Igbinedion University Law Student Raped By Coursemate Says He Threatens To Release Nude Photos Of Her

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March 3rd, 2015 – Nigerian Lady, Igbinedion University Female Law Student, Pastor’s Daughter Raped By Course Mate Says He Threatens To Release Nude Photos Of Her

I am a Law student at Igbinedion University Okada. I had too much to drink at the last LAWSA dinner. The event went on far into the night and ended around 11pm. My friend and course mate suggested that I spend the night in his house which was nearer to the hotel where the event held instead of going home. I accepted because i knew i was tipsy and afraid to head home alone. I don’t know what happened but I woke up the next morning feeling all sore and battered.

A look at my body confirmed my fears, my panties was no where to be found. my Bra was hanging by the door. I couldn’t remember a thing, I was so ashamed of my self and all this boy did was smile like a fool. I asked for my undies and he told me that he helped me wash them as he knew I would need them in the morning. I felt he drugged and raped me because I couldn’t recollect anything from immediately after we left the dinner hall. I threatened to report him for rape but he claimed that I actually begged him for sex. I quickly jumped into my cloths and ran home so confused.

I went home and cried myself silly. I also asked God for forgiveness and took some drugs. I didn’t discuss it with my roomie because she had previously warned me against that same guy.

I started avoiding and ignoring him in class. He called me over 1000 time until I was forced to drop my Sim card. This boy later showed up at my lodge and would not leave. I had to report him to my departmental judicial commission and then to the Anti Cult guys in school. They arrested him and made him sign an undertaking to quit harassing and stalking me.

I dont know how he got my new number and called me this after noon. I didn’t know it was him so I picked up and then dropped the call immediately I recognized his voice. Then I got the shocker of my life. He sent me an SMS saying that he has my nude picture which he took that night and that he will print them all and paste the all over the campus since I was taking his love for granted and reported him to Anti Cult. I called his bluff thinking he was just blabbing. He sent me a photo on whatsapp and it was me laying on his bed stark naked.

I am finished. Any thing I do will definitely back fire. My daddy, a Pastor will disown me.

Please tell me what to do. My world has crashed.

41 thoughts on “Igbinedion University Law Student Raped By Coursemate Says He Threatens To Release Nude Photos Of Her

  1. Wait a minute how did u end up sleeping in a man’s house overnight, don’t you have common sense? I blame you for this hell on earth u subjected urself to

    • @tewase. This is not what is expected of u to say. U read the story and d poor girl is already feeling terrible so such comments from you is not what she need now ok. Now back to my dear sis. The best thing I can advise you now is to let your parent know about this. Already that idiot of a boy has shot himself by sending you that pics which clearly show it was in his room so pls don’t delete that pics. Trust me if you report him with that whatsapp pics he can find himself in jail. This is not and I repeat this is not the time for you to be quiet. If you do then you will simply help the boy to destroy your life. Pls make sure u tell someone that will listen to you, ur mum , elder sis or dad. He will not kill you but you will kill urself if u keep this to urself. And as for that idiot guy, ur soul will not know peace

  2. Well, there we go again blaming the victim. A coursemate invited her out and he drugged and raped her. Sad to say that out of every 100 nigerian guys out there, at least, 85 percent would have been involved in this one wa or the other. Please no offence to the good guys. Raping women is so rampant that even the regular guys dont enjoy mutual lovemaking. In addition, they would call their gang, rape and laugh at you and in this day and age film you to be prodcast with their pictures on it too. Such babarians. The most pitiful is the young girls as young as 8, gang raped with their pictures all over the internet. Is this good? Now when such ladies use occultic means to finish their attackers, we would wonder why. So my dear, you better be lucky that he did not bring his gang with him cause this would have been a different story. It is unfortunate but move one for your sake. There are worse pictures all over the internet. Sorry that happened to you. Wish you the best of luck.

