September 15, 2016 – Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Calls Ex-Wife Rev. Anita Immature For Divorcing Him, Says Christians Should Never Divorce
The co-founder of Believers Love World, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome has come after his ex-wife and the mother of his two beautiful daughters, Rev. Anita for making the hasty decision of divorcing him when their marriage was going through storm.
In a video posted on YouTube, the South-Africa based Nigerian Pastor also spit fire on Nigerian media houses who covered his divorce story.
Here is what Pastor Chris allegedly said to kick against divorce,
“…I’m not a preacher, I’m a man of God”.
“When it comes to Rev. Anita, pray for her. If you are married to a man of God, it doesn’t make you automatically mature, you can make mistakes..”
“Christians should not have a divorce, it shouldn’t be. But that doesn’t mean a Christian should not take this step, they may, but that doesn’t make it right, and we shouldn’t take one another to court. But when it happens, we are not the one going there, someone is taking us there. That’s the problem…”
Rev Anita divorced the eloquent preacher in 2014 over allegations of adultery and abuse.
Her request was granted on Monday February 8 2016.
#Repost “If you’re married to a man of God, it doesn’t automatically makes u mature” And I say, if u become a Man Of God, it doesn’t also automatically make u mature too. She took u to court due to charges of adultery nd immaturity? Now if those claims re ture, doesn’t that make u very immature Mr Man Of God!?? Divorce is against d scripture nd should be least seen among genuine Christians.
adultery and abuse rather, and not *immaturity*
@tendy very true.only God knows what really happened between the two. What I don’t understand are those speaking in tongues while the man of was talking with this anger voice thought speaking in tongue should be when you are in the prayer mood and in the sprite. Just saying.
when our so called men of God do this then what example are the followers meant to follow… it a pity that those that are suppose to live by examples are actually the once confusing the sheep.
#IT_CAN_ONLY_GET_BETTER
THANK [email protected]! I perceive that Pastor Chris has not yet learnt from his own mistakes. Any man who moves about with pretty ladies would naturally make his wife jealous, even if he does not actually cheat with those ladies. Pastor Chris should have known by now that he is the main reason that his marriage dissolved. The fact that he talks this way he talks makes me perceive spiritual pride and stubbornness.
Thank you Metu Nyetu! You have spoken well as usual!!!
I quite agree with you @Tendy.
I concur with Trendy, divorce is against the scripture and should not be found among born again Christians (whether man of God, preacher, pastor) etc.
Marriage is two different people coming together, there must be differences, quarrel, misunderstanding, etc try and settle it within yourself inside of divorce.
Being a man of God doesn’t make u automatically mature either.
You so called men of God thinks you are above mistakes,you only see others making mistakes and fornicating while you men of God are innoecnt.Most of you are even badder than those you you claim to be man of over them.
I don’t have right to George any man of God but all this shouldn’t be happening,what then are we learning from pastors…? Taking divorce marriage is for better for worst but Christ Embassy change it for better for best tat is why their don’t regard marriage.
well said @Tendy
“Man of God” well, you claim to be, there is no evidence from God himself that you are one of his.
You sleep with women left right and centre and left your wife in the UK not letting her move in with you and yet you are SHOCKED she divorced you. She should have left you LONG TIME AGO. You are a disgrace.
WITH MUCH LOVE OF GOD I SAY TO YOU CHRIS, YOU ARE LUCKY THAT SHE DIVORCED YOU. THIS IS THE TIME , A CHANCE FOR YOU TO RUN TO GOD. THE DEVIL GOT YOU AT A SPOT WHERE HE CAN DESTROY YOU. DO NOT FORGET. THE DEVIL IS ONLY HERE TO STEAL KILL AND DESTROY. IF INDEED YOU SEE YOURSELF AS A MAN OF GOD SEEK HIS FACE TO DELIVER YOU. ON THE LAST DAY ANITA, YEMISI AND WHOEVER ELSE WILL NOT STOP GOD FROM JUDGING. ONLY YOU BY GOD’S MERCY CAN FREE YOU SOUL FROM THE SNAKE THAT HAS ENTWINED YOU. GO TO THOSE WHO WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH. I PRAY THE LORD TO GRANT YOU THE INNER ABILITY. I SEE A MAN WHO ONCE LOVED GOD SO MUCH PREACHING AT UNIBEN CAUSING A LOT OF YOUNG PERSONS TO GET SAVED. THE DEVIL DOES NOT LIKE THAT SO HE IS USING SEDUCING SPIRIT, WOMEN AND FAME TO ENTRAP YOU. REMEMBER GOD IS NOT A RESPECTER OF PERSONS. THE LORD RECENTLY DELIVERED ME FROM A BRAIN SURGERY IN THE PAST TWO MONTHS.NO ONE KNOWS WHEN THE WILL TRANSIT INTO THE NEXT LIFE SO LET WHOEVER THINKETH HE OR SHE STANDETH TAKE HEED LEST HE FALLS, AND SOME NEVER GET UP AND WALK IN GOD’S COUNSEL BUT STAY DOWN AND WALLOW MORE INTO THE MUDDY PIT.
YOU WANT THE LORD TO WELCOME YOU NOT TO SAY I DO NOT KNOW YOU. YOU MUST SHUN POPULARITY, FAME, CELEBRITY PASTOR STATUS, REPENT QUICKLY AND LIVE AGAIN IN TRUTH. ITS HARD TO BELIEVE YOUR SIDE OF THE ARGUMENT. YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED TO BENNY HINN. BUT I WAS HAPPY FOR GOD’S DELIVERANCE IN HIS CASE. YOU MUST RID YOUR SELF OF THOSE THREATENING YOU WITH EXPOSURE. RUNNING INTO THEIR HANDS WILL ONLY DEEPEN THE PIT THEIR ROLES ALREADY PLACED YOU. I PRAY GOD’S GRACE, MERCY AND HELP ON YOU.YOUR PREACHING TEACHING MAY RAISE A DEAD MAN BECAUSE THE LORD WILL ALWAYS HONOR HIS WORD EVEN FOR IF IT IS A DONKEY THAT SPOKE IT.PLEASE DO NOT LET THE DEVIL TAKE YOU TO HELL. MAY GOD’S GRACE LIFT YOU OUT OF THIS SITUATION ‘BROTHER’ FORGET TITLES.
I am shocked at the level of everyone’s ignorance and quick to judge spirit. The man of God said he never committed those Acts. He doesn’t move around with ladies but with men. When you don’t know what happens just keep quiet and stop writing what you think because you don’t like him. Pastor Anita never accused him of adultery but of course that’s what you want to hear so you can say even men of God do it and justify yourself. What Tendy said doesn’t make sense cause it is false and you are busy applauding. What a world. What a people. When a Christian is accused you should not be quick to make comments like this. He is first a Christian before a Man of God. He has touched more lives than everyone talking Herr put together and you dare post such??? My God. May God forgive you cause you don’t know what u are doing.
it is very obvious most africans don’t just read but apparently most of you don’t listen either; we will rather have someone tell us, or give us gist than to listen, observe or investigate a matter for ourselves; watch the video and listen to what the man said; He wasn’t accused of what you are spreading he was accused of, He’s not going about trying to mix sin and righteousness together. You talk about matters you have no way of knowing are true; don’t judge a matter before its time; he didn’t divorce his wife; his wife filed for divorce against him; and in this video he still maintains that christians should not divorce; its surprising how we are in a hurry to put a man down, insult, abuse and discredit him just on the basis of what someone thinks or says with no facts to back;