I Fell In Love With A Former Nigerian Scammer “My Family Is Racist” Pls Advise

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July 26, 2013 – American Woman Falls In Love With A Nigerian Man Who Scammed Me – “My Family Is Racist” Pls Help

I need advice but i need it from outsiders looking in…cause i am in love with a Nigerian…this pass march 2013 was a year that we have been together…long distance of course…i was one of those women you read about that ended up being scammed or played…fell in love with someone that wasn’t real…when i stopped helping him, he was still there and never truly left me…which if i was just a scam then he should of ended it and moved on…well this pass february he finally came clean about everything and including who he really was…i felt relieved…he answered all my questions… he fell in love with me when he wasn’t suppose to…i was just a play to start with but then his game caught up with him…we went 3 months barely talking due to his disguise and him trying to pull away from me..during this time i was so angry at him for loving someone else then actually using me…i am not a material person, never have been…either i have it or i don’t…i am just as happy…after he told me that he was Nigerian and young, i had to look at his picture to remind myself that..hey, he is black…lol…i am very blessed to see no color when i look at people…i see who they are and not what they are….

We have both tried to walk away from each other several times and we end up causing ourselves more hurt…and praying and begging to God has only pushed us closer together then letting us both walk away from each other…i live in texas and he is in africa…

I’m a bit scared about traveling there but more excited….i love change and the variety of cultures are amazing…my friends and family look at me like i am crazy and stupid for loving this man that has done me wrong…but he and i have been through a lot and no one will understand or have not understood when we have tried to explain our love, our relationship…he goes through things there for us, his friends and the doubters call him names and tell him this will never happen…we will never happen…but i have faith and so does he…we communicate on a daily basis for over a year now….

We skype and such so we both know each other…to b told to walk away from him is useless cause i can’t…i have fought so hard to leave him and him me that we have come to terms…we are together and that nothing or no one can change that fact…i just need some input…

My family is racist and what they say colors their input…i can only live my life for me and not others…can only change me and not others…

Thanks for the help and may God bless you!