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Nigerian Actor Benson Okonkwo Is Gay: Supposed Girlfriend Emelda Emells Denies Relationship “He’s Using Me To Cover Up”

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August 19, 2013 – Nollywood Actor Benson Okonkwo Is Gay: Supposed Girlfriend Emelda Emells Denies Relationship “He’s Using Me To Cover Up”

Nigerian Actor Benson Okonkwo Is Gay: Supposed Girlfriend, Emelda Emells Speaks “I See Men In His House”

Weeks after his wedding rumour surfaced, Nollywood actor Benson Okonkwo who became popular in Nollywood‘s first gay movie, Pregnant hawker has been exposed.

His dirty secret lifestyle has been exposed by his supposed girlfriend Emelda Emells Anthony who claims she is not dating him.

Upset by the virality of their photos that circulated the web last week, Emelda said she has known Benson Okonkwo as far back as 2005.

Emelda said the photos making round was taken in 2011 at a beauty shop.

Emelda who lost her father on the 4th of August claims she is engaged to another man and that they’re currently having issues after he (her new man) spotted those pictures on the net.

To make the matter worst, Emelda said she became aware Benson Okonkwo‘s gay lifestyle after he started seeing troop of men in his house.

The beautiful lady who is currently mourning the death of her father is using this medium to expose his dirty secrets and her real relationship with him.

Check out what she said below;

” I’m not in any relationship with Benson. He is just using me to cover up his real lifestyle. I have known him since 2005 and those photos were taken in 2011 at a salon and we were just playing around, even the kiss is not real. Benson has been using me to cover up for years and it has to stop. I have a serious boyfriend and it was his friends that drew his attention to the photos. Now I am having issues with my man. I am not engaged to Benson or planning to marry him.

He has never even asked me to marry him. His father and my father were close friends and that was how we met. We were supposed to date back when we were introduced but he never touched me and when I started seeing men in his house I understood and we have been friends ever since. This story is so painful to me. I lost my father on August 4th and I am still mourning him so to be reading this type of story online is making my situation worse. Please help me tell the world I am not getting married to Benson”.

Emelda’s denial of relationship with Gay Nigerian actor Benson Okonkwo and the fact that she said she sees a lot of men in his house suggest that he is definitely an homosexual man.

I think she is really upset for seeing her unauthorized pictures all over the net.

If Benson Okonkwo is gay, he might face 14 years jail sentence in Nigeria over the recently passed anti-gay law.

Another school of though said Emelda should be blamed for allowing a guy to touch her openly in her sensitive spot.

Benson Okonkwo and Emelda Emells kissing

In the pictures that went viral, they were even spotted kissing passionately.

Who do you thing should be blamed, Emelda or the gay Nigerian actor covering up his lifestyle?



  1. tony

    August 19, 2013 at 6:54 PM

    Emelda you are a foolish woman. How can u stoop so low for a man of this calliber. Go and get tested for aids idiot

  2. Chizzy

    August 19, 2013 at 7:08 PM

    The writing on the walls is plain this guy is gay fullstop…
    Why do you expect a gay guy to touch a girl… Your boyfriend should dump you because u’re a cheater.

    • Benson Okonkwo

      August 19, 2013 at 11:04 PM

      No she’s a leopard, nt a cheetar… LOL.

      • emmanuel

        May 6, 2014 at 8:37 PM

        ben, pls dont mind her. just continue ur lifstyle. i love u

  3. obinna

    August 19, 2013 at 7:59 PM

    Did God do any bad thing to humanity? why do we humani beings hate God? a father that loves his children and even sent his own son to die to save us from the trap of the devil. it this how we pay back for the love? oooh man, are you people ready to face Gods anger? God is love and so long as you are alive reading this message please repent and come back to God and get rid of any thing that is not good. God is holy and to enter heaven we nmust be holy.

  4. iilave

    August 19, 2013 at 8:15 PM

    Nigerian insulting the guy without proof,primetive thinker,think beyond what u read when dia is full proof that he is gay. Then pass ur judgement I hate that shit too bt if I start seeing or thinking anybody that look gay is gay then half of the guys who pull their pants down and braid their or wear skinny jeans are gay,pls niger ask. For real proof

    • lawal

      August 19, 2013 at 8:42 PM

      You are the one that don’t have a proof Mr. Benson is a gay. We went to the same school, university of Nigeria, Nsuka. Enugu campus. He was driving a red Toyota corolla wagon dem. he is a confirmed guy, take it to leave it. I wish anybody dat was in unec as @ 2001 to 2006 can testify to dis. The dude na confirm guy.

