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Has Christ Embassy Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Divorced Wife, Anita ?
May 29, 2014 – Has Christ Embassy Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Divorced Wife, Anita ?.Marriage Problem Allegedly Separate Couple
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“My Wife, Anita Is Always Bitter And Angry, Bad Friends Have Influenced Her Negatively“– Pastor Chris Oyakhilome
The latest talk in town is that the founder of Christ Embassy Church, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome has left his wife of many years, Rev Anita.
It first started like a joke last year when the man of God reportedly moved to South Africa alone leaving his wife behind in London.
After over 10 months of denial, Pastor Chris reportedly told his church members that his marriage to Anita has crashed because she is keeping bad friends.
His concerned church members have taken the case to the social media to solicit for a reunion for the sake of their two beautiful daughters and the success of the ministry.
A Facebook page titled ‘Where Is Anita Oyakhilome’ has been opened to help in bringing the couple together.
On Friday, the 16th of May 2014, during a meeting with all the Christ Embassy Pastors and Deacons in the United Kingdom at Christ Embassy Church Bermondsey in London, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome reportedly opened up about his marriage problem.
He talked at length about his wife and how bad friends have influenced her.
Here is the excerpt from the message:
– I am here for your concerns about the ongoing domestic issue with my wife and I know it affects you directly been the ones under her leadership.
-This is not an organisation or a political party, so it’s not a place for you to air your opinion or scrutinise what we do. We had a vision, started and you joined us. If you don’t like what we do, you can get out.
– Churches where members air their views never grow
– Some pastors wives think when they marry a pastor they are equal to the pastor. My wife thinks so, as a matter of fact, Rev Tom was her pastor before I married her and Rev Ray and Evang. Owase were her leaders long before I married her. How come she thinks she’s senior to them now?
– I already started Christ Embassy before I married her. I didn’t marry her and said we should start Christ Embassy. I was already pastoring. I already set my sail and knew my direction before I married her. I only said come and help me.
– Be careful of the friends you keep. My wife keeps friends who bring out the worst in her and help her see the worst in people instead of keeping friends that will help her vision especially as the wife of a global pastor like me.
– Bitterness is prolonged and accumulated anger. My wife is always angry and bitter.
– Allegations are either false or twisted information. The current situation is not as a result of what I did or what I didn’t do. I didn’t do anything to have caused an upheaval.
– You don’t join a woman to fight her husband.
– I’m not teaching you what is wrong, at least I have 2 girls who will one day marry and I want to them to enjoy it.
Ironically, Pastor Chris brought his daughter to the pastors’ meeting to hear all of the above about her mother, what trauma will that cause the child? We thought parents avoid arguing in the presence of their children.
This is not new in the body of Christ, Pastor Benny Hinn recently divorced his wife and the two reconciled few months after.
Please join Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and Anita in your prayers for divine intervention in their marriage .
Let’s not point accusing fingers because this can happen to anyone.
bezo
May 29, 2014 at 4:26 PM
what else do u expect from jerry curls preacher
not surprised that he is dating that f**ish r*d
Dorothy California
May 29, 2014 at 8:11 PM
@bezo what is it that red did to u
why do u always call her out.
Dammy T
May 29, 2014 at 4:28 PM
Am very saddened by this I will remeber them in my prayers for reconciliation
Precious Nwah
May 29, 2014 at 4:30 PM
I think there is more to this marriage problem
I need to hear from Rev anita before commenting
Emma1
May 29, 2014 at 6:15 PM
Bro u are a gud judge
k2love8
May 30, 2014 at 10:02 AM
I also believe that Precious, and Rev Anita, needs to speaks up first.
chizzy baby
May 29, 2014 at 4:37 PM
@bezo f**l why are you always looking for problem.
If you have issue with red, address her personally and stop bringing our stupidity to this blog
Niajagist should stop approving your meaningless comments
Innocent Gabriel
May 29, 2014 at 5:43 PM
To my belove brother is not easy to love the cross as you know. The lord Jesus tell us on no condition shall a man dievoice his wife,except on condition of alduletry. To hold his grace, we must endure through all conflict. As a general in the lord army you must be persivere in all that you will do. Remember the first love and forgive her ,pray for her cause the enemy is figthing you not her. Just remember Job and God bless you pastor Chris and Anita.
Mamake
May 30, 2014 at 4:47 AM
abeg go back to school….ah ahn? ….tueh!!!!
doctor steph
May 29, 2014 at 5:47 PM
dis is alarming, pls man of God try and put ur family inorder.
dikko
May 29, 2014 at 6:35 PM
God help them out!
