August 20, 2017 – Brian Okwara: Most Ladies Think I’m A Serial Cheat
Ex-Mr. Nigeria, Brian Okwara, is a victim of stereotyping, and due to his good looks, women don’t take him seriously.
Speaking with TS Weekend, Okwara said:
“My biggest challenge is for God to give me the strength not to be a lady’s man. There is something you need to understand about being a lady’s man. Yeah, you are a lady’s man and you can’t run away from it, it is something nature has endowed you with. But there is a flipside and it is that people tend to stereotype you and hardly take you seriously.
“Any woman that walks into your life will just say ‘oh Brian, we have seen your type before; are you not a fine boy?’ And you are like ‘what do you mean by that?’ It is a good thing that you walk into a room and every woman is ogling, but there are people that actually see the other side of life and attach importance and value to relationships, and they will not really like that after a while. I want people to like me for who I am and not judge the book by its cover.”
Has this affected his relationship with members of the opposite sex?
“I would say I have lost friendships that way. Some people just see me and say ‘Brian, come on, I know your type’ and I am like ‘oh sorry, you don’t even know me’.”
MEANING WHAT?U ARE A PLAY BOY OR A PLAY GIRL SINCE U PLAIT YOUR HAIR LIKE ONE.REBUILD YOUR PERSONALITY AND BOOST YOUR SELF ESTEEM.ONE OF THE PSQUARE LOOK SAME BUT STILL MARRIED AND SUCCESSFUL.
No ladies said nothing or judge you..Do i call you now Mr super star because you are a runway model..this dude fuckin too full of himself
Women or ladies are very smart and they always have their target, it’s hard to see a lady/woman (most of them) who just want to have fun,either looking for money or to settle down and have family, so when they weigh you and found out you are not in any of these categories,they move ahead.
Gentleman,you are not serious yet,when you are,one will capture you or vice versa.
@Mon well said.
I think attitude is quite different from physical looks. You don’t need to worry yourself Bryan because those friends you lost were not meant to stay. Live your normal life and hold onto GOD because very soon that particular person who will understand and support you will definitely appear. I wish to use this medium to correct a statement made by someone who said that Bryan is fucking full of himself. That’s was absolutely a lie. Bryan is down to earth, original and he someone who see everyone else as he sees himself . Is not good to be rude or said something bad about someone you haven’t met before. I hope I might be attacked for saying this but I don’t think I care anyway.
Cut your hair, get rid of the bling bling, wear nice shirts and behave yourself. Then, you will be taken a little more seriously. Even as a playboy (if thats what you really are), some ladies (playgirls) will also like you for that. There is nobody that cannot find his or her own mate. If Evans, Abiola or Obasanjo could get wives, guy, your case can never be different.
I am not one to judge a book by its cover, because that can be very misleading. I try and learn the contents within. I try to put myself in persons place and think how would I be in their shoes. If you have a good heart and others can see it by your actions. you will attract the right people to you. Never change who you are to please anyone. The right will show up sooner or later.