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Femi Adebayo Confesses: My Wife Divorced Me & Remarried, I’m Taking A Brand New Wife Soon

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Femi Adebayo Confesses: My Wife Divorced Me & Remarried, I’m Taking A Brand New Wife Soon

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June 9, 2015 – Femi Adebayo Confesses: My Wife Divorced Me & Remarried, I’m Marrying A Brand New Wife Soon

Nollywood actor Femi Adebayo has responded to report of his upcoming wedding ceremony.

In an exclusive chat with Encomium, the father of three said his wife divorced him in Ilorin after 2 years of separation.

Mr Adebayo who said his children’s mother divorced him because she doesn’t support his acting career has promised to marry a brand new wife soon.

See interview excerpts:

You said your marriage crashed 7 year ago, why have you been silent about it till now?

Well, the marriage should be a thing to me actually, I have a right to my privacy and if I have issues with my wife, it is not ideal to go to public to broadcast it. There are several marriages either from celebrities or non-celebrity that have gone down the drain. So, mine is not an exception and marriage is a contract which you can breach anytime if one party is no longer comfortable with the condition of the contract. I see it as a personal problem that I have been managing for long and I see no reason why I should be going around to talk about it in public.

What effort did you put to settle it amicably?

Several efforts have been made but I believe so much that it has been destined that, that is how it will go. It has been destined that it is going to go down the drain, sincerely, the major reason for the separation has to do with destiny because the 2 parties involved are not truly at fault. It is just the matter of understanding which we were unable to understand ourselves. While I was in school, I met her and she made it clear that she was not going to marry an actor but I told her that I won’t go deep into acting, I will do a little acting and pay much attention to law. When we got married, acting was paying my bills than law and I tried to let her understand but she wasn’t happy about it. The major reason we started having issues with the marriage was the fact that I went deep into acting while I promised her I will do more of law than acting. She can’t stand or marry me again being an actor. I tried all efforts to stop her from walking out of the marriage but it proved abortive.

What was her reaction when you told her acting pays your bills more than law?

She gave the normal reaction of a woman, she doesn’t like the profession really, but she has the right to leave because the truth is that, that wasn’t my promise, not knowing what God has ordained for me. And that’s why I said I can’t blame her and I can’t blame myself because destiny made us go our separate ways that is just it.

Why is she is not interested in acting?

That should be for her personal reasons. I don’t actually know what is behind it. It may be based on religion because she is a Muslim and the profession is somewhat against Islam which I don’t see that way, but she sincerely got her own reasons.

Where efforts of reconciliation made from both families?

Yes. But no matter the efforts made, the parties involved matters and I think it has to do with both of us, not really the families.

She is not interested in acting but she had 3 kids for you, how come?

We were lucky when we got married because God blessed the marriage so quickly. We were trying to say okay let’s see if I can leave acting for something else, I tried my hands on so many things which wasn’t really forthcoming, so it was in the process that God blessed us with the kids.

Rumour has it that your marriage started having issues after your alleged romance with actress Funke Akindele.

I think I have just cleared the air on that. Funke had nothing to do with my marriage crash, the major reason my marriage broke up was the fact that my ex-wife didn’t like my profession.

Who was the first person to seek divorce in court?

After 2 years of separation, I think she couldn’t take it any longer and she filed the divorce about 4 years ago. She filed it at Area court in Ilorin where the marriage was celebrated. The marriage was dissolved and we had agreement on how to take care of the babies, how to have access to them and all that. She has the custody of the children and under the principle of Islam which our marriage was celebrated, she should have custody of the children.

Do you see your kids?

Yes. Virtually all their last holidays were spent with me. I have access to them.

Do you miss her?

Whatever I miss about her should be personal. I am not missing her anymore. I need to be careful about what I say because she now belongs to another man.

She left to marry another man; do you know much about the new marriage?

I don’t really know anything about that. I just know that she remarried. I sent her a message to congratulate her on the new union. I don’t think I should be interested in who she is married to, if our marriage didn’t work doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work with another man.

How well have you coped as a divorcee?

I have been doing that for the past seven years now. It’s not new to me, but the belief is that being married shows responsibility and that is why I am going to take another wife. Not really a second wife but a brand new one.

