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Man Accuses Wife Of Committing Adultery For Refusing To Use Vibrator
Man Accuses Wife Of Committing Adultery For Refusing To Use Vibrator He Bought For Her While Travelling Abroad
By PM Express
A woman and her husband simply identified as Okwy (surname withheld) engaged in a fight over ‘unused sex vibrator’. The incident happened at Idimu area of Lagos where they resided before the husband, Okwy travelled abroad and left her with their three children. He reportedly bought a sex vibrator for his wife, Nonye while he was traveling abroad for greener pastures.
According to P.M Express, Okwy ended up spending five years abroad and when he returned he met the vibrator still intact in the pack just the way he bought it as his wife refused to use it for those years. He became angry and accused the wife of having committed adultery while he was away.
It was gathered that the wife explained to him that she did not use the vibrator to satisfy her sexual urge because she was afraid to use it and so she decided to abstain until he came back. However, the husband did not believe her and has threatened to sack her saying that she must have slept with other men when he was not around.
It was gathered that the man stopped eating her food, sleeping with her and insisted that he will not have anything to do with her until she confessed what she had purportedly done and certain rituals performed.
The matter became open when the wife could not bear her husband’s attitude. She decided to confide in his close friends in order to intervene and resolve the matter but to no avail. It was gathered that when the wife tabled the matter before his close friends, the man still refused insisting that he will not have any conjugal relationship with her until she confessed and certain rituals were performed in line with their culture and tradition in Enugu State.
It was gathered that it was the general belief in their community that when a man marries a wife and she slept with another man, that it was a sure way for a woman to kill her husband. That was what the man was said to be avoiding but the wife insisted that she did not sleep with any man throughout the years the husband was away but the husband refused to believe her.
It appeared that the matter will not be resolved so soon as the man had insisted on confession and sacrifice but the woman maintained that there was no need for that because she did not sleep with any man when her husband travelled abroad.
Sote
April 4, 2018 at 2:27 PM
which crazy ass man is this. I pity dis woman
uzoma
April 4, 2018 at 5:17 PM
It is possible the wife did not sleep with any man. I believe the wife when she says she did not sleep with another man for the period her husband was away. This is because both of them coming from the same place, she knows the consequence for committing adultery. The husband should believe her. There should be trust in marriage.
DB
April 4, 2018 at 8:57 PM
The man is behaving like that because he was the one comittong adultery where he went and only wants to accuse the woman so as to feel like the man. The woman should not follow him to do any sacrifice as it may be a ploy to harm her. The man is up to some mischief. I wish she could read between the lines
Mon
April 5, 2018 at 4:06 AM
So many things can be behind this man’s attitude and he is not only stupid,but totally afraid. He must have been dating a married woman while abroad or his close friend was doing that.
Again,his native doctor in form of pastor must have used his wife as a bait in the concussion/charm he obtained before traveling outside, meaning the native doctor told him not to allow any other man cross his wife (why would he purchased three vibrators for his wife) and lastly, he maybe looking for a reason to send that woman out because he must have found another lover who gave him such condition to terminate his marriage first.
Jilo
April 5, 2018 at 3:41 PM
There are some certain questions that man needs not to ask in relationship because it can be so calamitous and dreadful.
Nelson Mandela spent nearly 30 years in prison and after coming out of this horrible situation, do you think it will be necessary to be asking his wife whether she had slept with other men?. What I’m saying in essence is, if you dig too much to some certain situation, you will end up having an heartbreaking. Why can’t we just learn on how to ignore some certain things and put the past behind.
Mr. Man, you left your wife for 5 good years, I understand you are trying to provide for your family but we are all human and at some point we may need some relief. I’m not accusing you or your wife of any wrong doing but a man must learn how to be a man. If you are suspecting her you may set a bait for her but that is not necessary now.
You have no evidence against this woman and she also has right to be suspicious of you. Just bury the hatchet and move on. Trust me, there’s no saint in any relationship. We all tolerating each another.