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Emeka Ike: What My Wife Told Her 4 Children The Day She Abandoned Them
August 19, 2017 – Emeka Ike: My Wife Was Nobody When I Met Her, I Built A House For Her Family In Lagos & In Isoko
Popular Nollywood actor Emeka Ike is still struggling to cope with life as a single father of four months after his wife of many years, Suzanne Rero left him.
See excerpts of his recent interview with Vanguard below:
Despite the pain she has caused you, you still declare your undying love for her?
Love never dies. Real love doesn’t die, forget what we are talking about. The Bible says that “love covers multitude of sin.” She’s the mother of my children. She was nobody when I met her, she never knew her father. I built a house for her family in Lagos and also in Isoko.
I trained her up to the master’s degree level. I gave her the exposure she needed in life. There are thousands of pretty girls who would want to marry me the first week we got divorced.
But I am a gentleman, it is not about marriage for me now, it’s about doing the right thing. What is wrong with my woman? If it’s something we can redeem her from, we will still redeem her.
Forget about marrying her again. I don’t need to marry again, but I need to know what was wrong with my wife. I need to know why she started blackmailing me.
Can you welcome her back into your life if she returns to you?
Accepting her back is not the problem, but let her confess and get herself back. I believe she’s under the influence of something.
How did you feel watching her walk out of her marriage ?
It’s the most painful part of my life. I cried for 24 hours every day for three to four years. I was just asking myself what is happening to me. You know, in blackmail, you will not know what is going on because somebody is playing the game. It was much later that I knew what was happening to me.
I need to know the strength of these blackmailers because we have law in this country. And with the law, we will look at the issues pro-actively.
Are your children missing their mother?
They are not because they feel disappointed in her. She was their heroine. Her son was begging her, saying “mummy please come back because of me.” But she replied him;
“I am going to marry another man and have other children.” If you can say that to your first son, it’s either you have a mental problem or you are not okay spiritually. She even said to the judge that she wanted to have other children after having four children. What is wrong with her? Her case beats my imagination. I have been blackmailed, undermined and I have been crushed.
She closed down my school on the day I travelled, an investment that a student at St Nicholas was paying N385, 000, per session as school fees amounting to N880,000 every year.
She went to the landlord and asked him to come and reclaim his property. Who is behind all these things? You cannot be unfair to me and get away with it, not when I’m still alive and seeking justice.
I met her on the street and I saved her from the street. She told me she’s from a poor home and that she never met her father. I promised her that I would be her father and her lover. I gave her too much opportunity to swallow me.
[Vanguard]
Merit Brown
August 19, 2017 at 7:46 AM
YOUR GOD WILL SURELY FIGHT FOR YOU, JUST HOLD YOUR PEACE.
IF TRULY SOMEONE IS BEHIND IT, GOD WILL SURELY EXPOSE AND DISGRACE HIM/HER.
Keep it real
August 19, 2017 at 8:52 AM
I can understand how you feel, been hurt & abandoned by someone you truly love is tough but Emeka this has been too long to forget and move on. Man up dude. #Myopinion
ConcernCitizen
August 20, 2017 at 1:55 AM
Well said, you really keep it real like your username with this your comments, the nigga needs to man up and move on period
Omo
August 19, 2017 at 9:14 AM
Liar!
tino
August 19, 2017 at 1:41 PM
Your story no dey end, you better have rest of mind and forget her. Yeye guy.
yettymama
August 19, 2017 at 2:11 PM
Look at him, I gave her this I gave her that. He is so full of him self. She walked out of your life because of the serious abuse you inflicted on her; verbal, trauma, emotional, physical abuse and so on and so forth. A woman can not just abandon her four kids to surffer, something terribly is really wrong with you as the husband and the way you treated her. It takes two to tangle. Check your self Emeka and repent. Even if you marry another woman, if you don’t treat her well with respect and dignity, she too will abandon you and run for her dear life .
iron bar
August 19, 2017 at 2:13 PM
CRY CRY BABY GO AND LICK YOUR WOUND..SHE IS NOBODY U WENT AHEAD TO MARRY HER,BUT EQUALLY MISS HER UNDENIABLY HENCE LIVING IN PRETENCE.SHE ACCUSED U OF BATTERY WHICH U VEHEMENTLY DENIED.YOUR ARROGANCE CONTRIBUTED TO IT AND U TALKED LIKE A PARROT THROUGHOUT THE BITTER VOYAGE THAT LED TO THE BREAK UP.THIS OPENED DOOR TO UNDESIRABLE ELEMENTS TO INVADE YOUR HOME AND MADE A MESS.CHILL AND LIVE WITH IT OR LET YOUR GUARDS DOWN TO SEE IF RECONCILIATION WILL TAKE PLACE.
ama
August 19, 2017 at 3:04 PM
May God give you the strength to cope and continue to be strong
victoria
August 19, 2017 at 7:24 PM
Her return may be dangerous so be watchful ok
Aisha
August 20, 2017 at 12:48 AM
This story is one-sided! Please let us hear the other side of the story. And no need for you to list all things you purchased for your wife: Looks like you are so full of yourself!!
okafor desting
August 20, 2017 at 9:24 AM
hmmm for real or
MADAM ERANKO
August 20, 2017 at 7:23 PM
YOUR WIFE DID NOT ABANDON HER CHILDREN,
IT WAS BECAUSE YOUR ARE JACK THE LAD , YOU MADE HER LOOK LIKE CONNIVING LITTLE SHIT.
SO SHE HAS TO WALK AWAY FROM YOU , AND IT IS BETTER TO LEAVE YOUR CHILDREN WITH YOU , SO THAT YOU AND ALL YOUR PUNANI AND YOUR FAMILY
WHO DID NOT LIKE HER SHOULD BE A NANNY WHILE SHE WAS ENJOYING WITH HER MR BELEJAYAN AH AH AH AH AH
ARE YOU JEALOUS THAT SHE RUN AWAY BECAUSE YOU ARE JACK THE LAD ALIAS ,,A.P. A,, MEANING, ANY PUNANI AVAILABLE FOR MR EMEKA IS READY FOR ACTION A H AH AH AH .
Carolyn Peoples
April 30, 2019 at 5:45 PM
I think you both need help it’s not normal for someone stay in this condition this long crying over the past and involving your children in it the mother needs help to you don’t leave your children to jump into another man arm you can leave your husband but give yourself time to think and get yourself together keep your relationship strong with your 4 children not jump into another relationship and 4 more kids both the parents need serious help I hope the families get together and intervene for the children’s sake if the hold family don’t get help the 4 children and her children she wants to have will all be messed up in the head