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Nigerian Man Turns Woman: Was Mr Dapo Adaralegbe, Now Ms Stephanie

dapo adaralegbe now stephanie adaralegbeShe used to be a man…………

Feb 28, 2012 – Nigerian Man Turns Woman: Was Mr Dapo Adaralegbe Now, Ms Stepanie Adaralegbe

This is one heartbreaking story of a Nigerian man by the name of Dapo Adaralegbe (male) who suffers from gender-identity crisis.

dapo adaralegbe

Dapo, a reknowned Homosexual law student back in d days in Obafemi Awolowo University was expelled in year 2001 for being gay.

stephanie adaralegbeDapo Adaralegbe

He has relocated to Madrid, Spain where he is currently living as a woman.

Guess what his name is? He is now Ms Stephanie Adaralegbe.

Dapo (Now Stephanie Adaralegbe) After A Facial Reconstruction Surgery

dapo adaralegbe now stephanie adaralegbe

dapo adaralegbe now stephanie adaralegbe

dapo adaralegbe now stephanie adaralegbe

dapo adaralegbe now stephanie adaralegbe

dapo adaralegbe now stephanie adaralegbe

This is something else a Naija man for that matter. God have mercy oooo!



  1. Nofisat olabisi

    February 28, 2012 at 1:15 PM

    This is ridiculous

  2. abulkaka

    February 28, 2012 at 2:36 PM

    kai poster were do u get dis 4m?

  3. Joy

    February 28, 2012 at 5:00 PM

    Too bad.

  4. Joy

    February 28, 2012 at 5:06 PM

    But why did he do dat?

  5. Heavenlyminded

    February 28, 2012 at 7:10 PM

    wonders will never end. this abomination is rearing up its head because this is the endtime.

  6. Heavenlyminded

    February 28, 2012 at 7:17 PM

    abomination walking on two legs. this is a palpable sign of the endtime

  7. ada

    February 28, 2012 at 7:55 PM

    U should ve shown us d picture when he was still a man ,2 make ur story more factual

  8. michelle

    February 29, 2012 at 12:01 AM

    i doubt this very upload my photo editor where is his pix as a man shown here.pls the story and images are incomplete.

  9. Nehemiah

    February 29, 2012 at 3:40 AM

    Dapo is still a man before God. Until he repents & turns to man again he is heading for lake of fire.

  10. Imiebiakhe T. O

    February 29, 2012 at 10:04 AM

    poster u sure!!! cos this is really craze in de highest order

  11. Faithbella thomas

    February 29, 2012 at 1:51 PM

    This is so ridiculous nd irritating.he Looks like a dead body.

  12. ese

    February 29, 2012 at 8:49 PM

    Psychologically dis guy is not normal, if he was interested in being a woman b4 coming into dis world he should have told God instead of this disgraceful act

  13. Michelle

    March 1, 2012 at 5:23 AM


    Hey Stephanie,
    I just came across your story and have to say I admire you honesty and transparency. Alot of Nigerian men think living on the DL (down-low) is way of life, however as a woman, I know that the other party only feels USED and DUMPED which is always horrible feeling.

    I just wanted to tell you that I am happy that you talked about your situation. I also want you to understand something, I don’t agree that you have been having sex since you were 6. In my opinion, you were molested sexually and taken advantage of by a wicked and disturbed older individual who forced their habits on you before you could even decide for yourself what YOU want. You were only 6 for crying out loud! you were still a baby! This person that did this to you probably felt that you were vulnerable and made you feel “loved” while they were doing this to you, but he was simply a BEAST! and I hate him for what he did to you.And if you research well, this was probably done to him as a child also, ( so sad)

    Please Steph, think a bit more about what I just said before you grant anymore interviews my dear. Please don’t let the media take further advantage of you as you are obviously a very sweet person. Direct the focus from “Stephanie used to be a Man” to exposing the effects of child molestation and neglectful parents.

    May GOD grant you the peace and comfort as you journey through life. I also wanted you to know that Jesus is the most loving experience you can ever have, he will never let us down, rather he picks us up and makes us strong when our fellow humans fail us. Take care my sweet friend.


    • Jay

      June 20, 2012 at 1:38 AM

      Michelle,you are the only true Christian here,only Jesus could have said it better. Your input shows a lot of thought,concern and Christian love, God bless you. I hope Steph reads your mail and the holy spirit enables it to reach where it’s hurting deep down so he can start on the path of healing and restitution

    • Chuk

      July 17, 2012 at 8:09 AM

      omg! you’re the first sensible reasonable (nigerian) person ive read here and a real christian. i hope she gets your message

    • Of Him

      November 23, 2013 at 3:06 AM

      WHAT??!!! Are you guys kidding me? How is he/she the true christian here? I believe you changed your ID and replied to your comment. You agents from the pits of hell, trying to water down the Word of God shall be destroyed by the blood of the Lamb and the words of His Testimony. Read Romans 1 vs 22-28. It says…” Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools. . . Wherefore God gave them up unto vile affections for even their women did change the natural use to that which is against nature, And likewise also the men, using the natural use of the woman, burned in lust one toward another. Men with men working that which is unseemly. . .”. And you tell him Jesus loves Him? No!, Jesus loves NO workers of iniquity. He just told God that He made a mistake by making him a man, and that other humans are able to correct the mistake He (GOD) made. No. . . The bible never said Jesus loves everyone remember, What the bible says is that “He CAME for the sinners”, so they can be saved but if you continue in your sin, that means that you do not even appreciate His sacrifice. Romans 2 vs 2 says, “But we are sure that the judgement of God is according to truth against them which commit such things”. Repent before it’s too late.

