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Man Who Got Side Chick Pregnant In Dilemma As He Plans To Propose To Girlfriend On Birthday
Man Who Got His Side Chick Pregnant In Dilemma As He Plans To Propose To Girlfriend On Birthday
By Gold Myne
My name is Joseph, I am a very successful banker. I wasn’t really a fan of the banking job but the Nigerian economy gave me no choice. In fact I am the boss of my department.
This issue started when Anna arrived for her Industrial Placement in my department.
I didn’t like her initially but I could see that she liked me.She was always trying very hard to please me and it annoyed me. In fact, on more than two occasions, I cautioned her to stop buying me lunch.
Give it to Anna, she could be persistent. She didn’t stop, and somehow, I began to like her. I had a serious relationship but I felt I could manage my office fling and my real life.
Anna turned out to be more than I bargained for. She was sweet and all that, she didn’t even make it known in the office that we were an item. Her maturity was top notch.
Until she got pregnant.She told me when she was twelve weeks. I was momentarily brainless as I could not think of anything to say.
When I finally gathered my wits, I called her and begged her to get an abortion, she told me it was too late and she was scared.
I have been begging for a week to no avail. She is adamant.
I can not marry her.She knew I had a serious altar-bound relationship with Iyanu my girlfriend of four years and she didn’t mind.
What I don’t get is why she is trying to do this to me.
My dilemma is this, she has refused an abortion; fine. I will not marry her, she knows.
My girlfriend’s birthday comes up in two weeks, I intend to propose to her… Do I tell her about my pregnant side chic or keep it a secret?
What if someone tells her?
Please don’t advice me to marry Anna. I won’t. I love Iyanu, I only strayed.
Chioma Beauty
October 9, 2018 at 2:56 PM
Don’t propose to her yet because she will reject your dumb ass. You are such a dumb man
Why will you do that?.
You don’t deserve to have her. Concentrate on your side chick for now
Joyful Amaka
October 9, 2018 at 6:43 PM
u are a fool you don’t deserve a decent girl
Lola Adegbola
October 9, 2018 at 7:56 PM
I agree with the other commentators. You are a bloody fool
Anike
October 10, 2018 at 7:31 AM
You strayed? You should stray into marriage with Anna and leave Iyanu alone, you don’t deserve herbecause you will stray again if you marry her and break her heart. This is what happens to a man who has no self control. I think you should just marry Anna.
MADAM ERANKOO
October 10, 2018 at 4:23 PM
YOU DO NOT NEED TO MARRY HER , SHE THANKS YOU FOR BEING A SPERM DONOR. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED TO YOUR FIANCEE.
HAVE YOU FORGOTING HOW SHE OFFER YOU CONDOMISM AND YOU SAY TO HER THAT YOU WANTED IT RAW. SO DEAL WITH IT ,
THIS LADY HAVE A GOOD JOB TO CARE FOR HER BABY. THANK YOU FOR BEING A SPERM DONOR, HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Kooldame
October 11, 2018 at 5:03 AM
You have to reveal d secret to her,but not on her birthday. It is left for her to forgive you or not.If she decides to let you go.Then you have no choice than marrying your Anna.Truly speaking you have really messed up!Good luck.
Rukky jenny
January 18, 2023 at 8:32 PM
This was exactly the situation I found myself right now this is how my story goes I have been dating my boyfriend four years now both of us has been struggling to have a better future am always supportive to him until last year I got pregnant for him which he was happy on the announcement of it we both we staying together I give birth November I lost my baby on coming home I started hearing that my boyfriend pregnant another girl two months after I was pregnant he gave the girl money to abort the baby the girl ran and hide that she loves my boyfriend ask him he told me it truth I cried so many times I felt betrayed and stab the girl gave birth this January I just forgive him and let out my bitterness the thing is that sometimes pregnancy can’t really make a man to marry a girl he should tell his girlfriend if the girlfriend loves him enough to continue it fine but as for the man make a change and learn to have self control what kills men it not more than this