O Nels
May 29, 2014 at 7:07 PM
Devil at work. Please remember him in ur prayers. sir, try and reconcile with ur wife , remember the vow ” for better for worse” may God bless ur marriage
goodty goodtime
May 29, 2014 at 7:30 PM
a wise woman built her house wth wise wisdom, bt a foolish woman let bad friends 2 influnces her wth bad words n action. De want 2 make u a laughing stock, dey want u 2 be lik dem by jumping 4rm one big mans bed 2 anoda if u will even find luck of a big man. So rev buil n counsel ur house wth wisdom. May God help u
Easy
July 30, 2014 at 9:35 AM
Quoting Scriptures might not be what they need now, BUT your/our prayers.
Experience is the best teacher.You don’t even have the clear (list) picture.
God might even be taking them to another HIGHER-LEVEL and that is what the
enemy is fighting. Lets stand in the GAP for them. Remain in FAITH.
Madam G.
May 29, 2014 at 7:32 PM
Pst Chris,,, may d good Lord give u wisdom to handle ur fmly,, remember ur are a role model to ur flocks ,,, u Pst Chris is d target not Pst Anita, when d foundation is destroyed what can d righteous do? Peace beyond human comprehension shall remain wit u, ur fmly an flocks IJN.
kelly
May 30, 2014 at 9:36 AM
thank for your comment,
The Lord Jesus Christ will restore that Home
faihi
May 29, 2014 at 8:05 PM
Wats happenin?end time is really near,even pastors can’t be role models,i wonder who wud be.##rubbish nd nonsense##
Success
May 29, 2014 at 8:08 PM
Before i say anything on dis issue i need to hear from pastor anita first, dis is d end Time d devil is working tirelessly but pastor d devil is too small for u to control, well i will remember them on prayer, hmmm before anything happened physically it must hve been control spiritually.
Elisha Umaru
May 29, 2014 at 8:16 PM
its nt easy to keep home in a whole life wthout having a dispute but God who gives abundance of grace, will still give you the wisdom for reconciliation. I pray both to be back again in Jesus name.
Echi
May 29, 2014 at 9:22 PM
Do Christ Embassy people believe in d story of Job? Do day even read it? Do day really believe in d cross or Cruxification? I tink day don’t its only d Resurrection. Christ who is our model, mentor and savior commanded us to pick up our cross and follow him. So Pastor Christ, if truly u are u man of God following d footsteps of Christ, get up go takeback ur wife and follow Christ cos 4 now she and her shortcomings if indeed she is wrong are ur cross and u must nt runaway from it.
Jane
May 29, 2014 at 10:35 PM
We pray to God to intervene…no one is infallible…
chinyere
May 29, 2014 at 10:58 PM
Menh! Am really surprised @ all of dis, anyway u cn pray as u want o but I won’t. Dnt judge Anita easily cos u wil neva kw wht d real problem is until u hear her own side of d story. Chaiii… Dea is God oh! Men of God!
iron bar
May 30, 2014 at 1:16 AM
commercialization and celebrity style in christiendom is on the high side and causes a lot of ripples and cracks in marriage and society
Miracle Issac
May 30, 2014 at 1:46 AM
In aINEVERY FAMILY WHERE THE CHILDREN OF GOD WORSHIP GOD IN TRUTH AND HOLINESS THE DEVIL IS NEVER HAPPY AT ALL.
