Heartbroken Nigerian Man Narrates How Cheating Wife Left Him After She Became A Nurse

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May 18, 2017 – Heartbroken Nigerian Man Narrates How Cheating Wife Left Him After She Became A Nurse

When I was a boy I never thought I would depend on anyone to survive!
But as I got older in life, I discovered that certain people would be crucial to the journey of your life, sometimes they are helpful to the success of your dreams and sometime they stand as a stumbling block!

Life has taught me that what gives us joy can also make us cry! In fact it is not a shame to cry as a man because there is no shame in tears when it comes to someone we love!
I was carried away by the love shown by my wife: Making love to a woman every day is not a guarantee that she will not cheat on you in a discreet way, as a matter of fact, having children together does not mean she loves you genuinely.

Domestic violence is becoming so rampant in our society! I do not support neither do I appreciate any man battering their wives, however, has anyone thought of the trauma a man go through silently when the woman they love cheat on them secretly without feeling repentant?

I have been married for over a decade and I have never cheated on my wife. I love my wife unconditionally; in fact my wife was my best friend and my reliable confidant.

Our desire and dreams in life sometimes end up giving us pain! I encouraged and supported my wife to become a nurse, which was not any easy journey at all!

After 3 years, my lovely wife graduated and I was happy for a dream come through! Unfortunately my happiness was short-lived 2 months after my wife started working as a nurse!

2 months into my wife new job, she started fraternizing with a colleague and as a result, I lost my wife of many years. I begged my wife and implored my mother-in-law & sister law to plead with my wife to have a change of heart but my wife promised to change nevertheless never stopped and kept calling the guy every passing day.

I am devastated and confused- As a matter of fact I have been diagnosed with depression (which I am not proud to say to anyone)!!!

Every night I prayed to God to change my wife but it seems God never answer!

Maybe God is passing a message to me that it is time to move on (But I sincerely I love my wife)!

God I am still hurting from this betrayal. I love my wife so much and I am not sure if I am going to get her back forever.

God even if I cannot get her back please do not let her greed make her lose heaven.

I love her no matter what but I am not sure if she is willing to change for the better.

[Niyi]

15 thoughts on “Heartbroken Nigerian Man Narrates How Cheating Wife Left Him After She Became A Nurse

  1. An awesome prayer (where you said God even if you can’t get her back please do not let her greed make her lose heaven),that’s exactly where you sounded like a grown man..kindly move on and find another beautiful woman that have fear of God. This is very common story in the US and Canada and not just Nigerian women even Ghanaian women doing that to their men too immediately after they became a Nurse.

  2. move mr man,be strong ..lessons learnt…look beyond the disappointments and victory will locate u.

  3. Sir, your situation is very common in America, once they start making good money you’re unsafe. I am indirectly going through that, for me it is only GOD that I love most. I don’t cheat, whatever you want to do in life always (imaginarily) add the other side to it, so if you fail the severity would have been subdued. I think this is one of the secrets to all of disappointments out there. I can never be short-circuited or surprised, see every situation as 50-50 chance, don’t be overconfident even in arithmetic for small pikin. Finally, the prayer in the end is unnecessary, if she cannot hear human voices(advises) how Can the Holy Ghost lead her to heaven. Sir, on behalf of angered folks, I say to hell with this naive and slutty woman.

  4. Pipul are talk say every story is having two sides. It do me like say this one is having only one side. No need to here wetin the woman go say. She have do bad to this man weyris cry like this. When mens are cry, the sound is not sweet. It be like where cow is cry. But when womens are cry, it sweet. It be like where bird is cry.

  5. Man, love makes a fool of the strongest of human beings so it is no shame to cry for love. Indeed it is when one cannot cry it is more terrible. You know God and although it does not seem so now, you will be ok…. Just hold on and the pain will dull and eventually pass! The Lord is your strength!!!

  6. When I heard that there is so much violent against woman, I often laugh it over, when you beat a woman people will cay loud, but when a woman kill a man, it become result of anger and mistake, God will judge everybody both man and woman, look at this man after helping his wife, she now become a wolf, a lion , tigress, my good friend move ahead and allow nature to reward her, no matter how and what we do in this world, nature is there to repay anybody according to his or dids.
    Sincerely saying, if you go to Cemeteries across the world, and call out all dead men and asked them what brought them there, to be honest, 90% of them will tell you that WOMAN brought them there, majority of women are screat killers, especially this Modern day women, not like our mothers who uses nice and respectful names to their husbands, some call Obi di ya, Mma Di ya,Aku di ye and a lot of other beautiful names that shows whole hearted love and devotion women have on their husband those days, but now, please count it off and be careful, the woman you love today may be your killer tomorrow no matter how you love her and care for her, But in all nature will repay them.

  7. You want to repeat the same mistake Adam made,he foolishly over love Eve which blocked his head from remembering the instruction God gave to him. Let go and move on.

  8. LEVEL HAVE CHANGE, SO JUST MOVE YOURSELF TO YOUR OWN LEVEL. BECAUSE LOVE IS BUSINESS

    YOU TOO SHOULD GO AND CHANGE YOUR LEVEL SO THAT YOU MEET UP TO THE STANDARD. THE ONLY ACHIEVEMENT IS WHAT YOU ARE YOURSELF .

    NO ONE IS READY TO LIVE THEIR DESTINY FOR YOU , IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU CAN NOT MEET SOMEONE ELSE .

    SHE IS NOT READY WITH SOMEONE WHO THE POCKET IS EMPTY AND NOT TO SUFFER WITH YOU . SO JUST MOVE ON .

  9. you just have to move your mind from the past and focus for 2moro,i know it not an easy task but try

  10. My man what you are going through is very common here in America with Nigerian or should I say African women nurses. From what I have seen from California to New Jersey is common occurrence and some of the women mix it with bitter insults. When you hear of domestic violence in America that leads to sometimes homicide it is because of this. Whole blame should not go to women alone. Some men are too lazy that their hope of marrying a nurse is to make them their cash cows. The ugly truth is that nurses don’t make that much without overtime. In your own case from my understanding from your cries, your wife is not only insulting you but having extra marital affairs right in your presence. This shows she did not start having sex with this guy recently but this has been going on way before no one knows. She only brought it to for front now she is a nurse knowing fully well that if you chase her out of your house, she has the money to move on. She don’r listen to her mom or sister. Let her go. God will bring your soul mate who will love you no matter what. And to your wife, that will only use her for her money and sex, not serious relationship.

  11. You have narrated your own side of the story. Hope your madam will do same. There are two sides to a coin.

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