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How Can I Make My Boyfriend Commit To Marriage, I Love Him Too Much To Let Him Go
Feb 27, 2018 – How Can I Make My Boyfriend Commit To Marriage, I Love Him Too Much To Let Him Go – Desperate Lady Cries Out
By Gold MyneTV
I need some serious advice on how to make a man fall in love with me.
I am in a relationship with a guy and we have been together for only six months.
When we met, we agreed that it was a fling, he categorically told me he wasn’t interested in a serious relationship but only a casual dating and stuff. I agreed and we have been together since then.
He is nice when we are together, he takes me out, sometimes gives me money, he has a huge house and two big cars… Initially, I stuck by the rules, reminding myself daily that it was a casual thing.
I however told him to let me know when we both need to move on, he said we wouldn’t need to spell it out like kids.
The truth is I don’t want the relationship to end. I want us to be the real deal, I think I have fallen in love with him.
My friend thinks it’s because of his material wealth, but I know I love him. Recently I even slipped after a phone conversation and told him I loved him… He pretended not to hear and even though it was a slip, I felt bad when he let it slide without acknowledging.
Now, I notice he has changed, firstly he stopped calling me about ten times a day, now he doesn’t even call for days… I am afraid the relationship is already going to an end and I am scared. I love him…
Is it OK if I tell him how I feel. I don’t know if he has a serious relationship with another lady but I really do want to be his ‘serious’
Ladies, would you make a move and tell him?
Guys how would you take it if a lady told you she is in love with you…?
Please help a lady in distress!
Trichy
February 27, 2018 at 3:59 PM
U can’t really do anything, love can’t be bought it has to be natural.
You’d better break up now and find a guy who will love u
Lola O
February 27, 2018 at 4:40 PM
He’s obviously a Casanova who dates women for a while, treats them nice and moves on. He told you from the outset he just wanted a fling so you fell in love at your own risk. Unless a man truly wants to commit to a long lasting relationship like marriage, six months is too short for you to start suggesting marriage. That by itself scares a man to distance himself from you. If you are desperate to want marriage, end the relationship and find someone else before you develop a nervous breakdown. If he was living in a rental room with and riding Okada, would you have fallen in love so soon? There are still some very smart men out there. There’s nothing like love made in heaven. We all met in this world and shall separate here on earth. Marriage is not meant for everyone. He’s not likely to change. Don’t deceive yourself.
uzoma
February 27, 2018 at 6:22 PM
He thinks you fell for him because of his material wealth. Have you spent time to find out what he does like his job if he has his own business or where he works? How did he come into his wealth? If he was a junior staff who could not afford to give you expensive gifts, takes you out to eat at expensive places would you have even accepted him just for a fling? This guy knows what he is doing. He might or might not own the “Big House” that you fell in love with. Maybe he have a brother overseas who sent him money to build the house you fell in love with. He is just using his “wealth” to screw any woman he wants. Anyway, 6 moths is a short time to study each other before thinking of commitment.
flavour
February 28, 2018 at 9:53 AM
I think you dont really know this guy too well BUT likes what he brings to the table?
You never asked or cared to know from the beginning if he had a serious date or even married (family might even be in another country).
Please, Move on with your life and pretend this relationship never existed.
ebuka
February 28, 2018 at 10:23 AM
you dont beg a man for love. if he loves you he will marry you but if he doesn’t you dont force him against his wish. so there is nothing you can do than to commit it into God’s hands so that he can have his way.
Jilo
February 28, 2018 at 8:39 PM
Just because you found a little comfort while you are dating each other does not mean everything is perfect about this dude. Both of you agreed from onset that there is no serious relationship and along line, you want to change the game no way!
If that word doesn’t come out of his mouth, please, be ready to move on. The relationship is not going to work out if you go ahead and proclaim your love for him. At times love doesn’t has all those qualities that guy possessed. Best advise move on.