Can You Attend Your Ex-Girlfriend, Boyfriend’s Wedding Ceremony?

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Nov 2nd, 2013 – Can You Attend Your Ex-Girlfriend, Boyfriend’s Wedding Ceremony?

One of the most difficult issues to deal with when it comes to heartbreaks or broken relationship is coping with those people we have dated in the past.

Whether we like it or not, a quick run down on the memory lane will bring them across our path one day.

To witness our former lover’s wedding ceremony can be very tough.

Let’s assume you were invited to your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend‘s wedding event, can you stand seeing him or her married off to someone else?

Would you honour such invitation?

Here are some responses from NaijaGists.com’ official Facebook Page

“Nothing will delight me more than hearing my ex is getting married whether I get invited or not, he can stop being my problem for a start! – Helen
Sure I will attend without any wrong feelings! – Donald
Of cos i will,Its wonderful to see people i was involved with achieving in life…it means i did not make de wrong choice in life… – shaim
There is no big deal in it, all relationship must not end in marriage – Anita
It depend hw the two separated!! If it is peaceful, y nt!! Bt if it is hrt break is a liar, nobody will attend – Rita
Yea y wnt I go, evrytin woket 4 gud may b is not d right patner 4 u!  – Prince
Yes i can be dere,my ex-lovers attend my own marriage so there no big deal dere- Temitope
I will be dere,I will even give them gift since is my ex is no big deal- Omolara
Nortin bad,but i wl make sure dat i get another bab there,dat is if i’m not mary then..- Adeoti
No, not advisable. If anything goes wrong, God forbid, all accusing fingers will be pointing at the Ex.- Nasir”

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31 thoughts on “Can You Attend Your Ex-Girlfriend, Boyfriend’s Wedding Ceremony?

  1. God forbid bad thing, I will turn down the whole place I’m better off not going becos my presence will cause a scene

  2. To be sincere it’s quite shameful to me…….cos when d bride&groom wil kiss each other…….i must surely feel d vacuum.

  3. I will poison the food/cake of the occasion, mind you if we were in a very serious relationship just like I’m right now, I will be there if we are sex mate

  4. Emmmm…..if we seperated in gud ways i wil attend bt if it was a bad seperation i wil nt go coz it wil mak me develop mor hatred 4 her.

  5. if d boy dumb me like piece of card for another girl, i wil never attend such wedding. d only way i wil attend such wedding is if we end peacefully and i too already married to a man better than him. i wil go wit my man and not alone.

  6. If your ex should invites you to his/her wedding to me it means you both have great understanding and respect for each other,yes I will go.there are some relationship you know both of you can’t be happy married but great friends that look out for each other that’s the type I know i will go for the wedding.

  7. It happened to me,and i attended coz he invited me thinking dat my situation ws bad. But He was very surprised and confused to c me dressed cute n beautiful with cash/ selected aso-bi (sponsored by my husband-bcoz of wot he did 2me) it might not hv worked out if d vacuum was not nicely filled.

  8. it all depends on d circumstances we both separated, if it ws mutual, den i will b there, but if it a broken hearted tin, den 4get it i wont b there at all, cos there is a parable dat say, d eye of a chicken doesnt luk beautiful wen roasting a bird

  9. hmmmmmm is not easy my ex getting married 23rd Nov am going to set the place on fire.ARTHUR INEGBEDION READY FOR ME.

    • tank u jare maryam…. yoruba ppl use to say an adage dat goes lik dis…. oruko eni ni nroni…. na eranko she b true true…. back to u idiot owner.. ur name iz truely eranko… if u dnt av anytin reasonable to say mst u tok?? shanu lik u, apo ewa, ashewo, odoko,u ar a disgrace to human circle….may u born in hell fire….. Inshall Allah…….

  10. Wel…truth dey said z hard…if two of seperated nicely without heartbreaken i wil giv him dat respect n go cox i ve alrady move on with my life…buh if we seperated wrongly…i wil nt attend cox my presence dai may cause a great secene wch may effect d ceremony…i wil never tot of goin dai

  11. @Funke,pls 4give ur Ex,if u go to his wedding to create scene,it means u don’t like where he left u,move on wt ur life,God will give u a better Man evn better than ur ex.Things don’t just happen,there is a reason u people separated,trust me it’s 4 ur good dear.

  12. In my case it was’nt easy,though he invited me i did’nt go cos d sweet memories of d past.we’r both married but still communicate as good friends and wish we married.

  13. To me,there are 2 tinz involved,if we separated in peace I ll attend d wedding ceremony wit my husband in oda 2 show&let him knw dat d vacuum is filled&let him knw I’ve moved on wit my life;bt if we departed in d wrong way,I won’t go 4 d wedding.

  14. IT IS DEPEND ON THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU BUILD , AND HOW YOU UNDERSTAND LIFE , I HAVE BEEN TO SOME OF MY BOYFRIEND WEDDING , BECAUSE I AM SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT WANT TO BE TIED DOWN BY ANY MAN , AND I JUST FEEL IT IS BETTER HE HAS SOMEONE AT HOME WHO WILL BE HIS COOK , AND WASH HIS UNDIES AND FACE ALL THOSE HORRIBLE IN LAWS WHO CAN JUST WALK IN AND CHALLENGE YOU FOR ANYTHING , AND AGAIN I WILL NOT BE THE ONE LOOKING THROUGH THE WINDOW THAT HE HAS NOT COME BACK HOME , SO I CHOOSE THE OUTSIDE WIFE WHO HAS POWER OVER EVERY THING , WHEN MY HUSBAND IS COMING FROM WORK HE STOP OVER , AND SPEND OVER FIVE SIX HOURS , WHEN HE GET BACK HOME , HE END UP LOOKING AT THE CEILING WHEN THE WIFE AT HOME ASK HIM TO DO HIS JOB IN THE BEDROOM , HE TELL HER SORRY , I HAVE BEEN BUSY IN THE OFFICE AND I AM TIRED , SO TELL ME WHO IS THE LOOSER , INFACT IS THE WIFE AT HOME ..ALL THOSE WIFE OUTSIDE ARE REALLY THE WINNER , THEY DO NOT HAVE TO BE LOOKING THROUGH THE WINDOW.

  15. Yes I will, if only our departure was base on a mutual agreement and nt wit misunderstandig. Moreova, I wil honour her invitation if she comes herself or wit her husband and present invitation letter 2 me. Its an indication dat she is happy wit me and she cnt 4get d impact I took in her precious life b4 we depart. I cnt just wait seeing her progressing in life.

  16. Mrs eranko,as d name implies,Eranko in yoruba means an animal,so u comment jst lik an animal,₪☺ mata Ђw horrible d hous is i still prefer it ,continue wit ur yeye life style,i wish u HIV positive soonest.

  17. I will attend d wedding ceremony, if we are compatible d relatn will nt seperate, so it depend on d understanding.

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