Note: This article applies to both married and unmarried women
While it’s never an easy task to keep a cheater from cheating however, preventative actions may help. To certain degree, men are as faithful as the options available to them. Below are some really cool steps that will help in preventing him from cheating
Give Him More Pleasure
I recommend you read How To Pleasure Your man to learn the best way to give him the best. Giving your man good sex is not the only thing, make sure you show him some love too. If you show him care and love, trust me he will look forward to coming home everytime. Finally, f a man knows he can get it better at home he won’t be so anxious to find it somewhere else
Make Sure You Know His Friends
There is no man in a relationship that really has any business out on his own. If he goes anywhere, he is sure going with his friends. Now if his friends know that you are the business, they will make sure he doesn’t make any mistakes.
Watch out for the ex-girlfriends. Hooking up with an ex doesn’t feel like cheating to a lot of guys especially if they have children together and your relationship with that person is new. You probably won’t win over the ex-girlfriend like you can with the friends, but you can talk to your man and find out his feelings on her.
Let Your Man Know The Consequences of Cheating
Men are tender-hearted, if you know the best way to approach them, they are the easiest to deal with. Now in order to let him know the consequences, you don’t have to be hard on him.
Note: Please Don’t say: “You better not cheat on me or I will burn your momma’s house down, blow you up on Twitter and slash your tires!”
You Can say: “Just to let you know, I’d be really hurt if I found out that you cheated on me and I’d never be able to commit to repairing what we have together if that happened.” (WARNING: Only bring this up in a conversation about cheating please don’t come to your man with this out of the blue)
Let Him Know How Special He is
When a man feel appreciated by his woman, his chances of cheating will be reduced. Remember cheating is not always about sex for men, it’s mostly about ego. That’s why good looking guys with good looking girlfriends cheat on them with ugly women. Even the smallest and most insignificant ego boost is satisfying for us. So stroke his ego when you can, and expect some stroking in return.
Some African women who kneel down to greet their husband knows the importance of making a man feel special. While this is unpopular in western culture, in Africa, it is a sign of respect.
Take Interest in Your Man’s Life
You need to take interest in your man’s life by occasionally calling him to find out how he is doing.
Note: You don’t have to overdo this because men appreciates their privacy sometimes.
When you call, do say how are you doing honey, I am checking to see how you are doing, how is your day going. Love you.
You can also use the scenario below to show your interest
You: Darling what are you and your boys doing tonight?”
Your Man: We are going to watch the game
You: oh really, I will be watching the Lifetime channel all night. I can not wait.
THE NEXT DAY
You: Hey did you have fun watching the game?
Your Man: Yes
You: That’s great
Remember at the end it all, a cheater will probably cheat. By applying the above tips, his chances of cheating might be reduced and who knows this may bring you closer than ever.