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My Boyfriend Wanted Sex And I Gave Him! Will God Ever Forgive Me?

will God ever forgive me

Dear Mummy Temilolu,

I’m 15, my boyfriend wanted sex and I gave him! Will God ever forgive me?


My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

Girls…girls…girls…why in the world would anyone go looking for trouble- trouble that will practically swallow her up and divert the course of her destiny? Why on earth are you so much in a hurry? Do you think having sexual intercourse is like telling a lie or cheating in an examination? When I saw the message above, I was too weak to answer this confused girl. What’s going to befall her UNLESS GOD MERCIFULLY INTERVENES has been resonating in my spirit since I got her text on Monday! Of course God is going to forgive her but what about the demonic invasion she’s opened up her life to? Yes, demonic invasion! Does she have the much-needed spiritual power to overcome what her life is now open to? Is she in the right spiritual environment? Are her parents all over her spiritually? Have they laid a solid foundation for her spiritually? I doubt o! There are less than 15-year-old girls who are sexually-abused and raped, however my little madam succumbed with her eyes opened-out of love, uncontrollable infatuation, unguarded movements, inadequate mentoring, spiritual dullness. I could go on and on!

I keep telling you girls to nip your crushes and infatuation in the bud before it grows wild and makes you do the wrong things! When your passion for a guy grows in your teens, you end up sucking up to him with all your energy and being- with so much gusto! It’s just like selling your soul to the devil; he then begins to control your life. This is what has happened to this girl. Now, who knows what spirits have been transferred from this boy to this girl? Who knows the ill-luck he may be carrying, ancestral curses and evil baggage already programmed into his future?Haa…haa…girls…girls… What about the spirit of lust that her life is already exposed to? Would she be able to control her body and emotions when he dumps her and she gets heart-broken? What would become of her when she gets into the higher institution- a citadel of knowledge as well as high immorality, vices and unbridled sex where her parents can’t keep an eye on her? I know of a girl who had slept with 23 men by the time she was 17 and this was how she started!

A lot of you are innocent but unfortunately unprepared spiritually and otherwise for a terribly depraved world as this. I imagine this girl would be pressured into using contraceptives so soon so as not to get pregnant! Haa… at what age? Her body begins to change, she begins to get worried, her face begins to get infested with pimples, she begins to suffer physically, emotionally and psychologically when she should be enjoying and exploring the best of life? When she should be concentrating on acquiring fantastic grades to study her childhood dream course which is likely to be what God has deposited in her heart and designed to make her shine in the world she begins to cry everyday when her boyfriend begins to misbehave then her grades begin to fall. She begins to fall out of the path of her glorious destiny! Haa…!

Girls, stupid, bad devil is so smart and knows once he can get you to engage in premarital sex so soon, he practically takes over your soul, and your entire life except God intervenes! And for God to intervene, you really have to be determined, you need to be in a completely holy environment with serious spiritual backing and coverage, you need to get submerged in the Word of God and have your spirit ignited to flush out every satanic stronghold! Not a day’s job, neither a month! The devil is very stubborn but you need to arise against it in holy madness and while at it, it would do things that’ll make you wish you were never born! But you will eventually conquer it if you can concentrate and fight with all your might! THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS MATTER! How I wish this girl didn’t even set foot into this situation. I feel so bad! May God intervene in your lives and take over your souls in Jesus mighty name!



  1. Judith Omogbon

    September 2, 2018 at 1:42 AM

    It is common with teenagers. It is only God that can touch their heart

  2. iron bar

    September 2, 2018 at 2:15 AM

    Era of exploration,i want it now syndrome. call it societal decay

  3. Mrs. KD

    September 5, 2018 at 5:02 PM

    As long as you enjoy it. Use condom next time

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