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Money Can’t Buy Love: Why A Woman Should Never Spend Her Money On A Man

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January 2nd, 2016 – Money Can’t Buy Love: Why A Woman Should Never Given Her Money To A Man

Today we will be discussing a very contentious topic, “to fund or not fund”. It might seem like a tricky question but it is never a good idea to buy love, especially if you are a woman. Why on earth should a woman give a man (who is not even her husband) her money?

Not a good idea at all! Back in the day, men took care of their wives and families, and ruled their households like mini fiefdoms. Times have changed, and women now make their own money, but men still expect us to submit, so what do we do? We submit, if only for the sake of peace. However, if a woman has to foot the bill, she has become the boss, not just a helpmate. So why do I think so?

1.The man was designed to be the head in every marital/amorous relationship, and if he is the leader, he should foot the bills (or at least a large part of it). Why? Because money is power, whoever has it controls the power dynamics of the relationship. In all my years, I am yet to come across a man who is happy to be fed or funded by a woman, they might date (or even marry) a woman for her money, but trust me more often than not they will find a less financially buoyant woman to spend their change on, so as to feel like men.

2. Giving a man your money puts you at risk of attracting gold diggers/gigolos. Only yesterday, I read the story of a divorced silver spoon celebrity chick. She said, “I really loved him, but when I had a financial challenge, he took off. Apparently, that was all he wanted.” Guess what, the guy in question is remarried to a younger woman today.

Speaking further, she said, “I have never dated a man for money, however in another relationship; a man took my hard earned money, and ran.” Guess what? Her story is nothing new, I am yet to see an got a job, she never set eyes again on him; after three kids. instance where the woman funded the relationship and it worked out. The only female relative I know who tried it put a man through university, clothed, housed and fed him, his mom, and siblings for years, while he was unemployed. When he finally got a job, she never set eyes again on him; after three kids.

3. You can never really tell if it is you he loves or your money. Modern females are educated and independent, but marriage demands that we submit to our man. How does a person submit to a man one is feeding? More often than not, such women become / are accused of being shrewish, and the men feel justified in taking off. What about an old friend of mine who dated a guy while she was putting herself through the university.

She would feed him, and spend her heard earned savings on him, guess the first thing he did after he graduated? That’s right, he dumped her. Obviously he never loved her, only her money. My advice? Do yourself a favour, and find yourself a man who has a job. Oh, and just in case he attempts to turn you to his ATM; dump him.

[By Jane Akolade, The Nation]



  1. Durumi boy

    January 2, 2016 at 7:48 PM

    It is ok to spend on a man for a while but not for life.
    If a man is struggling his wife or partner can help him but he too should try and do something

  2. Amanda

    January 2, 2016 at 11:54 PM

    There is nothing wrong if a woman spends on a man she loves vis-à-vis. But because there are so much mistrusts in today’s world, doing that constitutes “maga”, cuckold, paymaster, you name it.

    It is same with man spending on his supposed “lover girl”. But his “lover” gets paid by simp but opens her legs WIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE for crackhead or hood-rat to go in and out whenever he wants, however he wants. Stories like this piss me off, for real.

  3. Danti

    January 3, 2016 at 4:19 AM

    Only the vainglorious will attach unnecessary importance to life. There should be no problem with mutual reciprocity; only the habitual followers of religious precepts will scale through unblemished. Worldliness is a problem that distort our reasoning about love or other circumstances we find ourselves. If a woman liberated you from financial denudation,show maturity and appreciate her by burying your congenital ego and cultural nonsense that says men must always do everything. Though, some women without morality would let their fortunate stance overlord their countenance toward their men.

    • Buchi

      February 24, 2016 at 6:25 AM

      Very Simple and explicit.

  4. sandy

    January 6, 2016 at 3:52 PM

    i love dis ,i almost fell into these but with dis advice ,i am taking tu my heels.

  5. Kells

    January 26, 2016 at 4:14 PM

    U are too intelligent amanda u just spoke matured u know some guys of nowadays are so stupid dat wen a woman love dem with all her heart they feel dat they are d most handsome man on earth and start playing games without knowing that they are digging their grave but for me wen am broke dat doesnt mean i will take from woman i rather beg her to not expect anything from me for now dan taking from her just to retain my respect as a man as for me am just in need of a girl dat will love me and understand wen am broke dis is my number 07031984591 any interrested woman should call i need a woman i will handle like an egg pet her and make all her dreams come true

  6. Kells

    January 26, 2016 at 4:23 PM

    Sandy, dis goes to u, pleas never do dat, god is d reward of any good things u do on earth, but u may just spend wisely if u see dat ur guy is hard working u can surpport him ok but as for me i hate taking from lady cos is my policy i love showing love to dem and wen ever am broke i do hide my self till am rich again so sandy never stop encourraging ur love dis is my number 07031984591.

  7. Kells

    January 26, 2016 at 4:31 PM

    A man should be wise enof u should pretend to be poor some time for true love to come is very bad to cheat a woman and a woman too should never cheat a man but all men should be able to stand on thier feet not begging woman for money cos u are loosing ur respect gradually as for me am just in need of a woman dat will love me i need nothing from u exept true love am a handsome young man am tall chocolate skin i need a strong relationship dat wount take much time before marriage my number is 07031984591

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