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Ramsey Noauh: I Love My Wife’s Natural Beauty, She Doesn’t Wear Loud Makeup & Long Weaves

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Ramsey Noauh: I Love My Wife’s Natural Beauty, She Doesn’t Wear Loud Makeup & Long Weaves

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January 31, 2017 – Ramsey Noauh: I Love My Wife’s Natural Beauty, She Doesn’t Wear Loud Makeup & Long Weaves

Nollywood actor Ramsey Nouah recently agreed to an interview with Premium Times .

In this tell-it-all interview conducted at Eko Club in Surulere Lagos, the 46-year-old actor talked  at length about his marriage and his beautiful wife, Emelia Phillips Nouah.

See excerpts:

Aside from acting what have you been up to lately?

I have been spending time with my family. Whenever the need arises, I get involved in humanitarian and charitable activities. It has been more about film, family and giving back to the society.

Ramsey, your marriage appears to have stood the test of time. You have been married for 15 years now. Some of your colleagues have been unlucky in this regard.

ontrary to a widely held notion, the success of a marriage largely rests on the woman. But these days, a lot of marriages are based on equality. A woman wants to get 50 per cent of whatever she is giving into the marriage back from the man. This has led to the breakdown of many marriages. From time our mothers used to be the women that held their marriages. They were in charge of the home. Our mothers took charge of everything but today women don’t want that kind of responsibility. Hence, it is affecting marriages.

So, your wife has fared well in this regard?

My wife belongs to the category of “our mothers”. She believes in sustaining our marriage and holding it strong.
So whenever I am asked how we have been able to keep it together, I tell them my wife is the woman who has actually held our home.

Do you also accord her rightful place in the home?

She doesn’t have a place because she owns the home. It’s her call however (way) she wants things done. She is the driver of the family and her decision is final. That is why I say she is not an ordinary woman. She is a triple woman.

Is she comfortable with your romantic and kissing scenes?

When some people ask me “how does your wife cope when she sees you kissing other women in the movie?” and I tell them that my wife is special. She is not an ordinary woman. She understands things in a way many other women don’t. That is why I say, an actor or actress, has to find that special person. It is not love that will bond you. Forget love, love dies. What sustains the marriage is companionship.

If you cannot find companionship in your partner from the beginning, then you do not have a partner. Don’t lust after a woman because of her beauty and don’t lust after a guy because he is handsome. You must lust after the companionship that bonds you together. It should be like “for some reasons you cannot do without her; for some reasons there is something about her that brings you home”. It may be her sense of humour; or the way she keeps the home. Same thing applies for the ladies; there must be something about him that you cannot do without. If this quality is not there, then you don’t have a companion.

So, you guys have had it smooth sailing in your marriage all the while?

Don’t get me wrong, don’t think that do have our moments of disagreement. But it depends on the way we handle it. Women cannot stand the heat in the kitchen anymore and they just want to run. That is why marriages are crumbling. A lot people don’t want to work hard anymore, because marriage is hard work. So when you talk about marriages crashing, it’s not my call. The only problem that I have is to make sure I provide food for the family.

Any counsel for your colleagues who have been unlucky with love and marriage?

Nobody gives advice when it comes to matters of the heart. People say they are going for counseling and all but at the end, it is what is in their heart is still what they want to do. Because those things in your heart are laced with emotions and emotions are very hard to tackle. When you have emotion that is full of jealousy, hate or anger, it is hard to break it until you exercise it. That is why when your dad screams ‘do not follow that boy’ the teenager does not listen until she has satisfied what her heart desires from the boy. Most times, you learn by experience. Companionship is not easy. When everybody is running into marriages as if marriage wants to go out of fashion, take your time and be ready for it. Be ready to accept someone with his flaws. My wife has her problems and I also have mine. A lot of it actually and I know. You must be able to accommodate the other person.

Divorce is on the rise. Why do you think this is so?

When a woman believes she earns more than the man, the man should start doing the work of a woman like sweeping, changing diapers. There is no sense in that. A woman’s place should not change and the same applies to the man. I am not expecting a woman to overwork herself with house chores. I help and support my wife when there is no help in the house. I sweep when I have the time.

In what ways do you also help out in the home?

I cooked two days before having this interview. I am a great cook. No woman can do shakara for me oo. I made my stew and rice with smoked chicken. I grew up with my mum and with her, you must know how to sweep and do many other chores.

Are you romantic?

Don’t judge me by my movie roles. I don’t think I am romantic. My wife does not think I am that romantic either.

Many people wonder why you do not step out with your wife on the red carpet?

My wife and I have an understanding. And this is one of the reasons our marriage is still standing strong. We avoid the public eye because the public has a way of messing up relationships. Sometimes, my wife goes ahead of me into the event, so we don’t do red carpet. It is the same people that harass you for not taking your wife to red carpet event that will sit back and point fingers at how you both look.

Some say you don’t take your wife to red carpet event because she is not beautiful?

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That is what they think. My wife is very cute. May be because my wife is not loud or flashy when it comes to make-up or wearing long weaves. She is very natural and she knows that I love her natural looks.

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  1. Ami kamara

    January 31, 2017 at 6:21 AM

    Your wife is beautiful and congrats to your marriage

  2. DD

    January 31, 2017 at 9:57 AM

    Good talk Bros keep it up

  3. ad

    January 31, 2017 at 11:35 AM

    she is the best and very beautiful

  4. Alexunique Legendary

    January 31, 2017 at 4:09 PM

    Gossipers, let this man rest!

  5. Gloria

    January 31, 2017 at 6:29 PM

    Very well said Mr Nouah. Please continue to protect your family from public glare. May God Almighty keep your home and marriage with all the niceties they deserve. Much blessings to you.

  6. Gloria

    January 31, 2017 at 6:33 PM

    Very well said Mr Nouah. Please continue to protect your family from public glare. May God Almighty keep your home and marriage with all the niceties they deserve. Much blessings to you.

  7. Jilo

    January 31, 2017 at 7:14 PM

    Don’t mind about people reactions towards your marriage. They want you to marry the most beautiful woman on earth at the same token they expect that woman to have all these special attributes such as knowing how to cook, how to clean fashionable, having a good job, ability to take care of home and so on. Nobody in this world be it a man or a woman can get everything he/she wants in his/her partner. This is a fact.

  8. POLLA

    January 31, 2017 at 11:50 PM


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