to bokoaram coven to make such comment u make here to dem?

  12. ayo why would anybdy wana liv witout joy ng happiness……i will marry a man if dats wot wil make me happy…….jst d way an hetro feels on his wedding day……..i guese gays ar also human nt allien…. we deserve liberty……note being gay doesnt makes us a bad person……i wonda if jesus christ was born in african……wil he succeed wit his mission for nt gettin married or avin

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