      • Agbonifo Memphis

        July 18, 2017 at 11:11 AM

        Uhhhh dear (Of Him) Christ came because of the sick (mark 2:17)On hearing this, Jesus said to them, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” Check also Matt 9 vs 12-13 and Jer 17 vs 9. Lets just pray for him to find Christ before death, leave it all to God. Note you can’t fight for God, Apostle Paul was against Christ too and he even killed those that were for Christ. Just pray for him that God will touch him.

  14. Prince

    March 1, 2012 at 9:26 AM

    Dis world is really comin 2 an end

  15. istupaido

    March 3, 2012 at 6:39 PM

    dapo u are a
    disgrace to this country

  16. tee

    March 4, 2012 at 6:28 AM

    This is true cos I knew Dapo as an undergraduate when in OAU, as a guy back then he used to dress like a girl which we all wonder then what kind of a person is this. There was a time he was admmitted at the OAU teaching hospital and he asked his doctor to help him changed his sexual region to “V”.

  17. Anavhe

    March 4, 2012 at 9:58 PM

    What is are parent doing right from childhøod his parent are to be blame. For dapo u are a disgrace to human kind.

  18. Segun

    March 5, 2012 at 3:53 AM

    He was simply a trans-gender and corrective surgery was done. What’s the big deal in that?

    • Chuk

      July 17, 2012 at 8:10 AM

      nigerians see a big deal in everything

    • Of Him

      November 23, 2013 at 3:10 AM

      Yes there is a big deal in that. It is against nature and we do not have to adopt the babylonian ways of life of foreigners.

  19. rawhim

    March 5, 2012 at 12:46 PM

    ℓ̊’♏ really sorry for him/her being neglected by his/her loved ones…..I J̲̣̣̣U̶̲̥̅̊§τ̲̅ pray A̶̲̥̅̊ℓℓ should βε̲̣̣̣̥ well wiv him……..holla

  20. Adekunle Adeyemi

    March 5, 2012 at 10:18 PM

    Did he or she still get d*** or cunt… That sucks

  21. Sam

    March 7, 2012 at 11:23 AM

    she was pretty when she was dark skin now she looks like a ro-beast. Who send u to change to woman. You change to a dark skinned lady and you were looking cute now u are looking like a zombie.

  22. tim

    March 8, 2012 at 11:05 AM


  23. Fatimah akinola

    March 11, 2012 at 5:42 PM

    Dis is disgustin,hw on earth cud u do dat, nd y wuld ur love 1s nt neglect cuz dey c u are a disgrace 2 dem… Shame on u

  24. Sandra

    March 12, 2012 at 8:05 AM

    My Jesus wil go into ur foundatn&correct wot wz destroyd.Ds is wot d enemy az done,bt4 ds purpose the son of God wz manifestd,dt he might destroy the works of the devil.God still luvs u..

  25. deola

    March 12, 2012 at 8:20 AM

    The story is actually true cos I knew him back then in OAU.most time when guys were asked to leave the female hostel in the night dapsy girl(what he prefers to be called the)will sAy he is a woman and so can’t the end of the day its either he was chased out or got some beatings.the guy is really crazy.he shuld just go and seek forgivness frm GOd

  26. Uzor

    March 13, 2012 at 9:03 AM

    let every one that reads this take heed to him/herself for this is one of the predictions of the end time hence, I’m not surprised. As for Dapo, he has duplicated and complicated his judgement as he will be judged as a man and then as a woman unless he repents and accepts Jesus in his life

  27. Chidi

    March 13, 2012 at 11:39 AM


  28. Chidi

    March 13, 2012 at 11:43 AM

    God will see you through and only Him can make you whole.

  29. bisi

    March 16, 2012 at 5:37 AM

    This ia really a sorry case. What he needs is deliverance and not condemnation. Michell has so spoken well. I knew Dapo too back in ife,he was a loner dt dress like a woman while his dangling penis made it obvious he was a man.God will surely deliver him because dis is a result of child molestation and parental neglect. We shld learn from this issue and stop d condemnation. Dapo, if u are reading this,Jesus is very open, go to him and u will be delivered. Pele dear

  30. oginnifola

    March 16, 2012 at 10:29 PM

    no b everybody way dey waaka for b real human being o! Fake, fake nai planty pass

  31. Tosine

    March 18, 2012 at 12:59 AM


  32. khairat

    March 21, 2012 at 6:54 PM

    wat a bad story..dapo,how could u.u are a disgrace to d nation n to d world as a whole.