  3. your world has not crashed dear.first explain all to your mum,Also ask your mum to help you explain to your dad and you and your mum will explain to your dad also.As a man of God he will understand.If possible your parents should call police and get him arrested. let police ask him to provide all the pictures. Good luck

  4. My dearest young star. Your life is not ruined. You have a brilliant future ahead of you. Sentiments aside,summon courage immediately, report this incidence to your father with the help of his friend that can listen to you very well. It is also not too late to report this criminal conduct to the police. It is not abnormal at your age to go to a party, got tipsy, confined in friend and reasonably stay for cover overnight. What is abnormal is that you made a honest mistake by confiding in a friend that criminally betrayed your trust by drugging and raping you. This criminal must be locked up so that he will not be able to do it to good girl like you. Don’t worry about his threat to post your nude picture. He is a very silly idiot.Did his mother give birth to him with clothes on? Please my dear brilliant girl, report him to the authorities and your father before it is too late for a legal action. As to those who are condemning this beautiful smart young lady, put up or shut up if you don’t have anything good to offer. I guess you are all r***sts too and you don’t have sisters or daughters.I which i am in Nigeria to take this up and teach this hoodlum a bitter lesson that he will never forget.

  5. Life is all about timing as a young girl u should be able to know wheun to go out were to go and when to come back home learn to do what is right stop putting blame on that guy pls learn to be calculatic in all your doig

  6. Girls this days are stuborn, you were sent to school to read your books and above all put God first in al u do. Instead you indulge yourself in al manner negative behaviour and whn u get bk home u behave like saint. It is a lesson for u girls

  7. My dear, don’t mind all these haters. It wasn’t your fault and you couldn’t have seen tomorrow. This guy needs to be taught a BIG lesson. Call me 08033069403

  8. R most of u ****? Dnt u readd b4 u friggin comment? The girl went for her faculty dinner and cud nt go bck to her room cos twas late and she was tipsy. Instead of u guys to blame d bastard wolf in sheep clothing u r insulting d girl. May such come upon u or ur sisters. ****

  9. my dr sis i fell 4 u, bt u wouldn’t av trustd him up2 dat xtence. bt don’t worry ur life is nt crash as u said, pls don’t hide dis 4rm ur mum i strongly blve dat she ll undastnd wit u.abt d pic dt idiot snt 2 u tro whatsapp pls dnt delete it dat is ur evidence 2 ur parent.

  10. call a spade by its name.dtz a good measure.xperienc dey say iz d bst teachr.iz it u remembr ur dad iz a pastor.a small girl lik u attendn not worthy IV n drinkn herself to a stupor.i beg mak i hear word
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  11. @Michael, thank God for yr comment and pray that He will surely bless u. If that lady keeps what happened to herself, she will surely kill herself. She should tell her parents who would inturn invite the police to investigate the matter and be lock up for a long time. Please my daughter just do that and God will see u thru.

  12. Young lady ,
    I suggest you tell your parents immediately otherwise this scum of a guy will continue harassing and blackmailing you. It’s a pity you fell a victim of such and hope this will serve as a lesson to your other mates.
    The guy should be apprehended and brought to book. I also suggest you do an HIV test over the next few months. It’s very likely he has been doing this for sometime. to avoid having to live with this for the rest of your life and living a life of torment , PLEASE get your parents involved.
    May God see you through all of this .

  13. Tease , if you don’t have anything to say , please say NOTHING. This is a young girl that needs counselling. In other cases like this , they could be suicidal.
    Please think before you type.

  14. Hello young girl firstly report the case to the nearest police station then sort for gender inequality advocatecy group such as rape artivist NGO to assist you.
    Human right lawyers will be willing to handle the case look up for one. Or contact the office of the Police puplic relations in the state for assistant.
    An advice for you get those pictures and sms ready as part of the evidence.
    But reffrian from your bad friends as they may be part of your woes.
    Thanks

  15. Baby Girl, we are make mistakes. Even those condemning you. Cut to the chase. This is what you do.
    1. Gather some very nasty rough boys to pick him up kick his ass and then stick a bottle up his ass. Take pictures. Believe you me, men are more scared of being s
    labelled than women. Call his bluff and send the picture to him.
    2. Tell your parents or brothers or sisters and go to the police ,he is blackmailing you and raped you whilst under the influence of drugs he put in your drink.
    3. If all fails, get someone to rape his sister or brother or even him.
    Time for all. Stop those tears. NOW.

  16. @Michael, Nabuf, & Asuwaju, wat manner of wondafl peopl are u guys? If u had taken time2c d learning point in dis story, u probably wdnt hav offerd diz botched-up remarks of yours. Even Nabuf admited dat rape is on d rise diz days. So Y do u all absolve dat lady frm blame all becaus u want 2 sound like a good councillor?

