Nigerian Woman Sues Husband For Denying Her Sex For 10 Years
Nov 26, 2012 – Nigerian Woman Sues Husband For Denying Her Sex For 10 Years
‘Faces’ present at the Kaduna Sharia Court 2,Magajin Gari were shocked to their bones when a housewife, Saratu Haruna from Kawo, Kaduna North Local Government Area explained how her husband, Isa Mainika allegedly denied her of sex for 10years.
Saratu who dragged her husband to the Sharia court said she does not believe the marriage exist any longer, since there has not been sexual intimacy between her and her husband.
She said, “We have been staying for 10 years now, but nothing is happening between us in terms of marital affairs, I don’t love him again.”
Her husband, Mainika on the other hand denied the allegation, accusing Saratu of starving him sexually.
He said, “ Anytime I request for sex, she always denies me. There was a time we had a serious fight over this issue and she bit me.”
Mainika, further noted that he noticed the changes in his wife since she gave birth to their last baby.
He said, “Since then I do not know what I have done to her and I have asked her severally, but she refused to say anything.
“I even invited our elders to settle the matter but the effort yielded no positive result.
“I am still in love with her. I do not want to divorce her because I am really worried about the future of our children.”
The presiding Khadi, Mallam Ibrahim Inuwa, urged the couple to go back home and settle the matter amicably emphasizing that the court will thereafter decide on the case if not settled by the family. (Source)
November 26, 2012 at 5:52 PM
Divorce her from this man, she dont love him again, love comes from both side,if one said is die,the other side must agree is over,is painful,but better stay with together when both side is in love.and sex for over 10yrs,my God that is no more relationship,let her free Alkali pls.
November 27, 2012 at 2:43 PM
THANK GOD THIS WOMAN CAME OUT – PLEASEEEEE DONT BLAME THE WOMAN OR MAN I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE IS NOT THE MATTER OF SOMETHING IS GOING ON OR WHETHER THEIR IS A FIGHT BETWEEN THIS COUPLE THAT MAKES THEN DENIED EACH OTHER SEX.
WE HAVE A LOT OF WOMEN THAT THAT IS SUFFERING FROM THE SAME PROBLEM ‘SARATU’ IS SUFFERING FROM AND THEY DO COMES TO OUR CLINIC FOR COUNSELLING WITHIN THE CHILD AND FAMILY CONSULTATION SERVICE – SOME WOMEN SEXUAL ORGANS JUST SWICTH OFF COMPLETELY AFTER GIVING BIRTH I WILL ADVICE THIS WOMAN TO ALSO SEEK MEDICAL ADVICE IF IT’S AVAILABLE IN NIGERIA TO BE PESCRIBE MEDICATION TO HELP AFTER POST NATAL SEXUAL DEPRESSION.
November 26, 2012 at 6:09 PM
I pity dis woman ooooo make dem settle am well ooooo make d man perform his duty
November 26, 2012 at 6:55 PM
I think the two of them have a grudge in their mind. The fight is not all about sex. This matter should be solved with elder in the family.
November 26, 2012 at 8:01 PM
the issue is not about sex @all, there is something behind it.
November 26, 2012 at 11:08 PM
She really need deliverance.
November 26, 2012 at 11:08 PM
Na wao…10yrs is nt days or month,dey shd end d mariage if d woman dnt wnt anymor or dey solv d mata amicably..
November 26, 2012 at 11:09 PM
She really need a deliverance.
April 27, 2013 at 3:07 PM
She needs a good f*ck. That’s all. She was very clear at what she said. Wasn’t she?..
November 26, 2012 at 11:29 PM
women always do first an they wl b d first to report.
November 27, 2012 at 1:56 AM
There are always 3sides to a marriage, his side of the story, her side and then the truth
November 27, 2012 at 9:54 AM
Am not happy with the sharia judge,he suppose to remand both of them in a room in their court and instruct them to have marathon sex together since both are yawning for s** now,by so doing the matter with be settle naturally.but the man need to eat well bcos the woman might have become a virgin back by now.Goodluck.
November 27, 2012 at 2:46 PM
WHO SHOULD WE BELIEVE?
November 28, 2012 at 1:19 AM
lat them go an setl becors wthat god joy to geda no man should put asornda.
December 4, 2012 at 10:18 AM
So al dis ting that was happing is because of sex
December 24, 2012 at 11:02 AM
fred cast otumala
January 6, 2013 at 8:15 AM
firrstt of all d woman need to go down low. She shuld ask tthe husband abt his medical report, maybe the husbbaand is savin her life she migth not knw. If nt the husband is dying her off her rright.
Abu Mohammad Kabir
January 11, 2013 at 2:38 PM
If ten yrs is true these people have lost faith and trust in themselves. They should be divorced.
January 20, 2013 at 7:25 PM
May be d man no fit perform very way or d woman dn dan follow alj ooo
January 23, 2013 at 6:09 PM
Notin is impossible
January 31, 2013 at 4:41 PM
Who is deceiving who, what are their prove, as wife who did she tell and as husband who are those he has inform, friend, parent of both or the family. God help us
April 27, 2013 at 3:16 PM
a NAIJA man denying sex for 10 years?!.. Come on, Give me a Break!..
October 9, 2013 at 6:10 PM
that woman is lying. The man gave different instances of an effort to resolve the issue and didnt want a divorce but the woman clearly stated she wants a divorce and also said she don’t love him anymore, without giving an evidence or any instance she’s tried to settle it out with him in the past.