March 12, 2015 – Mide Martins Reveals Intimate Bedroom Secret In New Interview “How I Keep My Husband From Sexy Nigerian Girls”
In response to UK-based Nigerian Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo’s claim that sexual positions other than missionary position is sin, Nollywood actress Mide Martins said:
“One style what? If it is only one style that I have been doing with my husband, I would have lost him to all these skinny girls out there. If any wife decides to stick the missionary style she will lose him to the girls out there who are ready to go the extra mile and do lots of crazy stuff of bed to make the man happy.”
“To him (Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo), it can be a sin to God but I don’t see as a sin. It is very normal and a natural thing.
Let’s face reality and let us not deceive ourselves, if you have a man and you are not able to do all these sex styles, you would lose him to all these girls out there who are ready to drive him mad with these sex styles that come out everyday, it is important for wives to spice up the sex life in their marriage. It is the key to sustaining a happy home and marriage please.
Me I do the doggie style, spice it up, everything. I do all the styles please. I will advise women not to let any body mislead them, women, please always have good sex with your husband so he won’t have any cause to go outside”
Good advise. Thanks for being honest.
Well said, i hope all married women read this…
Hmmm…comment pocketed!
If I say I nor gbadu u 4 dis mata wen u yan so Make me marry wowo girl… Live gists joor she has said it all so if u knw say u pretend out dey b4 dis na good time to escape Ooo after now it will be neva…
Respectable married women of virtue do not talk like this in public Mide Martins. Your intimate life with your husband should be private. If you want to teach sex education then go for it! Trust me if you do the doggy, catty or ratty style, if your husband is a player, that aint gonna stop him. If you are married to a man that respects you and loves you and fears God that is more likely to stop him from cheating. If you think it is your sex position that is doing the trick, you got another think coming gurl! He would cheat right under your nose because there would always be those ‘skinny’ girls (as you call them) that do better ‘styles’ than you do. Respect yourself.
@ I, I so much love your comment. Religiously, it’s wrong to publicly disclose what transpires in your bedroom in public. Simple. I understand she’s trying to pass good message but Mrs Mide should never ever have said she did this or that. That’s very wrong.
Aside, let’s see what Qur’an says about sexual pleasure in bedroom. Qur’an says women are your(men) tilt and you should go in to your tilt the way you like except anus. It’s forbidden to go through anus.
“Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.” (Al-Quran 2:223)
Further explanation including Hadith:
Yes, woman is called the tilth for man, but it is not that a parallel is being drawn between her and tilth. Actually it is a simile, that it is man whose seed a woman carries in her womb. It is in this context that this simile is given for understanding. For those who really understand the Quran, this verse asks for better attitude towards women. you see, a farmer looks after his tilth, waters it, protects it against all climate conditions. In the same way man is supposed to take every care of woman, for he has been given more physical strength and has been made her protector and manager of her affairs.
Ibn Kathir Tafsir It’s written:
The Reason behind revealing Allah’s Statement: “Your Wives are a Tilth for You.(so go to your tilth, when or how you will) meaning, wherever you wish from the front or from behind, as long as sex takes place in one valve (the female sexual organ), as the authentic Hadiths have indicated.
For instance, Al-Bukhari recorded that; Ibn Al-Munkadir said that he heard Jabir say that the Jews used to claim that if one has sex with his wife from behind (in the vagina) the offspring would become cross-eyed. Then, this Ayah was revealed:(Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth, when or how you will).
Muslim and Abu Dawud also reported this Hadith. Ibn Abu Hatim said that Muhammad bin Al-Munkadir narrated that Jabir bin Abdullah told him that; the Jews claimed to the Muslims that if one has sex with their wife from behind (in the vagina) their offspring will become cross-eyed. Ibn Jurayj (one of the reporters of the Hadith)
said that Allah’s Messenger said: From the front or from behind, as long as that
occurs in the Farj (vagina).
@Amanda….U have ended up “tilthing”my brain,& ur sermons have made my brain tilhted in the vigina position-no thnks to U!
PLEASE this woman has done no wrong she is legally married to this man-and is this same man she is talking about NOT her boyfriend.
So many thanks to U Mrs Boko Haram!for ur advice.
did anyone dispute whether they are legally married?. What we considered unwise is publicly exposing what goes on in her bedroom.
@Amanda,this is the year 2015,ok!
Very good Sermon that worthy to be follow
A good lesson keep it up.
@amanda na wa for you,all this sermon on top doggy style,mide is only saying the truth. I concur with Tboy,this 2015,where the heck are u from mars?or Jupiter?pls keep that preaching dear for the next service.daalu
STUPID ADVICE!!!
from the pit of HELL!!!
THIS IS THE KIND OF MOTHER’S WE HAVE TODAY… NO WONDER OUR KIDS ARE TERRIBLE!!!
HMMMMM, MERCY LORD!!! TO HAVE THIS TYPES OF MOTHER WHO THIS IS COMING OUT FROM?
MEANS THE CHILDREN ARE IN DANGER!!!
THIS SAME MAN U DO ALL THAT WITH ONE DAY WILL PUSH U ASIDE N MOVE ON!!!
SO, SEX IS WHAT U TRUST UR GOD GIVEN MARRIAGE UPON? JUST SEX? SHAME ON U MAM
!!!.
_U ARE SUCH A DISGRACE!!! IS THIS WHAT UR MUMMY DID TO KEEP THEIR PRECIOUS HOME ?
I PITY UR CHILDREN N ALL THAT FOLLOWS U!!!