January 2nd, 2017 – Emotional Abuse: Japanese Man Refuses To Speak To Wife For 20 Year Because She Gave Attention To Their Children
Meet Otou Yumi, a jealous Japanese man who has abandoned his wife, Katayama Yumi emotionally since 1996 because she gave much attention to their children.
Out of jealousy, Otou decided to stop responding to his wife anytime she speaks to her.
The couple’s son, 18-year-old Yoshiki Yumi wrote a TV show asking for help to reunite his parents.
Wow! Many women seem to forget the word “balanced equation” Men tend to get a 80_20 when it comes to jealousy but too bad some women are blind and too busy notice it.
U don’t transfer all attention to ur kids and leave ur husband totally out of the circle, u balance it 50/50 cos these children will someday leave u both to raise their own family too.
I understand the mans reasons but still, it wasn’t good enough to leave his wife with those beautiful kids all alone without a fatherly care and presence. I think the son did a very good job in trying to reunite them
Original madness niyen.
It is a pity that when a loved one makes you hurt emotions block out good sense. Raising a family entails a lot of commitment that a spouse might sometimes feel isolated…… Considering that before the arrival of kids the attention was only directed at the spouse. The man should himself have bombarded his wife with so much attention such that she had no alternative than to respond to him in kind. After all, he must have given her serious attention during courtship that she forsaking all others accepted him as her husband…… The diversion of attention to their kids could therefore be balanced by his involvement with his wife and also with the raising of their kids.
I pray he cares enough to allow their son’s effort to mend the relationship succeed.
THE MAN DONE OVERVEX. WOMEN ARE FOND OF THIS TO THE EXTENT THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW THEY ARE DOING IT. TENDY SAID IT ALL.
In Japan,wives divert their love to their children as they start growing and husbands are left to hold the sack,some would start hitting the bottles in this regard.In Japan,mothers are well oiled ,well treated not fathers.