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Man Divorces Wife In Akure For Refusing To Exhibit Different Sexual Styles, Says She Is Stubborn
August 2nd, 2017 – Divorce Seeking Couple Exposes Intimate Bedroom Secret At Akure Customary Court Today
Man Divorces Wife In Akure Ondo State For Refusing To Exhibit Different Sexual Styles, Says She Is Stubborn
Esther Adaramola, a mother of three today consented to her husband’s divorce application.
Mrs Adaramola told the court she could no longer withstand her hubby’s rough lovemaking style and constant demand for sex.
She accused her husband, Michael Adaramola of being in the habit of using different sex enhancement drugs during intercourse.
Her words:
Michael in his application said he is done with his 9-year-old marriage because his wife is stubborn and promiscuous.
His words:
Responding to her husband’s allegation of indecent dressing, Esther said Michael only wants her to wear Iro and Buba (native attire) which were not her taste.
She added that her hubby is fond of transferring his anger to their 3 kids whenever they had minor disagreement.
The court reserved judgement till the 23rd of August.
The President, Mr Omotola Ayodele urged the couple to maintain peace before the adjourned date.
iron bar
August 2, 2017 at 5:54 PM
HABA.WAS PERFORMING ACROBATIC STYLES PART OF THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT WHEN U MET HER PARENTS..KUKUMA ENROL HER TO JOIN X RTED COMPANIES..U FOR TEACH HER NAH..THIS MAN NA MUMU
Endurance
August 2, 2017 at 7:50 PM
It seems people are just too tired of marriage this days,divorcing their partners at every slightest disagreement and provocation. Married couples need to be reminded that sex is an integral part of marriage. On the other hand, marriage partners has to be considerate in their demands too. The husband maybe using sex enhancing drugs to increase his sex drive and libido so as to sexually satisfy his wife. He may also desire different sex positions so that he can fully satisfy both himself and his wife. But since such practise doesn’t go down well with his wife,then the husband one’s to demonstrate enough consideration by ‘putting the interest of his wife ahead of his own’. That is what the bible recommends so that married couples can always maintain peace and unity. But when you always seek for your own interest alone and not that of your partner,then it is certain that the marriage will head for a rock. And that’s exactly what is happening here. The husband wants his demand for sex to be met at all cost without thinking of his wife’s emotional needs. I think the government need to make available marriage counsellors and station them at every court so that they can always give sound advise to those experiencing trouble in their marriage with the sole objective of saving peoples marriage rather than quickly dissolving them.
Metu Nyetu
August 3, 2017 at 7:32 AM
10/10
Adilson Marques
August 3, 2017 at 10:17 AM
Endurance, this is well said and well composed. I love your comment, you talked like a reasonable human being. Thanks for that.
MADAM ERANKO
August 2, 2017 at 9:34 PM
AH HA HA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AH AH
THE NIGERIAN WOULD ADVICE YOU TO STAY BECAUSE IF YOU DIVORCE, YOU MIGHT NOT COME ACROSS SOMEONE ELSE BETTER THAN THE ONE YOU DIVORCE, AND BECAUSE THE BOOK HAVE SAID MARRIAGE SHOULD BE FOR LIFE AND IT IS A SIN TO DIVORCE
HOW CAN A WOMAN HANDLE THIS TYPES OF MARRIAGE, THERE IS NOTHING IN THIS MARRIAGE, IT IS BETTER FOR THIS WOMAN TO PACK HER BAG AND MOVE ON.
VISITING A COUNSELLORS IS JUST A WASTE OF TIME WITH A MAN WHO IS AN ASSHOLE,
THERE IS NOTHING TO BE SOLVED WITH SOMEONE WHO IS A LIBIDINOUS AND A MANIPULATOR, HE IS A KNUCKLEHEAD.
THE BEST FOR THIS WOMAN IS TO MOVE ON, AND THEN TAKE YOUR TIME TO SEARCH FOR SOMEONE ELSE BETTER, PLEASE DO NOT BE TOO DESPERATE. WISH YOU GOOD LUCK, PLEASE DO NOT BE AFRAID, BE STRONG
Endurance
August 2, 2017 at 10:47 PM
ERAN OKO… can you tell us one reason why this woman should leave the marriage?
Endurance
August 3, 2017 at 3:05 AM
ERANKO…can you tell us one reason why the woman should leave the marriage?
Mon
August 3, 2017 at 2:10 AM
This woman is open and direct, the man was just beating around the bush. The two primary reasons that always cause problem in marriages are sex and money, so no matter how people create other excuses, sex or money still remain the root cause, but sex is the most problematic because people can endure when there is no money, but enduring sexual urge when your partner is around is hardly inevitable,his or her denial will lead to so many reasoning such as maybe he/she do not love me anymore,or seeing someone else etc.
Let couple be cautious and learn how to say NO in a reasonable manner.The truth is e dey hard o
Jilo
August 3, 2017 at 2:16 PM
Marriage is not what it used to be like in those good days. Some people cannot just endure little inevitable problem in marriage. Some are not even sure weather they really want marriage before embarking in unending journey. From what I noticed between these two above partner is one of them is out of track. There is nothing anyone can do to retract that.
In marriage we must learn how to sacrifice our ego to make our relationship work otherwise most marriage will not sustain. That is why marriage is like sacrifice, we sacrifice a lot to be in marriage, your freedom, your style, you cannot make some certain decision without bringing your partner along. some people view marriage as an alternate to slavery that is why they don’t want to be part of it.
We current generation have no will to keep marriage yet most of us are rushing to be part of it. If you see any working marriage definitely one of the partners is keeping the ball rolling. There is nothing wrong if your partner wants it in a different ways just to spice up the relationship. Some women prefer their husband to show them different style in order not to shift their interest somewhere else.
Im not a perfect individual in the school of marriage and jumping to another partner is not also a solution but understanding. I have my own issue too but I tried hard to maintain one and I have also considered many options if I choose to opt out of my marriage. I’m fed up when my partner constantly kept trailing me try to know every bit of my movement. Should I divorce my wife because of that? no! because the kids always bear the burden most.
Funmi
August 3, 2017 at 3:37 PM
God bless you sir. For a marriage to work out fine, both partners have some work to do. Both of them cannot be goat, one will be a goat while the other one will be a sheep. Divorce is not the solution to every problems in a marriage
DB
August 3, 2017 at 7:08 PM
Woman, run for your life!