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Daniel Ademinokan Dumps Ex-Wife, Doris Simeon For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life – Insider

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April 29, 2013 – Daniel Ademinokan Divorced Ex-Wife, Doris Simeon For Stella Damasus Over Boring Sex Life – Insider

According to an anonymous insider who claims he has lived with Daniel and Doris Ademinokan for years, the split between the couple was ignited by boring sex life.

The man who simply identified himself as JMK said Doris didn’t take her romance with Daniel seriously and her ignorance of what her ex-hubby wanted sexually ended the relationship.

The email below was sent to Stella Dimorkus of Encomium magazine yesterday.

Read the lengthy email below;

I have stood by in the last couple of days to see this drama about Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan unfold. I have read countless blogs, reviews and comments from all over the world and I have come to the conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking about. I LIVED WITH DANIEL AND DORIS FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS SO I CAN TELL YOU FACTS! Not hear say or assumptions. I will even mention names that can be verified.Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel just pulled with the party and the gift. Let us focus on the root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we will know how to direct our anger and “insults”.

I lived with Daniel & Doris because my sister was close friends with aunty Doris and at that time I needed accommodation in Lagos because my parents were based in the south south part of Nigeria. I lived with them when they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland, Lagos and even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele Crescent residence in Magodo GRA, Lagos.

Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband to Doris and he made her feel special in every way. He always spoke to her nicely and was quick to defend her in many ways. He supported her career and was determined to make Doris rise to the top above her colleagues. He used to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the top. He would always say, “Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no fine pass you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position you at the top”. He did everything in his power to put her her there. Daniel cannot come and boast to people, especially me that he single handedly financed all of Doris’ films. HE CAN’T. He was responsible for getting the finances but it was not HIS money entirely that did films like ONITEMI and OMO IYA KAN. The marketer named EPSALUM financed these films. I know that Daniel may have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but it was almost insignificant. The only film he did with his money for her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever claims he did those films for her….quote me or ask EPSALUM.

Doris was a good wife in her own right. She supported her husband’s passion to change the industry. She encouraged him into making Yoruba films which he really didn’t want to get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her colleagues, she was the one that had a STEADY home with a young and successful guy…ambitious man too. She was the minister of finance. That’s what Daniel used to call her in the house because he always gave her all the money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it ALL over to her because she was efficient in money management, unlike him who was a free giver and really had no respect or regard for money! Whether he had enough or not, he never did care so much about cash. NEVER!

For the 4 years that I lived with them, not for ONE day did I ever hear them raise their voices at each other in arguments or quarrels. You would see them come out of their bedroom sometimes with weird expressions and we would all know they just fought but you would NEVER hear Daniel raise his voice. NEVER!

One thing that the world never know was how much both families NEVER wanted them to get married. Doris’ parents didn’t like Daniel and Daniel’s mother (in particular) never liked Doris. She was against the relationship from the beginning. She is known to be a heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his mother.

Now, the HORRIBLE thing about Daniel is his stubbornness and hard headed nature. He never listens to people and if he believes in something, it would take a manifestation of the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his mind. He is an extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which was one thing I hated about him. Yes he is nice, loving to his family and friends but do not think for a minute that you can convince him easily to change his mind when he has already formed an opinion or decided on what he wants to do.

He went on with the marriage. His family believed that Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a big lie. I have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I respect the woman but Doris DID NOT trap Daniel with a baby. They were already living together for 3 years before David was born. So the woman should get her facts straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as Doris did.

I think along the line Uncle Daniel started to realize that in many ways he and Aunty Doris were different. Much different than he had thought. I believe Doris started to relax on several things because she felt she had her husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very expressive about his love, she was the opposite. He would run around the house and want to play love games with her but she thought that was a waste of time and energy. I personally experienced that with them on several occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how people perceived the relationship on the outside and not how sweet it really was on the inside. She always wanted pictures of them out there. Daniel was more concerned about making his marrige very “Oyinbo-ish” because that’s who he has always been.

At some point I started to feel that Daniel started getting tired of her excuses about being expressive with her feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly dawned on him that they were from two different worlds. Their command of English was too far apart, their ideologies were different, approach to situations, educational background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe she just stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in the house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short clothes and sexy outfits from the US. I thought they were too daring but he didn’t mind.

The marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know that I heard them talking in hush tones a few times about how sex was a problem in the marriage. I know for a fact that Daniel used to joke about it around the house but you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was always clowning about how he had to fill forms like an embassy to have sex with his wife. I know at some point it was so bad that for almost 6 months they didn’t do anything. One thing I can tell you for a fact is that in the course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris. This was a known fact and EVERYONE knew how crazy he was about his wife but really….is lack of sex enough to ruin a marriage?

