An Open Letter To My Husband: Relax God Is In Control
Sept 18, 2014 – An Open Letter To My Husband: Relax God Is In Control
Please permit me to write this letter in form of gist. I’m using this to explain somethings to my ‘oga on top’.
As am typing, my husband is so disturbed, I feel if I pour out my heart here, it will help him feel better because he checks out this site like everyone else.
If anybody told me I will never marry my high school sweetheart, I’ll say that person is my enemy.
During my secondary school days, I was so in love with a brilliant ‘efiko’ by the name of Ayobami. The love was so strong that his dad almost paid my bride price then, but my dad moved against it.
After completing high school, I travelled out of Naija for my University education, this resulted in lost communication, one thing led to the other, my lover met another woman and moved on with his life.
I was heartbroken at first but my dad told me to focus on my education that I will reconnect with another man when I return home. I took his words in good faith and focused on the task at hand then.
Years later, I returned and God connected me with a quite, shy and very compassionate man whom I later married.
So few months ago, My high school lover, Ayobami and I met at a Shoprite store, I wasn’t holding my baby then so he might have thought I wasn’t married.
Like normal friends, we exchanged numbers and that was it. I never thought the step I took that day would later come back to haunt me.
My people, this guy kept calling me non-stop so I quickly changed my number to avoid getting in trouble with my hubby.
To my surprise, the guy has started attending the same church with us.
Two Sundays ago, after service the guy spotted me and rushed down to give me a bizarre hug infront of my hubby, though he (my hubby) wasn’t feeling comfortable but for the trust he has for me, he smiled gracefully and that ended it.
On our way home, he kept on asking me one question after the other. He was really troubled, I had to take over the car from him.
To cut the long story short, my husband has been asking me if I have any plan of leaving him for the guy, I told him no.
Last week he told me we have to relocate to Abuja and just last night, he said we should go to the US.
Please permit me to write this open letter to affirm my love for him, perhaps this will help him calm down.
My Dear Ishola,
Meeting you is by divine appointment because I never thought it could happen this way, you are the sweetest guy in my world and you will always be.
I remember that day when your mother whispered your oriki to my ear, she told me anytime I need something special from you, I should call you by that name.
Ishola mi, Sugar sugar, remember the vow I made to you on our wedding date, if you don’t check the back of our wedding album.
You are my world, your undying love means the world to me, I can never leave you, I promise never to dump you. Relax and take my word for it.
Esteemed fans, please help me tell my Oga something good o, I don’t know what else to tell him, he is so disturbed.
September 18, 2014 at 6:49 PM
men are more jealous than women in matter of love you have to keep talking to your husband.
Leave no space for ayobami to destroy your marriage take the bull by the horn.
From now on, do go anywhere without your husband. I believe your ex has placed you on surveillance he is probably a jobless guy looking for a wealthy madam
September 18, 2014 at 6:53 PM
Be very careful with ex lovers they are home breakers. All he is looking for it to destroy your marriage, don’t let him know where you live. Confront him next time he hug you. All da best
September 18, 2014 at 6:55 PM
You have done the right thing, stay close to your husband in bedroom, don’t share it with Ayobami it is just a matter of days, he will feel better
ojulowo omo yoruba, oriki yen leku
September 18, 2014 at 7:12 PM
I want to believe he is feeling better already. No man will read this and not feel better at home.
September 18, 2014 at 7:28 PM
Love can come and go, don’t allow your feeling to destroy your marriage, go closed to God because that guy may have another plan for you.
September 18, 2014 at 7:47 PM
Ehyaa! madam l feel ur undying and unconditional love for ur hubby. Thanks for standing on ur vows. God will definitely strengthen u in jesus name Amen.
September 18, 2014 at 8:00 PM
My dear,u took a bold step never ever give up the wonderful thing u ve to a home breaker. Hold on to ur hubby and plz no matter what never go closer to that guy or even to be alone with him. If u do u will fall in his trap and no going back. To oga at the Top , plz help her by not pushing her away make her understand that ur love is stronger and will never die. Enjoy ur marriage. Happy married life
September 18, 2014 at 8:21 PM
dis lady u dy at fault oo if not y u neva tel dat ur old skul lover say u dun marry nd show am ur husband kus as it bin u don do am dat ur old lover for no hug u for em front. for now u fit claim say u love dat ur hubby bt i pray mak dat ur lov fit stand de test of time kus old firewood no dy quench
September 19, 2014 at 5:41 AM
nice letter to your husband. But my advise to you is that you follow your husband if he wants you guys to leave that environment. it is for your own good.
September 19, 2014 at 1:06 PM
pls madam dont giv dat any breathin sapce bcos he will destroy u and ur home,think of ur hubby childern and both ur family and his i knw with God u will be free from dat of home breaker. read pslam 35 vs 1 to end
September 19, 2014 at 6:42 PM
Any man that is over jealous is always a cheat cus he wil tink u’re doin thesame tin he does,thats y they are always jealous. I hav experience it.
September 20, 2014 at 8:49 AM
Chai…the samething happend to me ooo…but my own was that i still feel something for my ex then.. which makes my case worst…urs is even better..but by grace of God am able to overcome the evil…i change my phone number my everything that will make us to cross path..even if we cross path again today..he is now lagbaja where i dey..so lagbaja nothing for u..if he press too much i will get him arrested..our men ar 100% right to be jealous..exs are home breakers…so oga at the top ur right but chill and trust ur wife…true love believe all..so believe him
October 29, 2016 at 8:31 PM
Good evening, I will want you to listen to your husband directives. Your home will not be an idle place for devils work o…!
November 5, 2018 at 4:12 AM
Oh my God, am just reading this. Such a smart lady. You hit the nail on the head. Your husband is lucky enough to have you. I wish to have a woman like you