Rising Trend Of Materialism Among Nigerian Women: A Call For Balance And Respect

Uriel Speaks Out on Materialism Among Nigerian Women: A Call for Balance and Respect

In a candid and thought-provoking post, former BBNaija contestant Uriel Oputa has raised concerns about the growing materialism among Nigerian women. She has taken to her Instagram page to voice her worries about the increasing trend of financial demands in relationships. Uriel’s words come as a stark reminder of the importance of mutual respect and balance in partnerships.

Uriel’s critique revolves around the idea that many women today are placing a monetary value on various aspects of their relationships. She is particularly troubled by the expectation of financial support from men as a matter of course, rather than something that comes from mutual respect and genuine care.

In her Instagram post, Uriel did not hold back. She questioned why women feel the need to ask men for money for basic needs, like getting their hair done, just to go on a date. She wondered why self-respect seems to be taking a back seat to financial gain. Her message is clear: relationships should not be transactional.

“We are living in desperate times,” Uriel began. “Ladies, how did we get to the stage of asking a guy you just met to pay for your hair so you can go on a date with him? Why can’t we have respect for ourselves? Why must we bill at every opportunity?”

Her words highlight a growing concern about the dynamics of modern relationships. Uriel is advocating for a return to a time when financial support was given out of respect and care, not as an obligation or a price tag on one’s affection.

“Even if he gives you money, let it be out of respect,” she continued. “Why are we putting price tags on our private area? Is it plantain?”

Uriel’s comparison to plantain, a staple and affordable food item, underscores her point about the trivialization of something as personal and intimate as one’s body. She is urging women to evaluate their actions and the potential consequences of their materialistic attitudes.

In her post, Uriel also acknowledged the challenging economic times everyone is facing. She understands that financial struggles are real and pressing, but she believes that these struggles should not justify a lack of self-respect or the reduction of relationships to mere financial transactions.

“We are living in desperate times. Wickedness is everywhere. The rich and poor don’t smile. Please evaluate your favorite because they could potentially land you six feet under,” she warned.

Uriel’s message is a call to action for women to reassess their values and the way they approach relationships. She wants women to seek partners who will care for them and, in turn, be willing to care for their partners as well.

“I love a man to look after me, but I’m also willing to look after him too,” Uriel wrote. “Honestly, with the way things are, I would advise my brother not to date Nigerian women.”

Her advice to her brother, though stark, is a reflection of her concern for the current state of relationships. She is not condemning all Nigerian women but is calling out a trend she sees as harmful and unsustainable.

Uriel’s words have sparked a conversation about the values we hold in relationships and the need for mutual respect and support. Her call for balance and self-respect is a timely reminder that relationships should be built on more than just financial support. They should be partnerships where both parties care for and support each other in all aspects of life.

As we navigate these challenging times, Uriel’s message is a powerful reminder to look beyond material gains and focus on building genuine, respectful, and balanced relationships.