Some people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend ALEX EFFIONG who was there when Daniel and Doris hooked up originally. I know I overheard Daniel and Alex talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in Magodo. Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in when he was in America where his friends BUKKY EBUN of Nollywood View and ‘LAMIDE DAVIES TALABI. You can ask them because they are on Facebook. These two people will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at some point when she visited Nigeria. She came with KAHA the singer. That’s how I found out. He was desperate to save his marriage that’s why he took drastic steps to talk to people.

I blame Doris in some ways because she just relaxed, trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage was going to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep working to make it good.

What annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his wife had a shop that he didn’t even know about. He found out from outsiders and when he confronted her, she said she was trying to surprise him. That really pissed him off! He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the way he did it. He just left!

While everyone was celebrating the happy lives these people shared, the marriage was already over!! They were just patching things up! They kept holding on because of “What people would say”.
Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could not fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and never imagined that Daniel would get frustrated and leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see it in his eyes everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it all work.

Look for people like ALIU SHORINMADE who was his personal assistant for 5 years. These were the people who knew Daniel very well and how he avoided women like a plague. Let them tell you facts. Let them tell you truths. Stella Damasus did not break up Doris Simeon’s home. That home was scattered long before Stella came into the picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved so much at home in someone he considered a friend and sparks flew.

When i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being taken care of by a woman, I laughed because the people saying this have no idea who Daniel is. He is so arrogant in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger than take a dime from any woman. HE IS THAT KIND OF MAN! He will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any woman. The dude is a workaholic….I give that to him. Films, Fashion, Documentaries, Writing, Photography, Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a master at them all.

There is so much I know and if all these names I mentioned here deny anything…they are lying! I can open a big can of worms!

Look for ALIU and ask him to tell you about the girl BLESSING that DORIS brought into their house that stayed for almost 3 years. Daniel sent her away from the house over 4 times and Doris kept bringing her back. Why? Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He NEVER WANTED THE GIRL IN THE HOUSE but she kept bringing her back. We know that at some point Daniel discovered that this girl was sexually abusing Daniel’s son DAVID! WHAT DID DORIS DO ABOUT IT???

If all the parties involved think I am lying, let them confront me! Let them deny it! Daniel cannot deny it! Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They know the truth!! There is a girl called SUNMISOLA that used to visit the house some weekends then. She was close to Doris…find out and ASK HER TOO!

All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived EVERYONE for a long time about how good the marriage was even when everything was BITTER and SOUR! So those hating on Stella are really wasting their time because STELLA DAMASUS DID NOT RUIN DORIS’ MARRIAGE. Daniel and Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce in 2011. If any of them claim I’m lying, let them challenge me.


With all of the above allegations, hopefully Doris Simeon will come open to defend herself.

The above email speaks volume about Stella Damasus’ involvement in the whole marriage problem saga.

What would have happened if Daniel Ademinokan didn’t meet Stella at that critical moment of his life… May be he would have worked things out with his wife.



  1. Yk

    April 29, 2013 at 9:39 AM

    Always this guy says I over heard, are you a gossiper? Why always you put your ears on the wall to over heard? I don’t believe your bull and cock story and even if it is true and Daniel went to woo Stella, Stella don’t have any common sense to tell Daniel to look ex where for his catch? For crying out loud, they are colleagues, she can just go out there and marry neutral person. The d**k that Doris don chop chop, Stella self con start to dey chop am inside same nollywood…. Oshiiii!

  2. Yvonne

    April 29, 2013 at 9:41 AM

    All dis rubish ur vomiting is not an excuse ok, do u want tell me he didnt c any other woman if not Stela? My dear he is tired of his wife period

  3. Yk

    April 29, 2013 at 9:45 AM

    I am very sure Daniel and Stella paid this stupid JMK to come and write a stupid email on the page….. It’s better for you to go and repent before thunder strike you dead…..