37 Comments

37 Comments

  1. Nelly

    June 9, 2015 at 8:40 AM

    So you are proud to say your wife divorced you and remarried and so you will take another brand new wife. I want to say that if you want you can marry dozen brand new wives, because many girls are desperate to marry not knowing what is in it. The issue is you changing to be able to accommodate a wife if not all of them will definable divorce you for other men, if I were you, I will ask myself what happened that my wife divorced me and change for the better.

    • Daud Musa

      November 8, 2017 at 1:57 PM

      He said the wife devoice him cuz of his profession period, I didn’t see anything like proud in him

  2. YEMOVY

    June 9, 2015 at 11:40 AM

    Hiss……….no comment

  3. bisi

    June 9, 2015 at 2:56 PM

    Femi is one of the finest and gifted actor produced by Nollywood, please follow your passion and dream, everything is for a reason…i am your fan anyday!

  4. dem

    June 9, 2015 at 4:24 PM

    Fool ,liar. Like father like son. Those lies for those thAt do not know your history. You married an innocent virgin girl from unilorin and messed her up . Guess you were pretending to be religious in those days when you met the girl. Committed different atrocities when you married the girl such as relationship with Finke akindele and being violence towards the girl . You abandoned her and her children . Definitely God will judge you. Now you are saying she does not like your nollywood . Liar. Instead of you admitting your mistake. Now you ‘re putting blame on her . Believe me what goes round comes round. Brand new wifey!!! Be ready for your calamity

  5. bukky

    June 10, 2015 at 2:01 PM

    Femi………….I dnt believe ur story about Bukky.take kia thou.

    • Peace

      June 11, 2015 at 6:41 AM

      Femi your story doesn’t make any sense at all

  6. splash

    July 3, 2015 at 9:20 AM

    Must u guys divorce…after all ur movies lessons..dis is not a style for actors nd actress.

  7. adex

    August 9, 2015 at 9:51 AM

    Femolala pls clean your mouth that is full of lies.ALL D AUCTION @ JC dinner DAT year .1000 for khadija she’s too beautlful.DAT Kenny daudu answered u.Whatever happens is clear to God.Where did u get brand new from?R u brand new for u to marry brand new. Egbon e fumble gannnnnnn.

  8. Sam

    August 28, 2015 at 7:52 PM

    Mr Femi, I want to believe that the day you both were joined together as husband and wife, you were told to reason together as one, why haven’t you done that has regards your case? Please you need to adjust.

  9. jossy

    August 30, 2015 at 4:24 PM

    It is well bro

  10. Olabisi Adeoti

    September 1, 2015 at 9:12 PM

    What will be will be. God will direct your step.

  11. Odunayo simbiat adejoke

    September 10, 2015 at 11:53 AM

    Hiss

  12. Bimbo

    September 19, 2015 at 6:35 PM

    Femmy never mind God knows better.c yah

  13. kikelomo

    October 13, 2015 at 9:10 AM

    all is well but Allah knows the best, we human we dont know another persons thought that is well, and we cant open each others stomache, and the most bad thing in our part of the body is nose bcoz nose can smell what is good and what is bad except humANS BEHAVIOUR. so it means that we cant judge what we dont know. my fellow human plss dont judge on your own bcoz u dont know the truth, dont commit a sin bcoz of what u dont know and leave everything to Allah to judge.

  14. yemacate

    November 8, 2015 at 3:17 PM

    God wil must come daz it

  15. yemacate

    November 8, 2015 at 3:23 PM

    God wil must surely b done daz it

  16. Adeola olojede

    November 12, 2015 at 11:46 PM

    Uncle femo I can’t believe all dis u are saying but as for me I believe God knows about it

  17. Sunshine

    December 8, 2015 at 10:06 PM

    God knows the best. Remember, what goes around comes around and whatever u sow nasi u go reap.
    All z well…….move on wif ya life….. life goes on

  18. Femi Adebayo Biography

    January 29, 2016 at 4:21 AM

    Nice info on the two actors you can also read more about Femi Adebayo’s biography via my name

  19. Femi Adebayo Biography

    January 29, 2016 at 4:22 AM

    Nice to see this about him!

  20. Mrs emeka

    February 7, 2016 at 8:43 PM

    Dear, marriage is never contract but spiritual and life time thing please understand it and let it be in your mind if not if you like married your sister the same thing will happen, wish you the best in your next marriage.be committed to her no matter what, take care.

