Yvonne Nelson: Aborting Baby For Sarkodie Was A Life-Changing Decision

Yvonne Nelson: Aborting Baby For Sarkodie In 2010 Was A Life-Changing Decision

In a shocking revelation that has sent ripples through the entertainment industry, award-winning Ghanaian actress Yvonne Nelson has disclosed that she had an abortion in 2010 after a brief relationship with rapper Sarkodie. This revelation comes as part of her deeply personal memoir, “I am not Yvonne Nelson,” which was launched at the prestigious Peduase Lodge in Ghana on Sunday.

Yvonne Nelson details the incident in a candid and emotionally charged chapter of her book, spanning pages 88 to 95. In her own words, she narrates the heart-wrenching experience of discovering her pregnancy and the subsequent decision she made. She writes, “I had gone for a pregnancy test to confirm what becomes the most obvious conclusion for a sexually active young woman who misses her monthly flow. I was in the company of Karen. And when the test result was ready, I wasn’t strong enough to open it. She did and declared the verdict. ‘Charlie, it dey there!’ she exclaimed.”

The news struck Yvonne with an overwhelming sense of dread and uncertainty. In her book, she reflects on the gravity of the situation and the potential ramifications it could have on her life. She mustered the courage to reach out to the man responsible for her pregnancy, none other than the acclaimed Ghanaian musician, Sarkodie, whose real name is Michael Owusu Addo.

During that time, Sarkodie was still establishing himself in the music industry and faced an uncertain future. Yvonne recounts, “Sarkodie was a budding musician with the potential to become one of the biggest artists in Ghana and beyond. At the time, however, the future looked uncertain, and his way through the maze of life still appeared too foggy to predict. Success was not guaranteed. He was still living with his mother and was not ready to carry a burden while he was being carried by his mother.”

Yvonne Nelson emphasizes that their relationship was not a serious one but rather a natural gravitation towards each other due to their shared interests in music. She found solace in the company of individuals involved in the music industry, and Sarkodie’s talent caught her attention. As they spent more time together, their bond grew stronger.

In her memoir, Yvonne reveals her desperate attempts to terminate the pregnancy, resorting to consuming concoctions provided by a colleague. However, her efforts proved unsuccessful as a subsequent test confirmed that she was still pregnant.

The revelation of Sarkodie’s refusal to support her decision to keep the baby left Yvonne grappling with a whirlwind of emotions. She reflects on her own experiences growing up without a father figure and the impact it had on her life. She shares, “The first thing that hit me when he said no to keeping the pregnancy was my own life. I had grown up without a father in my life. I had often been reminded of how I had been borne by mistake. I was still wondering if the man whose name I bore was my father. How was I going to bring another human being into this world to live like me, someone whose father would reject him or her as Mr. Nelson had rejected me? If there was a way to spare someone else the trauma I was contending with, why would I reject that option, especially when I was not?”

Eventually, Yvonne Nelson succeeded in terminating the pregnancy, but she admits that it remains one of the most regrettable mistakes of her life. Looking back, she expresses deep remorse and acknowledges that if she could turn back the hands of time, she would have chosen differently.

Yvonne Nelson’s candid revelations in her memoir have sparked a profound conversation surrounding the complex issues of relationships, responsibility, and the choices individuals face in their personal lives. Her willingness to share her story with such vulnerability sheds light on the struggles many women go through in similar circumstances.

As readers delve into “I am not Yvonne Nelson,” they are confronted with the raw emotions and difficult decisions that shaped the actress’s life. The book serves as a testament to her strength, resilience, and the lessons she has learned along her journey.

In the wake of this revelation, fans, colleagues, and industry insiders have expressed their support for Yvonne Nelson, commending her bravery in opening up about her experiences. The memoir serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of empathy and understanding when it comes to personal choices and the complexities of human relationships.

Yvonne Nelson’s story will undoubtedly continue to inspire conversations and provide solace to those who have faced similar challenges. Her book stands as a testament to the transformative power of sharing our truths, even when they are painful, and the potential for healing and growth that can arise from such vulnerability.