  4. mulikat

    April 29, 2013 at 9:46 AM

    Hwo can u tell me sex break their marriage,then u must be sick in the head,that young beautifull woman,more than stella,this man get sex joy from her than is wife doris.they must be something else about this sex of a thing,i think and belive in me,this man want Ass Hole way,if u undstand me ,not the normal way opposite way,this doris said no,i cant do that.and he get that easyly by stella,everybody know that prositut…woman marry and having sex partner around,woman like dog,she can do any things when come to sex with a man.normal sex romatic every woman need that it keep u happy ,look young and reason to live in any relationship,now this cow head telling us is sex,hwo on earth woman not sick 6 month without allowed her husband to enjoy themself together,and hwo comes a normal man or woman will tell people how long or hwo many times they get into eachother, i think this is for 2 party only,not general,when comes to sex.for me all of u are sick,he dont love doris again i can belive u,the love die out,is ok or the stella is good in bed than young beautifull wife doris i can belive.but just sex along to break marriage never,expect he want other way sex ass hole ,then is right to say no,is not our culture and God dont like it,but when u meet a dog woman like stella she will say yes,cos she is like public toilet.hwo long they will stay together let wait and see, only he always going with her to any place he is going both toilet,to keep it just for him only,if not 1 day he will come home and see another man on is bed or the stella not around.

  5. Sop

    April 29, 2013 at 10:26 AM

    No human wil eva believe its bcos of sex that the family broke up… Daniel knows y he broke up wit the wife.. One day.., the SECRET must b UNVEILED & TOLD… By then its 2 late.. Becos the wife must av settled down wit anoda carin lovin husband in jesus name.. Amen

  6. fati

    April 29, 2013 at 11:30 AM

    stella,get your own husband.stop snatching or dating already married men.doris pls make amends with your daring husband.its not late.parents mind your bussiness,leave the couples to enjoy their marriage.dont dictate.may God bless you as you hinder to the advise.NO MARRIAGE IS PERFECT RIGHT FROM THE TIME WHEN GOD CURSE ADAM N EVE OVER DISOBEDIENCE.

  7. blessing

    April 29, 2013 at 11:55 AM

    stella, nor get shame, u see nobody is supporting u. u jump frm one man to de other at age 35.u av put assunder to wat God joined together. u go see ur own for front.the cain wey dem use beat de first wife, dem dey use beat de second wife. its just a matter of 3-5 yrs wego hear ur own. abi nor be u stella wey we all know.

  8. hilary

    April 29, 2013 at 12:00 PM

    why are you all fighting daniel?? Yes! Sex can break a relationship,a marriage anyone you call it.. You are here wishing doris the best in life,so daniel is not a human being who deserves happiness too?? are you all thinking?? Who says the prettiest women make the best partners?? So what if stella is sleeping with a guy her colleague has slept with??? Na today e start for nollywood?? Please don’t come with your stupid one way irrational thinking and stupid good for nothing biased nature and spoil anybody’s name…Most importantly,work on ur english,if u no sabi english tor pidgin neva loss na… Mtcheeeew! Just cum here dey gbagaun for no just cause

    • Ola

      April 30, 2013 at 4:33 PM

      Let them make dem hear, who tells u sex cant break marriage? i am a living witness, before i divorce my wife, she allows me sex 5/6 times in a year and re u telling me its proper for couples in their 30s? though not the only reason we parted but always one major reason too, stella is a celebrity thats why they think dan is bad, all people say is rubbish, the guy deserves to be happy.

    • Ola

      April 30, 2013 at 4:39 PM

      Tell them make dem hear, who tells u sex cant break marriage? i am a living witness, before i divorce my wife, she allows me sex 5/6 times in a year and re u telling me its proper for couples in their 30s? though not the only reason we parted but always one major reason too, stella is a celebrity thats why they think dan is bad, all people say is rubbish, the guy deserves to be happy.

  9. Iya -ara

    April 29, 2013 at 12:07 PM

    Hmmm this is serious oooo!! I like stella so much but since i husband died she has turn herslf into sometin else,what is dis there so call Nollywood is turning in2??Snatching each others husband na wa ooo………… Mr i live with the couples 4 4years u ar MAD i presume you dont have job if not why is it only u that over heard all the time?JMK or what do u call yourslf i blv a normal person wil not come out and say dis kind of a story u ar INSANE…….Doris take good care of your babe and stella am dissapointed in u

  10. bankscindy

    April 29, 2013 at 12:13 PM

    Daniel ,u are the one that constructed this story to favour u but there is no element in what u wrote,leave Doris alone and enjoy ur sugar mama,stella,we are watching.

  11. Tenebe Lucky

    April 29, 2013 at 12:23 PM

    How can a man simply says it because of bore sex and romance he called off his married. Not even friendshid, married whith a kid. Those are the kind people that are corupting our comunities. Those are the kind of refuges the federal government supose to be picking instead of the main rubish. I believ that woman will have a man that is better than him.

  12. gladys

    April 29, 2013 at 12:27 PM

    Bloody Liar! Stella has paid u to come nd talk rubbish!! U mst be a fool, if u are close to dis family as u say, u w not come out nd publish dis!!!