  21. Mrs emeka

    February 7, 2016 at 8:46 PM

    Dear, marriage is never contract but spiritual and life time thing please understand it and let it be in your mind if not if you like married your sister the same thing will happen, wish you the best in your next marriage.be committed to her no matter what, take care.

  22. yeye

    April 18, 2016 at 12:02 PM

    Iro nla.Big liar!

  23. BIMPE

    May 23, 2016 at 8:49 AM

    ALMIGHTY ALLAH WILL BE WITH U

  24. PASTOR PETER AMBALI

    August 3, 2016 at 9:36 PM

    MARRIAGE IS AN INSTITUTION ORDAINED BY GOD. ITS A CONVENANT IN WHICH GOD IS PRESENT. THE WORD OF GOD ALMIGHTY SAYS “WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER”.
    SATAN DOESN’T WANT MARRIAGE TO HOLD, AND IF SATAN IS SO POWERFUL ENOUGH TO PUSH ONE PARTY TO THE PIT OF BREAKING THE MARRIAGE, AND ONE IS MADE TO GO AND MARRY ANOTHER PARTY WHILE ONE OF THE PARTY IS STILL ALIVE (NOT WIDOWED), THAT PARTY IS REGARDED AS AN ADULTERER WHETHER YOU ACCEPT OR NOT, ANY PARTY THAT GOES TO MARRY ANOTHER PERSON IS AN ADULTERER.
    IF FEMI ADEBAYO GOES TO REMARRY HE IS GOING TO BE AN ADULTERER.
    THE LADY ( IE YOUR FORMER WIFE) IS ALREADY AN ADULTERER IF SHE HAS REMARRIED SOMEBODY ELSE.
    EVEN THE PERSON THAT MARRIED HER IS AN ADULTERER BACAUSE THE LADY IS NOT A WIDOW.
    GO AND READ THE HOLY BOOK OF GOD VERY WELL (MATTHEW 19 VERSE 1 – 10)

  25. Roseline

    August 31, 2016 at 11:41 AM

    Who are we to judge?God knows best.it is well

  26. blessed

    September 1, 2016 at 7:52 AM

    you re a wicked man u re just saying trash cos ur wife lived around our area before she remarried.

  27. adeola

    September 5, 2016 at 6:55 AM

    it is well

  28. fifelomo

    September 5, 2016 at 10:57 AM

    I chose nt to talk, despite the fact that I no Femi and Bukky very well. whole lots not said. Just concerned about the kids. I wish the 2 all the very best.

  29. favour

    October 10, 2016 at 10:12 PM

    all I know is that d both parties should take good care of those babies, divorce or no divorce ,what will b will b

  30. Akadri taiwo

    October 23, 2016 at 10:22 AM

    You are very wrong sir according to quran they have the right to remary because they have been separeted they are nt adulterers

  31. damilola

    February 27, 2017 at 7:01 PM

    but, that does not good because you have promise her that you won’t be acting any more and all faults is from you.

  32. Olamide

    March 10, 2017 at 9:49 PM

    Brother femi congratulations on your wedding,,God bless your unions my advice for you is to make sure you are taking good care of your children that God as given to you from your ex wife ……God knows the best

  33. Dr. michael Aromokun

    April 17, 2017 at 9:08 PM

    Femi i want u to knw dt marriage as established by God is meant to be a lifetime contract dat shud not b breachetru d no matter what and no holy book dat is truly holy wud support divorce. The idea is man and woman shud come togeda to become one and wat already one tru marriage shud not split. U are guilty of dis divorce bcos u had a very gud courtship togeda more dan dis flimsy excuses

  34. Segun

    April 19, 2017 at 9:41 PM

    Some pple r still blaming him for the marrige that broke. Cnt u read ni ? My wife devoiced me… and who says being a virgin before marrige guarantee a good wife? Khadija married at 100level or so mean

  35. Kunle babakeke

    June 21, 2017 at 1:30 AM

    Congrats on your wedding bro. Always known u and Kdj to be great either apart or together . You certainly won’t kill yourself if things don’t work out . Keep your head up and look after you kids as I know they are priceless to you . You’ve moved on and everyone is happy . Enjoy your new life bro . End of story

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