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Dating Advice Good Fathers Need To Give Their Sons

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By Kate Halim

Dating Advice Good Fathers Need To Give Their Sons

Todaychildren are dating at a young age. If your teenage son is interested in girls, it is best to start giving him some good dating advice so that he doesn’t learn how to treat a woman from the streets or his peers.

Here are some dating advice good fathers need to give their sons as they venture into the world of dating:

Teach your son to be a friend first.

As he starts dating, he should be her friend long before he becomes her boyfriend. Even though his emotions will be intense and he will be ready to dive headlong into the deep end, tell him not to rush things. He needs to develop a friendship first. The high-intensity emotions of love may burn bright initially, but the flame of friendship in marriage lasts the duration.

Let your son know that his heart will break and he needs to embrace that feeling.

Tell him that one or more of his relationships will end with his heart feeling like it’s been split in two. He will have more questions than answers, and more regret than jubilation. He should know that his broken heart won’t get put back together by running from it. He should cry the ugly tears no matter what anyone thinks about them, ask the painful questions, and just remember that his broken heart will heal with time.

Teach him to be fascinated with her, not just her looks. Physical looks are great, but they are fleeting. And if he finds the most beautiful girl in the world, he should be aware that there’s always someone prettier. As he starts dating, teach him to become fascinated with who she is, how she operates, what she cares about, and what her dreams are. They all matter more than her bra size or how many heads she turns at school.

Show her parents she’s in good hands. Let your son know that every girl you date is someone else’s daughter. They have spent years with her, while he has probably only known her for a few months. So he needs to earn their trust, too. He will do that by doing what he says he is going to do, being home on time, and treating her like their daughter, not just his girlfriend.

Teach your son how to develop other intimacies beyond the physical kind. He should know that the physical intimacy will want to take off like a rocket when he really clicks with someone. Of course there’s a time and a place for that. But he shouldn’t base the entirety of his relationship on it.

He needs to find ways to deepen the emotional, spiritual, intellectual bonds between them. He should do the hard work so that his relationship is standing on a firmer foundation than simply physical attraction.

Teach him to leave his girl better than when he found her. He shouldn’t trample girls along the way. He needs to treat them well, do the right things, and when it ends, hopefully he would have left them in a better place for knowing him.




  1. Metu Nyetu

    July 21, 2019 at 6:17 AM

    THIS IS very great! Any boy child who is taught these, and adopts them, must turn out to be among the best of human species. However, I think one important thing is still missing. Or, in a world where 99% of friendship with the opposite sex involves sex itself, would it be wasteful to equally teach the boy child about the moral implications of that?

    • Dotun KY

      July 21, 2019 at 6:50 AM

      You raised an important point. Early childhood education will play well here.

  2. Mon

    July 22, 2019 at 5:32 AM

    Great article, also, in my own layman opinion, good to teach him that men are created with two BRAIN, one is located in the skull and the other is in between the leg (scrotum), so he should always allow the one in the skull to control the other, because if the reverse is the case, his life will be in ruins.

  3. Fifelomo

    July 22, 2019 at 5:38 AM

    I appreciate what I just read.

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