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Lolade Mustapha: I Broke Up With My Babymama Dewunmi Fatai Because She Disrespected My Mother

Published on December 20, 2016

December 20, 2016 – Lolade Mustapha: I Broke Up With My Babymama Dewunmi Fatai Because She Disrespected My Mother

Nollywood actor Lolade Mustapha has broken his silence on why he dumped his girlfriend and baby mama months after she delivered the couple’s first child.

Here is what the popular Yoruba actor told City People in a recent interview:

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9 Comments

fifelomo
December 20, 2016 at 10:16 PM
No be small thing. I won’t even advice u getting married to an uncultured lady.
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Tope
December 21, 2016 at 9:03 AM
Omo mummy
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on point
December 21, 2016 at 11:17 AM
Lucky she showed her true colour before marriage proper
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Jilo
December 21, 2016 at 6:20 PM
I’m not going to judge this lady according to what her husband had said about her until I hear from her. having said this, I would like to offer her a piece of advise if she truly wants to be with her husband.
No.1 don’ts in any marriage is to disrespect your in-laws. Even though you may have him to yourself for a while but you may not really enjoy your relationship because you have divided the love in your husband’s mind into two. Putting him in confusion state of mind will not help you in your marriage. You will subject him to restless state of mind all the time.
You just have to be diplomatic and play along with most of these inlaws.
you don’t have to be confrontational but be tactical in your dealings. Bear it mind that not everybody will like you but your attitude and behavior is essential if you want to keep your relationship. Even if you have a native doctor who gives you a guarantee love portion to use against your husband if you don’t support it with good attitude is not going to work.
No 2 don’ts in marriage is to listen to what outsider is saying about your partner. Since your husband told you don’t worry im in love with you, why are you bothering yourself? Don’t criticize your husband before any member of the family or an outsiders. Ask your husband directly if you hear any disgusting about him not acting on hearsay.
No 3 don’ts in any marriage is money. Don’t let money become issue in your relationship. Before you met him you know his financial capability. Do not come with this attitude of demanding too much from him since that can trigger a red flag which may lead to final separation.
No 4 don’ts do not create an hostile environment while you are in relationship. Some of young ladies of nowadays don’t really know what it takes to be in marriage. All of you want to be in healthy relationship without sacrificing anything. There are ups and downs in marriage too but patient, endurance and understanding are the tools for holding up a marriage.
Some of you are pretenders you may not exhibit your bad behavior when you were dating but as soon your man says I do, you will turn around to be the nice girl that your husband knew and ready to put up with a fight against your him.
Im not a marriage counselor but im just sharing with you what I knew about relationship especially about some young African girls that I have encounter in some relationships. I hope you and your husband reconcile before its too late. Also don’t think there is any perfect man out there.
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Madam Bench
December 21, 2016 at 7:01 PM
Well said @jilo appreciate ur contribution ????
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BOLANLE
December 21, 2016 at 7:10 PM
Unfortunately, your passion to remain a Mama’s baby and your inability to become an adult and to be able to mediate intelligently between the two could possibly ruin your own future marital life. Its now known not until your Mama dies; no woman will ever be comfortable coming into your life as a wife lest he she becomes a slave under your roof. Every home has some sort of marital discomfort particularly with inlaws somehow but, never stretches misunderstanding to this level. The future of your baby didn’t even matter to you in your decisions to push your baby Mama out and, how did your Mum come so close in contact with your marital affairs as to develop into an ereconciliable differences.? Hope you’ll replace her with your Mum, Hope so.!!!
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- Muyi
  December 22, 2016 at 10:43 PM
  Future of the baby, at the expense of his own Joy. Enough of all this deception, so you want a man to live 30, 40 years with a heavy heart and sorrow, because a woman bore him a child! He’ll No. If she ain’t cultured, it’s better he takes a leave before it’s too late and she has 2,3,4 kids for him. So many people that waited long in bad marriages died of Hypertension, the earlier a separation the better. My take.
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sola olaniyi
December 22, 2016 at 9:46 PM
omo mama e
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Ms ERANKO
December 23, 2016 at 8:22 PM
MARRIAGE IS NO MORE A YARDSTICK, WHAT ITS IMPORTANT IS THAT THE DNA SAY THIS IS YOUR CHILD.
EITHER YOUR MMMMMMAMI LIKE HER OR NOT IS NOT A BIG DEAL ANYMORE, AT LEASE SHE IS FREE FROM COOKING CLEANING AND ALL THOSE PRESSURE OF MARRIAGE.
YOUR SO CALLED MOTHER IS YOUR HOUSEKEEPER AND YOUR COOK. SO YOU DO NOT NEED A WIFE
IF YOU LIKE, YOU CAN MARRY YOUR MOTHER AND BEGIN TO FUCK HER TO GET BELLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE AH AH AH
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