  13. layo

    April 29, 2013 at 12:30 PM

    Na wa ooo, am very sure is Daniel that wrote this stupid story to make pple love Stella but he forgot that pple are not dumbass like him and Stella asewo.Doris dear don’t say anything let God do the talking for u.

  14. Bhusy

    April 29, 2013 at 12:48 PM

    to my own view, i bliv Stella is a shit. i dont xpect her after getting married to 2 dift men she cud stoop so low to date her best friend man. and for doris babe its only a matter of tym we hav seen alot frm u celebrities.

  15. Glossy

    April 29, 2013 at 12:49 PM

    Liar…liar…..u r just@ saying rubbish…are u his family ,member…u are not just a gossip but a stupid intruder…u always hear everything…so tell us..what did u not hear during ur short stay in d house..hope u r not d one molesting d child bc u talk lik d whore Stella….doing anytin to keep d d**k inside ur scrontos not minding d age or circumstances….lwkmd..

  16. mobobz

    April 29, 2013 at 1:03 PM

    Oga e-mail writter. How dare u say sex broke the couples apart. Hmmmm…. StrÀnge tins abounds o. O.k. Now dat daniel says doris doesnt satisfy her sexually along side other issues. What is d probability dat stella’s wont be worst. Except dey’ve been tasting it b4 dey finally hook up. Meaning dat stella has also been doing it in a coded way behind. Hmm…2 anoda womans property. As women, lets be extra-ordinarily careful o. ‘Cos wen d brime-stones from heavens start descending upon some ppl. Especially d home-wreckers.cos dis is wat God hates most.

  17. hollar

    April 29, 2013 at 3:52 PM

    Rubbish i dont believe wat am reading here,,,,,oloshi

  18. henry

    April 29, 2013 at 6:06 PM

    Sex can break marriage,it has been breaking it and anyone that thinks it is a small thing will see his or her marrige gone for is hypocrazy that make pple say can sex break marriage.many marrige today have scarttered bcos of sex but no one will say it out because we are African.concerning this one the two of them knows so wish them settlement.

  19. T

    April 29, 2013 at 8:02 PM

    These two were in Cameroon sometime back and they presented themselves as good colleagues.Not they are married?

  20. kemi

    April 29, 2013 at 9:18 PM

    there is a many way to kill a rat without sheding blood. i think mr daniel should punish her instead of getting married to another wife,Let learn to forgive one another .

  21. juliet chika

    April 29, 2013 at 9:22 PM

    Rubish, u story dosent make sanse. A marriage that lasted 3yrs without child should be able to stand nomatter what, he didn’t leave when they don’t have a child is whn God finally blessed them that he remembed all the bad about his wife. Forget he was dating stella while living with his wife if not his marriage would still be intact up till now. Infact he nd stella Should repent from their adulterous life. Nd u story teller u re not even ashamed of urself if Doris is bad she will not allow u stay in that house all that long

  22. Dee

    April 29, 2013 at 10:11 PM

    Good Writter you are. How much were you paid to write this? Only a fool like you would believe your make up here….Even if your story is true, that doesn’t justify Stella to snatched her colleague husband….It’s a matter of time Stella will regret her action…Shameless woman.

  23. precious

    April 30, 2013 at 1:59 AM

    Ooops, well all I want today say here is dat sex is important in marriage, and we should try not to say much about with we dnt no much about, d most important thing is dat we should do things dat make us happy, because life is so short to lieve unhappy.

  24. AB

    April 30, 2013 at 8:05 AM


  25. kent-sele Okogbenin

    April 30, 2013 at 10:24 AM

    If u refuse to believe d story dat is so xplicit, then look for a well near ur house if there is non in urs and jump inside. KEEP WHAT YOU HAVE. DON’T UNDERESTIMATE YOUR SPOUSE. OTHERS ARE WAITING TO HAVE WHAT YOU REJECTED.

  26. Chloe

    April 30, 2013 at 11:47 AM

    Truth is actresses are husband snatchers and dnt be surprised danieo might be d one who cooked up those stories.stella is a slut.let’s nt 4get dis her 3rd marriage and y did she do it secret?aren’t there other fwesh gurls out there than stella da prostitute…empty excuses.if stella enters heaven then osama bin laden wil sit@d rite hand of God.