      • iron bar

        August 20, 2013 at 12:29 AM

        it takes a thief to catch a thief..may be u are one…we need proof..what of muna that acted in a gay movie with dumelo..muna de tear woman like fire..until we confirm him..thats when we will deal with him

    • lawal

      August 19, 2013 at 8:49 PM

      You are the one dat doesn’t know what you are saying. Benson is a confirmed gay. We went to the same university. University of Nigeria, Enugu campus. He was driving a red Toyota corolla den in school. This dude na confirm gay, Take it or leave it.

  5. Jaypee

    August 19, 2013 at 8:26 PM

    She was just being naive. Her fiance shud understand wit her. She erred n she’s sorry. Let him take her back cos its obvious she loves him. Why else wud she deny benson in d open just as she has done. Boyfrend value ur babe o

  6. Me

    August 19, 2013 at 9:12 PM

    Dat gal is a cheat hw cn u go along way with a guy nd he is touching ur sensitive part nd nw u wnt to lead d world astray by spoling anoda man’s image if u have a quarel with ur present guy pls sort it out nd stop tanishing anoda mans image nt dat uve caught him before or do u wnt to tel me dat since ma friend cum to ma house any how dat make me a gay? Gal i realy gues dat if u start seeing him with oda gals u wil surely cal him a cheat go nd rest ur aligation are baseles

  7. Latoya

    August 19, 2013 at 11:46 PM

    I was his classmate. He never liked women so he might gay.
    We used to call him Bengay and he likes it.

  8. KS2

    August 20, 2013 at 12:14 AM

    Umu uwaa… Ekwure ekwu! Wen u talk trash de more de make cash. KS2 4 tonez

  9. GB KILO

    August 20, 2013 at 12:30 AM

    he never touch u and ur mouth de roll inside his mouth.yeye girl

  10. jenny

    August 20, 2013 at 12:42 AM

    I don’t blame de girl,she may have taken de picture out of carefree or probably she was nursuing feelings for de guy only to realise he’s a gay,dude pls take ur girl back and forgive her,this pix I suppose was taken b4 emelda met her current man pls take ur girl back man don’t let de benson guy spoil what u both share

  11. Tiger

    August 20, 2013 at 1:15 AM

    This guy needs deliverance… That homosexual thing is in his blood and to Emelda u’re to be blamed for cheating on your boyfriend

  12. nate

    August 20, 2013 at 5:32 AM

    both of them looked to me like they are all men.

    • Lolly

      August 20, 2013 at 11:39 AM

      Hahahaha @ Nate u summarize d whole episode weldone

  13. mopelewa

    August 20, 2013 at 8:12 AM

    Nō wonder na S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ breast d guy dey touch i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ those pictures,responsible fience won’t treat his girlfriend dat wàγ̲̣̣̥ ,

    i§ obvious d guy never dated a lady b4,bcos ŋō single L♥√ع a̶̲̥̅̊ŋd respect shows i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ dat der stupid pictures.linda post ♍Ɣ comment oº°°ºoº°°º

  14. maureen

    August 20, 2013 at 8:43 AM

    Gay gay gay n both of u ar deeply in serious touchin,luk at d kisses,gurl u dnt need to destroy another person image becos yur man cut u wit another n morover u dnt conclude becos u see guys in his house frequently dt mak him gay,dt one no be talk jare

  15. Chinny

    August 20, 2013 at 9:42 AM

    REPENT! REPENT!! REPENT!!! God can call you anytime. What will you tell Him? That you’re busy enjoying the world and all its enticement? God will tell you, DEPART I KNEW YOU NOT YOU WORKERS OF INIQUITY. May it never be our portion, in Jesusname. Amen. Let’s change our lifestyle and embrace the way of purity in Christ Jesus. Both the Benson the actor and that lady that can’t control herself should change and accept Christ.

