Gbenga Adebambo
Successful People Don’t Have New Year Resolutions; They Have Daily Resolutions
Healthy boundaries produce healthy relationships, but a lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect. Stop opening yourself up to every Tom, Dick and Harry! Disrespecting someone’s set of boundaries actually marks the onset of abuse.
You must set daily and vehement boundaries that will keep and insulate you from distractions and disrespectful intrusions. Don’t ever give people sensitive roles in your life that they’ve not earned! Lack of boundaries most times makes us give minor people major attention and major people, minor attention.
The secret to achieve true success is found in your daily routine. You need to start asking yourself some very sincere and candid questions: How is your daily routine holding you back without you realizing it? Which parts of my past behavior led to this (present) future that is not as fulfilling as I had imagined it to be? What are those things you need to stop doing daily, and those things you need to start doing daily?
Is your daily routine in tandem with the future that you are anticipating? How can I get a coach or a mentor that I can be accountable to? I have realized that in order to change your life, you need to change your questions!
I will be recommending some books that will guide you on the idea of evolving a winning daily routine:
Daily Rituals (How Artists Work) :How Great Minds Make Time, Find Inspiration And Get To Work by Mason Currey;
Intentional Living: Choosing a Life That Matters by John C. Maxwell;
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Stephen R. Covey;
The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (before 8am) by Hal Elrod;
The Compound Effect: Jumpstart your income, your life and your success by Darren Hardy;
Eat That Frog!: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time by Brian Tracy;
Wake Up Successful – How to Increase Your Energy and Achieve Any Goal with a Morning Routine by Steve Scott;
Act Now! A Daily Action Log for Achieving Your Goals in 90 Days by Peter D. Winiarski;
The Rhythm of Life: Living Every Day with Passion and Purpose by Matthew Kelly;
Vision to Reality: How Short Term Massive Action Equals Long Term Maximum Results by Honoree Cordor; Take Control Of Your Life: A 2 hour plan to help you set and reach your goals by Rachel Rofe;
If you really want to make the best out of this year, make daily goals and get daily feedbacks.
Your daily routine matters! The way you start your day matters! Your morning rituals matter! Don’t wait for the year to end before making adjustments. Adjustment begins now! Wishing you all a Happy and Prosperous New Year.
QUOTE OF THE WEEK: “The Secret of Your Future is Hidden in Your Daily Routine”- Mike Murdock






