  27. adex on point

    April 30, 2013 at 11:49 AM

    To ♍ƺ ,I believe what happen is a little misunderstanding between d couple 4 daniel to make an excuses of sex is totally rubbish.4 U̶̲̥̅̊ to date a woman 4 two or three year U̶̲̥̅̊ should how romantic she is,if truly daniel love Doris U̶̲̥̅̊ will never leave not her no matter worse.4 dat shameless woman believe me whatever U̶̲̥̅̊ sow today ur children will reap

  28. Chloe

    April 30, 2013 at 11:51 AM

    Henry stella cum sabi f**k pass abi?she stooped so low 3men maybe b4 she wil be called to eternal rest,she wil marry 10men.anonymous reveal urself and c me kil ur dumb ass.wit ya cunt like mouth.henry since u blv,then sex wil break urs in dew season.

  29. Toin

    April 30, 2013 at 12:25 PM

    This is life and what goes around comes around.

    Obviously, there is a hand of Jacob and voice of Esau in this story. Who be fool? Daniel wrote this in by self or proxy. They are all adults and have a right to live their lives as they please….but, Stella was the one lambasting another actress for saying theres no big deal in dating a married man. quoting the Bible seriously to advise the lady. I guess she hasnt read the portion of the Bible that speaks on her own actions yet.
    The best we can do is commit them all to the court of the most high, the ultimate judge, the One who knows the thoyghts and intents of every heart.
    All the best to them all


    April 30, 2013 at 3:12 PM



  31. Ola

    April 30, 2013 at 4:41 PM

    Henry tell them make dem hear, who tells u sex cant break marriage? i am a living witness, before i divorce my wife, she allows me sex 5/6 times in a year and re u telling me its proper for couples in their 30s? though not the only reason we parted but always one major reason too, stella is a celebrity thats why they think dan is bad, all people say is rubbish, the guy deserves to be happy.

  32. peccxy

    April 30, 2013 at 8:03 PM

    U guys tinkin …or concluding irrationally ….family issues or family crises is nt olwas d husband’s fault u knw ….no1 knws woh Daniel has being resisting …ever since …..I guess its better 2 kip our hands crossed and wait for d main gist 4rm d horses mouth ……

  33. Jimmy

    May 1, 2013 at 9:48 AM

    Some people are really very dumb. The truth could hit them squarely in the face and they still won’t have a clue.The story maybe biased or not;who can say besides the people directly affected. FYI, a marriage can breakup with sex or lack thereof being ONE of the reasons. If u thot differently; u are either unmarried,in denial, lucky(u are with a woman who loves romance) or u are from another planet. there are frigid women out there. Best believe that! And I speak nothing of a man wanting freaky things in bed. For some married women, just normal sex can become a chore. so watch out! Other issues like Daniel discovering his wife’s shop through the sin of omission and Daniel’s own hangups as a human being may have caused a number of problems. Enter Stella, who should have known better! she may not have been directly culpable(lets give her the benefit that she didnt sleep with Daniel while he was married) but she having been married once(maybe 2) should have thrown Daniel back into his den and not have played the emotional friend(benefit of doubt again)to Daniel, when he was having marrital problems.On Doris role, she is the one who got ditched, so she will remain the victim for me.But I am sure she will be the first to admit she also contributed to this quagmire.Enuff said.

  34. annonymous

    May 1, 2013 at 11:21 AM

    There is no truth in this story,how dare you tell me you know how many times a couple have sex,are you their sex referee?Its so Obvious u were paid to come and write this cock and bull story or maybe its Stella or Daniel writing this just to justify their shameful act.U claimed to be Doris sister,s bro and yet all your story support Stella and Daniel.U know when Daniel met Stella and when they started their romance,but you forgot to tell us you are Daniel,s P.A,for you to know so much about know when and who he is dating.Abeg find better things to do.The truth wwill surely reveal itself sooner or later.

  35. Ruth

    May 1, 2013 at 5:59 PM

    See dis Daniel guy,im Mama no like young,fresh,hardworking-wife-material DORIS SIMON,na the one wey d entire Ojuelegba don sleep with and marry tire na d Prayer Warrior Mama(srry,no hard feelings for Mama,just dat her son na Big IDIOT)like abi?…..Dis Daniel guy…uhm….na only prayer i fit pray for Madam 3husbands,bcx……her own go worse pass wen d tym reach for the guy to move on to another woman! Married couples will forever have issues,dealing with dem or sortin dem out is the solution,not running into another woman’s arms!bcx u wen u also start havin problems wit the new woman,
    you stil won’t be able to solve dem,you’ll look for another woman to run to….

  36. omobolanle

    June 16, 2013 at 5:24 PM

    Dis man is sayin notin but rubbish.I am very sure dis yeye Mr Daniel av been datin stella b4 he broke up with doris simeon.dey re million men out dere,y on earth will stella snatch her colleague’s husband.she is a prostitute nd daniel will definately dump her d way he dumped his ex wife.Let wait and see

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