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Nollywood Actress Uche Jombo Tells Women Married To Abusive Husbands To Seek Divorce
Feb 20, 2016 – Nigerian Actress Uche Jombo Warns Married Women In Abusive Marriage To Seek Divorce, Tells Unmarried Ladies To Be Patient
In a recent article, Nollywood actress Uche Jombo told fans that she took time off work to single ladies and those already married to abusive partners.
She might well be sounding as an authority because she’d journeyed through the same path and has good reasons to leave some words for the good of spinsters “Dear world, please marriage is not a woman’s highest/biggest accomplishment.
It’s not news that in Africa, Nigeria to be precise, marriage is important due to our cultural values. Making a home, having a family of your own is important but when desperation steps in, one tends to make a lifetime mistake which is the reason we have a high rate of divorce these days.
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair, if you find yourself in an abusive one, please seek for a divorce before candles are been light on your grave. If you are not married, please be patient, take your time before saying I do, so, you don’t have any regret in the future,” her words read in part.
Maryf
February 20, 2016 at 3:36 AM
Thank you so much. Your pieces of advice is indeed remarkable.
Metu Nyetu
February 20, 2016 at 4:35 AM
Equally advise your fellow women not to marry a guy just because he is rich. Tell them as well, that in the event of their divorce, they should never get married to another man because that would be an adulterous union. I assume that as you are concerned about the safety of female folk in their marriage, you should, even to a higher degree, have passion for their happiness in the hereafter.
Amazon
February 20, 2016 at 7:16 AM
She’s right
BOkeem
February 20, 2016 at 7:43 AM
UCHE JOMBO IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY JUST SHORT UP YOU MOUTH “CUNT”
EGBERRI MAMA 1
February 20, 2016 at 7:56 AM
UCHE ROODRIGUEZ , THANX FOR D SOLID ADVICE .IT,S BETTER 4 LITTLE MINDS TO LAUGH AT HER THAT SHE IS DIVORCED THAN 4 GREAT MINDS TO LIGHT CANDLES ON HER GRAVE SIDE . AFTER ALL LOOSING A MAN WHO DOESN,T REGARD AND LOVE U IS GREAT GAIN !
Jojo
February 20, 2016 at 8:22 AM
So so true my sister, a word is enough for the wise.
John Emeka
February 20, 2016 at 9:05 AM
Nice one…it’s never a do or die affair
Stargurl
February 20, 2016 at 10:00 AM
You are right ???? I love ❤ that,may the peace of the lord be with you ???? my sister.
Danti
February 20, 2016 at 12:02 PM
Hey you midget, when did you turn marriage counselor? Not every abusive man is violent, some love to use hostile epithet to get their message across while some are just plain criminal. I know that your generation are clueless about marriage and foolishly materialistic.
merit brown
February 20, 2016 at 12:46 PM
Marriage is ordained by GOD, it is His institution.
One of the reasons we have many cases of divorce is not seeking GOD face before going into marriage.
The Bible says; He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
But today, we don’t find wife/ man, we find money, wealth, material things.
No real love but infatuation. How can such marriage last?
Again, couples of these days don’t pray together as it suppose, the family that prays together stays together.
Before you think of going into marriage, seek GOD’s face, stop sleeping around, desist from sexual immorality. Pray, pray and pray. GOD will surely give you the flesh of your flesh, and the bone of your bone!
D Hunter
February 20, 2016 at 2:04 PM
If u find urslf in a bita or in a prblm-laden relationship, do u rily need an advice 4rm anybdy b4 u call it quit?
A relationship shld b enjoyed nt endure.
#WalkingAway#
Staycul
February 20, 2016 at 2:05 PM
No one prays to be in an abusive marriage. Uche is enjoying her marriage and she is advising those in marriage to seek for divorce when abused? I really dont think that is right.
Instead she should advice them on other alternatives but no divorce. #JustSaying.
figer
February 20, 2016 at 4:52 PM
Marriage is a tin of prayer based on different stories dis day as a result of marriage. Is nt even a matter of take ur time b4 u said I do, u may stl b patience and take ur time and stl find ursef in a wrong place.
Joy
February 20, 2016 at 7:39 PM
Tell them oooo some men that that are confirmed lunatics bcos they pût on clothes they are humans
my lady
February 20, 2016 at 11:54 PM
yes naaa
Shut-up
February 21, 2016 at 2:18 AM
@Uche Maggi-Jumbo”
Just Zip ur ******if you do not have anything better to say!
sola olaniyi
February 21, 2016 at 11:22 AM
supported
Dede
February 21, 2016 at 11:31 AM
Either the man or the woman is 100% free to remarry after a divorce or separation based on the premise of infidelity or getting yoked unequally( unbelieving man marrying a believing woman or vice versa). Read Matthew 19:9 and 1 Cor 7:12-15. In the old testament, a man can send his wife packing just he doesn’t like one or two things about her Deut 24:1 .
I am not trying to say that couples should be at liberty to flirt with divorce. The Bible categorically states that God hates divorce but, He still provides the way in the above two conditions. Aside from the two conditions ,God is not in support of divorce and that is when a divorced man or woman commits adultery with the next wife or husband.
In essence, what the bible is saying is that you can’t divorce your wife or your husband just because she/he is a beater(beast) or an armed robber or a snipper or an high grade cultist or drug baron or an alcoholic, etc except you wish to stay unmarried for the rest of your life. You can only remarry if these people named above are unbelievers and he/she plainly says they are no are longer interested in the marriage according to the bk of Cor 7:12-15
Apart from the issue of remarrying or not remarrying after a divorce , if an innocent man or woman unknowingly or even knowingly gets married to a satanist and this satanist is gradually initiating the wife/husband into satanism against he/her wish thereby making his/her unbearable, do you think this innocent soul should continue to live in that hellish bandage even if he/she truly wants to serve God or just wants to live a happy and fulfilled life or seek way to save her/himself by first of all ending that marriage?
To cut a long story short, is better for any wife/husband to break free(get a divorce) from any marriage that will make your life hell on earth, send you to early grave and finally succeed in sending you to the real hellfire because of the bad and sinful influence your marriage had on you while you were alive. Even if that will mean staying unmarried after divorce till you die.
At least you will spend the rest of your life a happy person and finally make it to paradise. Though, it may not be that easy , but it is by many thousands of miles better than living in bondage and dying a miserable death here on earth and may hereafter.
Dede
February 21, 2016 at 11:36 AM
The solution to avoiding making the wrong choice in marriage and a divorce is encapsulated in what Merit Brown said.
chyna
February 22, 2016 at 9:16 AM
100% SUPPORTED
Margaret akomaye
February 22, 2016 at 10:02 AM
Some of de problem in marriage are spiritual we need God’s wisdom to handle it