    I’m not insensitiv 2 her pains, but truth b told: she had it coming. She knew quite wel dat d times r evil. Dis fact alone shd hav prodded her common sense 2make arrangements 4a place 2 sleep prior 2 attending dat event.

    1) She faild 2make d arrangment.
    2) She got herslf drunk, knowing dat it let down her guards & increasd her vulnerability.
    3) She stayd there until late@nite.
    4) Of all peopl dat she knew, it was a guy dat she went wit 2 his house.

    So she had it coming; she’s d one who set d whole high stage. I hop she’s learnt her lessons.

    Keeping silent abt dis now would lead 2 perpetual blackmail. She shd report 2d school authorities. Dat txt msg, coupled wit dat watsapp pix, is enof 2 implicate him.

    I hop dat som low self esteem fellows here, who think dat if u dnt party while in school u dnt belong, would note dis.

  17. I feel for you young girl and considering the noble profession you are going into there is a popular saying in the profession called “fit and proper”. Regardless whether it is your school dinner or not, never take alcohol except under your own roof and you can hit the bed.

    My advice is to tell your parents and am sure they will help you to deal with the situation at hand but never handle it alone. Remember, you must always be fit and proper in all your conduct. Legal profession is not for careless people. You are too careless to put yourself in such precarious position.

    I hope you learn from this experience and Ggod will deal with that animal parading himself as a student. Nemesis will catch up with him soon.

  18. This is not the time to play the blame game. Whether this girl was tipsy or not, it does not warrant any man/boy to use that as an excuse to rape her. Reporting to police in Nigeria will not make any difference as the police will not make any arrest. There was a case like this in Abuja two years ago. The culprits were arrested but released immediately. The victim came back the following day to ask why the victims were release and the police told them they don’t time to entertain any sex case, that it is just sex and she should deal with it. This is true. It happened in Abuja but never made the news. Sex violence is prevalent in Nigeria higher institutions and this is disturbing. People like this guy should watch it, they will be at the receiving end of bullets if they do it to the wrong person.

  19. i simply dont understand the sort of heartless’ senseless comment some i****ts are making. Whether she was drunk or not this foolish boy has no
    right to lay a finger on her period. Why blame the victim. No matter how you look at this case’ this young lady is victim of RAPE. Can you imagine the arrogance this boy is displaying. For those who are blaming her please read the story properly she said the boy drugged her drink and raped her.
    Please young lady talk to your parents about it OR else he will do the same thing to someone else. Anyway Im not surprised by the negative response from some people. instead showing sympathy to the victim’ all blame is heaped on her while the rapist animal is walking about freely. Good luck young lady. Please keep us informed.

  20. Something Is Still Missing In Ur Story,no 1: U Said Dat D Guy Was Calling U 1,000 Times A Day & U Changed Ur Simcard & U Don’t Know How He Managed To Get Ur New Line,No 2: How Did U Get In Touch Wit Him Again Dat Resulted Of Drinking To Stupor & He Asked U To Sleep In His House & U Accepted Wen U Know Dat U Don’t Want Him In Ur Life,Plz Is He D Only Guy In Dat Party Or Is Dia No Girl At Dat Same Party?Well Ur Story Is Not D Truth Plz Bite Dat Big Girl Cos U Are Not Young Anymore.

  21. Rape is never ever the fault of the victim. there is no legitimate situation in which rape is permissible. You shouldn’t feel guilty nor dirty. Yes, he used you, yes he abused and raped you and yes, he is attempting to have a field day with it. but sweetheart, if you cower and do not tell anyone about this because of the popular cusom of victim shaming in Nigeria, other innocent girls would fall victim to that pathetic excuse of a man. My advice to you s to pray and ask God for guidance and for him to appeal to your father. You should talk to your mum or some other elderly woman that you respect and trust(not one that would make you worse than you already do). Your dad should also understand, it might surprise you to know that fathers are more protective of their daughters than they let on, however, if you are still scared of what his reaction would be, let your mum or someone that is well trusted by your family, your dad and yourself included be there when you let him know. Keep in mind that, no matter what, it is your choice to choose to pursue this case. such wolves are actually scary cats that would cower when they do realize that you are not one that’s easily intimidated . if you keep quiet, I’m afraid that his blackmailing antics is only going to be the beginning of a very terrible nightmare. speak up, once again, you are not responsible for what happened to you. May the peace of Christ be with you and may his strength see you through this ordeal.