  33. Mrs. Agboola

    March 22, 2012 at 5:03 PM

    So long as he was a trans gender ( with male & female genital ) there is no cause for alarm, after a successful surgery he’s expected to either be a male or female, so, he\she should rather be a testimony not mockery.

  34. Tony

    April 11, 2012 at 10:42 PM

    Why did you do this to your self, you just look like willy willy.Abi you don die b4.

  35. Temythoper

    April 18, 2012 at 11:17 AM

    Hmm. may God help us

  36. Oladeji Bobby.

    April 18, 2012 at 12:49 PM

    Infact, i dont know what to say again than “WA LI ASRI…..”

  37. Ajike

    April 23, 2012 at 9:24 AM

    Hi All,

    I must say, this has been an interesting read. I got to know about Dapo/Stephanie’s story yesterday and from all i have read, we can only pray for God’s mercy on the parents, the person who molested him and the victim.

    We ought to learn from this. To his parents, i must be very frank here, you failed your child, you were supposed to be there for him, to guide him and be his person. The lesson here is we all should be involved in the lives of our children. Let us not assume that the house help, relative or neighbor is straight in the head. If we are close to our children, they are bound to tell us what is happening to them. To the man who molested him at the age of 6, it is either you have been victimized or you are from the pit of hell. And to Dapo/Stephanie, God did not make a mistake for creating you a Man, I am so sure you were a handsome dude. You have no right altering what God made you to be. I am not judging you, but you need to seriously retrace your steps and find that peace you so long for. I see you are running away from facing the fact that you were raped over and over. Your sex change will not change the fact that you are yet to make peace with your family and the person who molested you.

    I know for a fact that God loves you, if he did not, I bet you would have died on that operating table. So Dapo, seek the face and God, Jesus already paid the price, forgive your parents, forgive whoever victimized you. It is when you have done this that you can truly forgive yourself, be happy and be the Man God created you to be.

    Now to everybody else reading this, let us try to be watchful. When you notice a child is being molested and the parents are too distracted from seeing the truth, please report the matter to the nearest police station. If you have been molested at any point in your life, take the bold step, forgive, ask God for His mercy and break the demonic cycle.

    Lastly, May God have mercy on us all, because no one is righteous. Not even me.

  38. Babs

    May 28, 2012 at 7:03 PM

    The story about dapo was true. I knew him very well at ife then. There was a time in a fellowship @ ife when he wanted to attend meeting with sisters. But was chased out. We used to call him lady dapsy or dupsy girl.

  39. akinbadejo Samuel

    May 28, 2012 at 9:59 PM

    i wnt nigeria to pray for this guy b’cos he does’nt know what he has done Dear DARAMOLA pls change JESUS DIE 4 U ON CALVARY and He knw what u av past through before your final deceission pls come back Jesus is waiting the door ill nt cloose until you apear and you ill be resque…

    • Tee Boy

      November 7, 2014 at 3:21 PM


  40. John jas

    August 4, 2012 at 2:51 PM

    How wil is ******* look lyk. Wil she or he has menstral flow?gush

    • Precious osas

      March 14, 2013 at 1:44 PM

      A person lik dis can never menstruate as far as he was creatd as a boy,hmm dats worse ad am sure he will regret dis bt if he did nt it will never go well for him coz dats not his property

  41. Banty

    August 5, 2012 at 11:59 AM

    God have mercy,wht is Dapo turning himself to now?
    I knw him very well in OAU Ile Ife in those days when his co student do call him sisi Dapo then.So he truly change everything about himself.I remember a day we met in a restaurant knwn as folks and fingers when he came to eat then and everyone one in the restaurant were calling him sisi Dapo here and there.Finally, he became Ms Stephanie Aderibigbe.I use to knw where he stayed then at Igboya along road seven in Ile Ife.what a shameful life he chose to live now.I knw for sure that wht is happening to him is spiritual.

  42. Anonymous

    October 15, 2012 at 4:31 PM

    he still looks ugly so..

    • Anonymous

      December 18, 2012 at 2:51 PM

      It is only God that can deliver Dapo..He was well known in Ife as a law student.I blame the parents to a large extent cos Jesus was and HE is still the only solution..This is actually the beginning of end time starring at us in the face..May God help us to fear HIM in every way, Amen.

  43. tolu

    January 4, 2013 at 2:10 PM

    God will be with you.

  44. Stephen Adegoke

    March 10, 2013 at 1:17 PM

    Very ridiculous

  45. Precious osas

    March 14, 2013 at 1:47 PM

    Very bad ad GOD forbid

  46. Bishop

    November 22, 2013 at 10:43 AM

    God have mercy!!! God still loves you. Stella died on d Operation Table

  47. Bishop

    November 22, 2013 at 10:45 AM

    God have mercy! End time is here. Just knw dat God loves u, stella obasanjo died during operation

  48. think of tomorrow

    March 17, 2015 at 1:16 PM

    there is God o…

  49. Frank bell

    November 26, 2015 at 2:41 PM

    Has he undergone Sex Reassignment Surgery? If the answer is yes, can his repentance be backed up with action by reversing to man? I just want to know if somebody can help answer this question. By Frank Bell

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