  16. Destino

    August 20, 2013 at 2:51 PM

    Is like dis man call iron bar is out of is mind sometime.somebody is testiefy to dis and u are saying is one of them.u most no how u contribute sometime ok.this will be a lesson to other woman out there who allways play arround wit eny man.thanks

  17. Silasetemma

    August 20, 2013 at 2:54 PM

    How cum u r kissin him since u pple we’re not dating

  18. favor

    August 20, 2013 at 3:00 PM

    the guy is gay and probably he plays the female part, cant u see him closing his eyes lik a woman? only ladies close their eyes lik dat.may GOd hav mercy on him.

  19. KRISZ

    August 20, 2013 at 10:12 PM

    As far as am concerned emelda’s talkin evaluatn is dt she used 2 luv ben & nw she isnt & nw has anoda guy whose nt comfy wit her pix wt ben shes doin all ds 2 redeem hersef nw dt d pix has gone viral.Emelda’s stori in essence is horseshit!

  20. Blessing

    August 21, 2013 at 1:13 PM

    She probably dated ben back then in 2011 nd its possible they’re no more in a relationship. I can agree to this cos of 2much touching in dose pictures. But whether or not ben is gay is either true or false cos there’s no proof nd I don’t c him serving jail term without any concrete proof. Dude pls take ur gal back we all have a past.

  21. prommzy

    August 21, 2013 at 8:17 PM

    dere is nonid 4 dat gal to diny ever hving an afirs wit d socall gayguy cuz der pic shows erryting what waz she tinking wen dey took those pic? Cn see d exitment on her face i mean luk at d passion on dat kiss nau nt one, nt two, nt even three nd shes here talking shit! Comeon guyz wakeup do not be decieved

  22. Don Solo

    August 21, 2013 at 11:01 PM

    Maybe she don catch anoter mumu wên shê go chop hm money

  23. dgirl

    March 28, 2014 at 10:17 AM

    I personally know this son of a wealthy man from enugwukwu in anambra state, he is a gay and very proud of it, none. Of his family members like to identify with him, they are ashamed of him, he is never ashamed of himself that was y he exposed this photos, she had a fling wit the wrong dude, which abt 80 percent of women did b4 they married, your man will accept your mistakes when he comes, don’t force anyone to accept you, learn from your mistakes and move ahead

    • Amos Ballam

      September 20, 2014 at 1:27 PM

      yes, i read with concern the situation my sister Emelda is surrounded with. i first of all send you condolence upon your Dad’s demise . let me share with you this life experience. Just concentrate in dating your Man. And to your husband to be, the massage is , NO ONE MARRIES AND ANGLE. This picture the guy posted on net, was a camouflage. he just want to confused the world and police who may have inter.est in the case. My sister, people who want to pull you down are ever below you, you are above forever. What happened should strengthen your relationship the more if this new guy loves you. God bless you . Amos Ballam

      • lien

        October 13, 2014 at 4:12 PM

        U Pple dnt think. D girl is lying like a rug. Look at d pictures and see three different dresses and she made us believe dat it was just a casual picture at d saloon.

  24. Dasilva

    February 25, 2015 at 11:40 AM

    live ur lyf the wey u want….@Benson ko kan aye.

  25. Funmilayo

    May 1, 2015 at 2:14 PM

    That girl called emelda is a liar and a cheat. She is useless. She just wanted to tarnish bensons image to keep his new man. I blame benson for posting those pictures online. Because u see guys visiting him, u tag him gay, u are senseless, u don’t have any proof so u are a looser, idiot.

  26. kiki

    December 8, 2015 at 9:17 PM

    All this people say that she wants to tarnish the guy(ben’s) image are either working with Ben or totally jealous of her marriage. She said they met sometimes back, she must have fallen in love with him thinking he will marry her some day due to all the lies he bombarded her. Even when she eventually found out he was gay she kept it to herself until he decided to ruin her marriage. A reasonable and responsible man will never expose the pictures of his acclaimed girlfriend or ex-gf on the Internet knowing that could ruin her marriage. He simply did it to ruin her marriage and probably keep her forever as his cover up partner. He acts like other Nigerian celeb gays. “She isn’t tarnishing his image because he is a man rather he is destroying the girl permanently”. Girls learn to support your fellow girl because you might be in that position tomorrow.

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