Miracle Issac
May 30, 2014 at 2:09 AM
IN EVERY FAMILY WHERE THERE IS A STRONG CHILDREN OF THE MOST HIGH GOD THE DEVIL NEVER STOP TO RAISE HIS UGLY HEAD IN THEIR MIST. THE SATAN NEVER STOP TO COME TO CHURCHES. HE ALWAYS GOES ABOUT LOOKING FOR GOOD FAMILIES TO PUT CONFUSION IN THEIR MIXST . PASTOR CHRIST REMBER WHEN JESUS WAS IN THE CROSS, HE WAS CRUCIFIED FOR OUR SAKE AND HE NEVER DO ANYTHING TO DESERVED THE PUNISHMENT . AS A CHILD OF THE MOST HIGH GOD I BELIEVE NOTHING WILL SEPARATE BOTH OF YOU FROM THE KINGDOM OF GOD. IS IT TRIALS, TRIBULATIONS AND TEMPTATION . PLEASE REMBER THE BODY OF CHRIST WHICH YOU BELONG TO. THIS IS YOUR OWN WILDERNESS NOW FOR THE SAKE OF GOD PLEASE BOTH OF YOU SHOULD PUT THE DEVIL INTO SHAME. PASTOR ANITA PLEASE APOLOGISE TO YOUR HUSBAND . REMBER YOU ARE A FOREIGNER , BY THE TIME THOSE DEVILISH BAD ADVISERS PUSH YOU OUT NOW THEY WILL GO AHEAD TO MARRY YOUR HUSBAND . NEVER YOU LISTEN TO ANY ONE. THERE IS NO HOME THAT IS PERFECT . THEY WILL GO AHEAD TO DECIVE YOU PLEASE COULD YOU TAKE OFF THE AMOUR OF PRIDE AND BEGGED YOUR HONOURABLE HUSBAND OF WHICH I KNOW GOD MUST TOUCH HIM TO FORGET AND FORGIVE FOR THE SAKE OF THE MAN HE WORSHIP. WOMAN RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND AND OBEY HIM. AS THE CHURCH OBEYS THE LORD. TEMPTATION HAS COME IN-BETWEEN BOTH OF YOU. BE WISE AND PUSH SATAN TO WHERE HE BELONG TO. IN THE NAME OF THE MOST HIGH GOD. FATHER I THANK YOU FOR WHAT I KNOW YOU CAN DO PLEASE RESTORED THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PASTOR CHRIS AND ANITA BY FIRE BY FORCE IN THE NAME OF JESUS. LORD YOU ALONE MUST TAKE YOUR GLORY. I MUST GIVE YOU A THANKS GIVING ON BEHALF OF THIS FAMILY . IF I AM THE ORACLE OF GOD FROM NOW TILL DECEMBER I KNOW YOU MUST TAKE YOUR GLORY TO THE SHAME OF THE DEVIL. WHO SO EVER THAT THE DEVIL IS USING TO PUT CONFUSION IN THEIR FAMILY I STAND AS THE ORACLE OF GOD THIS MORNING THAT BY FIRE BY FORCE LET YOUR KINGDOM RELIEVE FIRE OF THE HOLLY GHOST IN THE NAME OF THE MOST HIGH GOD AMEN.
preciouslyme
May 30, 2014 at 4:54 AM
his statement seems very fishy. Beware of someone who passes blame and doesn’t say what they themselves did wrong. They have lived apart for years and the way I see it, it cant be one sided if she was truly a bad woman she would be the one making him look bad as he is trying to do to her.
A man of God, shouldn’t be so spiteful with his words.
Truth!
May 30, 2014 at 5:27 AM
I have never believe nor acceptd Pst Chris as a man of God. He is more of a celebrity than a servant of God. A man who loves the pattern of the world and encourages it is an antichrist.I am not surprised.
FX2
May 30, 2014 at 11:16 AM
It is well my brethren.
Olabanji Dada
May 31, 2014 at 1:35 PM
I feel so saddened by Pastor Chris’ emotional outburst. I pray the good Lord will heal your marriage. May the enemies of the Cross be silenced. Please make efforts together with your wife to put this trying times behind you. May God keep your home for His name’s sake.
Celestine
May 31, 2014 at 6:04 PM
Wanaooooooooo
Glory
May 31, 2014 at 9:45 PM
God has d best 4 u I pray dat He intervain in ur case in Jesus name AMEN
SAMUEL OWUSU
June 6, 2014 at 4:48 PM
MAY THE LORD HAVE MERCY ON THEM
SAMUEL OWUSU
June 6, 2014 at 4:53 PM
MAY THE GOOD LORD HAVE MERCY ON THEM
Nyakno James
September 25, 2015 at 8:36 PM
Whether good or bad give thanks to God the Bible says so, no body should judge them according to the Bible for God knows better. He is still working for their good. I pray they should soon reconcile. God bless them. Amen.
Kelly
March 9, 2016 at 4:41 AM
Why won’t your wife be bitter and angry when you are not playing your role as a husband and father. How many times do you stay with your wife and spend time with her? Rather you left Nigeria to South Africa. LEARN FROM PASTOR BENNY HIMM HE WAS SMART TO LET GO OF PRIDE AND QUICKLY RECONCILED WITH THE WIFE OF HIS YOUTH. It’s only in Christ embassy I see husband and wife heading different parishes. That is working disorderly