  22. Are u mad. What makes u believe that u are finish. If u say u are finish then are u truly finish. But that is not what I want to tell u. Take them picture he sent to u to the anti cult group u reported them to and expose what the bastard has plan to do. Don’t be scared, once they can get hold of his phone and every other related means he is nailed

  23. I see nothing wrong for a Law student attending LAWSA dinner, but baby girl, you should have thought of your safety first before going with this Pedophile. Please inform your parents, I bet you they are going to take action you never expected, every parents have a responsibility to protect their children.If this Pedophile is rely a LAW STUDENT, a criminal record would keep him out of the Law School for ever. In fact where are the female lawyers in Nigeria, where are the Human Rights Lawyers in Nigeria, you guys should rise up to this occasion,this is Man Inhumanity to Man.

  24. You are a very wicket guy indeed.This guy is menatl to perform such act on his own friend. There is nothing wrong for one to trust a male friend or classmates and decide to go spend a desperate night in his house. The questions is where they no female friends who had relatives nearby? She never for ones believed that guy would do a thing like this. What he did to her is completely wrong She should go report him to police because you never knows what he has used her pants for.

    Well is a warning to you young girl. Things happen for reasons never get too drunk again in your life. Alcohol does not suit all human bodies and organs. Especially if you end up mixing and eating rice while competing with friends.

    Again who knows what he has done with her pant? Has he taken it for occult or ritual?

  25. @Grace…..Nuff said Grace. You couldnt have put it in a better way. A female cannot trust her male friend anymore. Barbaric.

  26. 1. You are afraid of your parents because you know they wouldn’t approve of your late night as a student in the hostel. Very wrong act. 2. As a law student, you were too careless with your life . Very naive. 3. All the same, that boy is a criminal. 4. He is blackmailing you. 5. Blackmailers are cowards! 6. You need to face him. Not by yourself but by the school authorities e.g. Registrar or student affairs director. 7. Your parents love you whatever happens, remember . So tell them first. 8. You would be surprised to see that other students will support you if you don’t keep quiet. 9. If he dares post your nude pics, it will not amount to much….just one more nude pix on the Internet, simple. We see hundreds of such per hour, nonsense! People will forget in less than a week . You must report him today!

  27. Ist…there is no proof….dat she was raped bcos she couldn’t remeber anything and she didn’t report to d hospital for sexual assault…two..d pics d guy sent..if u arrest him he will deny dat he raped u and dat u she was in his her begging for sex and wanted to be snapped those he knows she was tipsy…if police arrest him he mind not go to jail…highest both families come together and reason..so dat d pics of d girl won’t be release…..dats d only solution..both families coming to a conclusion…now she has to tell her parents first..then contact d boys family…bf arrest…cos it all happened in d guys house not d girl…so a lot of defending is much….now pls it’s a lesson to other pple…trust no one….

  28. if i were u its very simple,bt jst put dat guy in police custody,if dey can codately get him out of supprice by snach his phone,laptop nd any kind of gadget he use,its very easy.

  29. Am also a student just forget about it since it happens in his hostel he can’t paste the pictures if he does believe me he is dead I will personally help you out so sorry for that am a 400 lev medlab student 08161145152

  30. Good dai evrryone…Im a fellow Law student of Igbinedion University….Judgin by everything shes said,she is not a student of this school…First of al, students dont stay in lodges but hostels except if u wanna stay off campus n even if u stay on campus,guys are not allowed into girls hostel…Secondly, LAWSA dinner didnt end by 11pm n neither was it held at a hotel but in our very own college hall n the dinner takes place in the middle of the semester n not beginning…Thirdly, girls usually go to functions like dat in cliques…so she should ve had someone atleast with ha to know wah happened to ha…….So babe,nexttime u wanna lie try not to damage the image of others and the whole school.

  31. Report Him To The Police And Make Sure He Sign An Undertaking To Make Sure He Do Not Post Your Nudity For The Public To See And Make Sure He Do Not Hurt You.Act Now!

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