I Married A Nigerian Man Who Used Me For 10 Year Green Card & Now Going After My Assets In Divorce

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July 13, 2017 – I Married A Nigerian Man Who Used Me To Get 10 Year Green Card & Abandoned Me & My Children – US Lady Laments

He Abandoned Me & The Children & Now Going After My Asset In The Divorce

I married a Nigerian (Igbo) and he used me for a GREEN CARD. He never took me to his village and I always stayed with his sister in Port Harcourt Nigeria. He told me he has a daughter in Nigeria but the mom is dead. I never saw nor spoke to this so called daughter. I waited three years for him in the States. He now has the 10 year GREEN CARD and abandoned my children and I.

I believe he’s married and have multiple children in other countries including his own.

He’s now living his American dream and soon his family members will be living theirs as well because of my stupidity.

I knew something was wrong and still proceeded with the paperwork because I wanted to do the right thing as a “wife” with the children I regrettably made with him.

My children are “anchor” babies. He asked me for children to ensure I bring him here. Unfortunately it worked. He has a new female here, abandoned us and going after my assets in the divorce.

[Nene writes from the US]

14 thoughts on “I Married A Nigerian Man Who Used Me For 10 Year Green Card & Now Going After My Assets In Divorce

  1. Nne welcome to the club of Nigeria Criminal and Domestic Men who think they are smart without knowing they are causing their generation with evil doing bcos what a man sow he shall reap in hundreds folds. Don’t worry just go naked every night read psalms upon his head and cause him and his supporter bcos that is what I did to my Ex who used me as well and thinks his smart without knowing his carrying cause upon his head for stepping on my toes. Don’t worry GOD will fight for you as he did for me ok. Just ask GOD for Grace to carry on with your life bcos GOD will surely bless you as he blesses me after everything. Even my stupid Ex lied against me and took me to court if not for GOD I would have lost the case but GOD saw everything and vindicated me through all the case. It’s well ok just be focused and see what GOD will do in your life ok????????????????

  2. TOO BAD THAT SOME MEN COULD be this utilitarian in nature. Even though this is only one side of the story, I tend to believe you totally. You said your regret is having children with that man. Please don’t use that word again for it could lead to your either despising or hating those wonderful, innocent children.

    IN THIS GAME OF LOVE, EVERYBODY PLAYS the fool. This goes to show that the human version of love is far from the real thing. May all utilitarians be paid back in their very own useless coin!

  3. that’s why igbo won’t become Nigeria president always mentioned mostly in criminal situations than other tribes na only God know who worse pass between them and fulani fools

    • your ****** yhu thinm all igbos er dsame ewu,ybu dats talkin exaggerating yours would hv been worse dan d igbi man

  4. And the stupidity continues. You are not the first and won’t be the last in these things. If a woman is stupid and gullible enough in this modern age, that is her problem. Thank your stars he didn’t use you for ritual in his village cos that is an Ibo specialty. Your children still have their mother so be grateful. If you have a good lawyer and can prove your case, he will get nothing from you. Spread the word, those men are users. Let your common sense prevail over emotions always. Good luck next time.

  5. LET ME BE a fool, even if only this once, and react to all these anti-Igbo commentators that take sadistic pleasure in castigating the entire Igbo tribe whenever an unpleasant thing is reported of an Igboman. @admin, I doubt there would be any need to censor my comment, since I have made sure they are under check, and since you have published Lola’s and Free Thinker’s comments.

    @Lola, and Free Thinker, I guess Bezo is your leader. Well, that’s not bad. But I must say how disappointed I am with you especially @Lola. You are one of those I hardly fail to read because of their informed thoughts. But now you have me wondering how wrong I am. You said that ritual is Igbo specialty. Have you already forgotten the ritualistic escapades reported over and over again of Ondo State people, your own kit and kin? The frequency at which each new case is exposed after another has far surpassed the whole of the five eastern states in more than a decade. Yet this has not caused your heart to bleed, probably because it is your birthright to do such evil things, and no Igboman should meddle into such beastly affairs without first obtaining a written permission from your tribe, as they are the custodians of underworld enterprises. I can bet my bank account that another Ondo case would soon surface before the end of this month. But there’s no cause for alarm since the crime is done by the Yorubas.

    ANOTHER CASE IS that of drug trafficking. You guys say all manner of derogatory things when the Igboman is the perpetrator. I have only this line for you to consider: When the Igbo tribe is involved in drug, it is a youth reported. But when the Yoruba is involved, it is an old woman who is somebody’s mother, and possibly grandmother! Which one is more shameful in your own reckoning? Or shouldn’t an exuberant youth whose reason has been blurred by the pressure and the passion to get rich be condoned, as it were, far more than an old woman who brings a shame upon motherhood and womanhood by indulging herself in that base thing which she ought to have warned her sons to eschew? Have women not been reported to have restraints when wild adventures become alluring? Or are Yoruba women, including you, different? Why do you people go about looking for the slightest opportunity to spite the Igboman? Yet you are the very ones who say that Igbos are insulting!

    I SHALL stop here, although my heart is still heavy with many unsaid words. Let me deal with them in my quietude, and hope that naijagist admin would publish the few words I’ve let out, not censoring anything, or not publish them at all.

  6. You said three years, how many children did you got for the fraudster in three years? Maybe you are good in taking in because of frequent demand for sex

  7. STOP BEING A MOURNER, GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE ,

    MAY I KNOW WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM , PLEASE GO AND LOOK FOR A JOB AND KEEP YOURSELF BUSY AND FEED YOURSELF AND CHILDREN

    BECAUSE YOU ARE BOTH A USER, IT IS ALL ABOUT THE LAW OF EXCHANGE.

    HE HAS DONATED HIS SPERM FOR YOU TO HAVE A BABY AND YOU HAVE GIVEN HIM A GREEN CARD FOR HIS AMERICAN DREAM

    SO IF YOU ARE WISE ENOUGH YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WORRY. THE YORUBA SAID [ OORO AABO NI A NSO FUN OMO OLUWABI, TI O BA DE INU RE AA DI ODINDI.

    IT MEANS WE DO NOT SAY TOO MUCH TO THE WISE.

    WISE UP AND BE SMART. BE STRONG AND LIVE YOUR LIFE AND BE HAPPY WITH YOUR CHILDREN ,

    DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME CRYING OVER MR USER AND YOU ARE MRS USER TOO.

    IT IS ALL ABOUT THE LAW OF EXCHANGE AH AH AH CHIRIOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  8. pls dear am very sorry just let him be am here for you as well is one one,don’t mind him till time ahead you are very pretty lady and am interested in you my wife died so many years now come i all give you all you needed for now,let him be men are like that,another man would treat his fuck up,believe me I hey u…

  9. @fool thinker oh sorry free thinker,and loda sorry Lola, I didn’t c your comment on the guy that sold his wife and daughter for 270k,I think he is an Igbo man too. Well said metu.

  10. This one sided,not enough to draw a verdict. Till the other party is interviewed. I have nothing to say

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