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March 30, 2016 – Top 10 Relationship Success Secret Every Nigerian, African Woman Must Know

The fact that the young man has fallen in love with you does not mean he has become your burden bearer, whereby you have to transfer all your needs to him. It is saddening to hear ladies say they can’t be with a man who cannot meet their needs.

Please watch it, before you loose all your sense of value in the name of becoming a money bag. By this I do not mean men should not show support to their women, especially if they have the means, I just feel women should learn to be independent and have a sense of pride.”

I know how cool and emotionally rewarding it is for a woman to have a man drooling over her, but please if you don’t want this man to be anything more than a friend, stop making him work so hard at winning your heart. Most girls will say I have told him no, it’s his choice to stay around and be buying all the gifts, haba, that is not fair. ‘NO!!!’ and ‘no’ although spelt the same way may not necessarily mean the same thing in non verbal expression. If you are really saying no, stop calling him for time out or recharge cards and stop encouraging him to keep buying you stuffs.

Your boyfriend may be smart and highly logical, but if your opinion makes no sense to him at all the time, you may be too dumb to be his wife.

Being beautiful is a good thing, but it cannot make up for dull brains. You spouse will love to show you off, but you cannot keep him living in the fear of you opening your mouth to pass a comment in public. The mental status of a bus driver’s wife and that of a business tycoon’s wife should not read ‘same’.

Nothing is completely useless in its original state. So any boyfriend who wants to change EVERYTHING (including faith, ideology, vision, purpose, friends, family members, job, passion) about you to meet his picture of an ideal spouse is trying to rob you of your personality, he or she neither loves you nor deserves to have you.

Ladies, there are some things you should not hope to sort out with prayers when you marry. One of those things is food.Economists say human beings are insatiable, but I say MEN are senior insatiable species especially when it comes to food.

No offense guys, but my dear sisters please don’t be deceived, your chocolate, ice cream and meat pie loving guy also knows what most Nigerian soups tastes like. So take out the time to learn how to cook.

One of the biggest jokes in marriage is when a woman asks her husband, honey what would you like to take and he says something light. A smart woman will know that something light for most men is not indomie, beverage or cereal, he is simply asking for something out of the usual things you give him.

Another good joke is when you have your little fights. It is possible for a woman to be angry and not eat o, but some men? Lailai. You will cook, he will eat it and then the fight continues.

Most Nigerian men and food are an inseparable two. Every wise woman understands this and keeps working at it.

[By Bosun Bankole]



  1. Uche Oboiseke

    March 30, 2016 at 5:14 AM

    The day my girlfriend read and apply this is the same day I will propose to her.

  2. D Hunter

    March 30, 2016 at 5:49 AM

    A lady may have all these good characters and still have other behaviours that beclouds all the stipulated qualities above.
    1) Anger (2) Nagging (3) Extravagance (4) Party freak (5) un-hygienic (6) Glutton (7) Gossip etc….

    Well, I am still single, not searching.
    My strolling continues…..

    • Maryf

      March 30, 2016 at 7:53 AM

      You are dam right.

  3. John Emeka

    March 30, 2016 at 5:59 AM

    dis z splendid…absolutely awesome, u guys just said it all

  4. Amazon

    March 30, 2016 at 7:38 AM

    Nice one

  5. chyna

    March 30, 2016 at 7:44 AM

    Nice one

  6. Maryf

    March 30, 2016 at 8:00 AM

    What counts in marriages and relationships and also keeps it going is love, forgiveness, understanding and trust between the two, without those, its hard to please man or woman who does not love, forgives, understands and trust you. For me, its only God and those 4 things I mention that makes relationship last till eternity.

  7. James Brown

    March 30, 2016 at 8:48 AM

    This is one of the best and most reasonable post i have read in a long time from Naijagists. The poster did a wonderful write up. hope ladies will read and learn from it.

  8. fifelomo

    March 30, 2016 at 8:49 AM

    good one

  9. Metu Nyetu

    March 30, 2016 at 9:17 AM

    I laughed a number of times when reading this. Even Uche Obosoike’s comment made me continue to laugh. D Hunter is correct in what he said.

    As for me, things would be much more easier for men if women would apply the message here. This relationship thing is often funny with its rules. Some women do not know how to politely turn down a man’s advances: they tend to humiliate and anger the man, and nudge them towards a hatred for them. Some men, however, no matter how polite the NO is, must develope hatred for the lady and seek for a way to get his pound of flesh.

  10. sola olaniyi

    March 30, 2016 at 9:26 AM


  11. Jojo

    March 30, 2016 at 12:25 PM

    Thank you.

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