December 19, 2017 – Confusion As Female NYSC Corper Finds Out Her Roommate Is Engaged To Her Fiance
True Confession By Serving NYSC Corper Chika
I’m writing this hoping I get some sort of relief and comfort from readers and from their comments.
My name is Chika, a 29 year old graduate of UNIBEN and Youth corper presently serving in Abuja. I met a girl, Sade during the screening exercise and somehow we clicked and became friends.
We did all the registration together and luckily we got the same room, we became bunk mates. She is 24 but it really didn’t matter to me, I liked her and nothing else mattered. She graduated from Unilag.
Our first night together as friends and room mates, we talked extensively into the next day about everything including the men in our lives!
That night I found out we were dating the same man.
I still cannot fathom how it was possible that I chose my boyfriend’s sidechic or mainchic as friend!
I also cannot understand why fate threw us at each other that way… The girl Sade is such a sweet girl, so beautiful and honest that I almost cried as she told me about her Daniel! He promised to marry her, tried to work her NYSC posting to Lagos but failed, she met him three years ago and they’ve been together for all three years and got engaged last month!
He took her virginity. She loves him, trusts him… I listened and accepted her phone as she showed me photos! It was my Daniel, the Daniel who put the simple diamond ring I was wearing on my finger. The Daniel I had been dating for eight years! The Daniel who was waiting for me in Lagos!
My ring and her ring were the same…
For three weeks, I slept in the same room with Sade, listened to her as she talked to Daniel every night. After the call, Daniel would call me and I’d pretend all is well!
He called us both every morning and night!
In the three weeks of being with this girl, I couldn’t bring myself to hate her… she’s innocent and sweet. I also didn’t tell her anything.
A part of me wants to tell Sade so we can both be in pain, I envy her the joy of not knowing…
Camp is over… How best can I handle this? I have cried everyday for a month!
Pls let her know so she will know the kind of person Daniel is.
You are such a brilliant and mature soul. My dear, you have to tell Sade if truly you appreciates her being according to your post. There’s no need searching for devil, your Daniel is the real devil. Daniels’s blood they smell for una two body. #wink#
She deserves to know the truth. Play that part and leave the rest
PUT YOUR LIFE ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND YOUR BUDDY WILL STAY UNDERGROUND AND BE ENJOYING YOUR FOOD.NONSENSE
Please let your friend Sade know the truth about Daniel. Show her the engagement ring he gave you and it is the same he gave her. Let her know so that both of you will know how to tread to avoid pitfall and know the best action to take. It looks like Daniel is enjoying the best of two worlds. To prove it to her, let her listen when he calls you to prove your point.
Tell Sade but both of you should not let Daniel Casanova Devil’s grandson know that the cat is out of the bag. Keep leading him on but don’t sleep with him anymore, if you have been doing so. Tell him a Prophet predicted that something bad will happen on your wedding day unless you stop sleeping together until you get married. Let’s see which one of you he plans to actually marry. Set the wedding date and go along with the arrangements. On the day, both of you show up without the bridal outfit and disgrace him publicly so all the ladies will know who he really is. I doubt if Daniel will find a woman to marry him for the rest of his life. Meanwhile start dating a serious guy but keep Daniel in the dark.