Connect with us – Proudly Nigerian DIY Motivation & Information Blog

Hot Gists

I’m Concerned My Daughter Is Dating A Nigerian Man From Lagos, She Has Lost Her Identity – White Woman Cries Out

daughter dating nigerian man

By Lucy Molina

I’m Concerned My Daughter Is Dating A Nigerian Man From Lagos, She Has Lost Her Identity – White Woman Cries Out

I am so concerned about my daughter that is in a relationship with a man from Lagos Nigeria. I have done my own investigation including but not limited to speaking to a lady in Lagos claiming to be his wife.

I have ICE agent and FBI looking into this, now they have a baby together and he tried his best to keep me away from the baby, also tried to change baby’s name on hospital papers twice.

He shows signs of being a Narcissist, my daughter is totally blinded by this man, my family is a very united one. This is my daughters first baby, and although he states this is his first, he acts like he has other children. How can I verify marriage in Nigeria is this public records?.

The family is very concerned that he will be using the baby as a ticket to obtain US citizenship and he is now to be seen by a migration Judge this summer.

Please contact me with resources that can help me uncover this man’s mask. All that I have tried to verify comes back unverifiable. We are praying that this Judge does what it takes to really investigate this man.

He is here under the pretense of being a Bishop , he also officiated his own marriage ceremony with my daughter, and I am sure has no credentials to marry, as I asked my daughter if he produced any credentials to her and has seen any credentials.

Please help me….my daughter has lost her identity she is not the same any longer.

Concerned Mother, Lucy Molina writes from the United States.

Follow on Facebook and Twitter.



  1. Gabriel Adebowale

    March 8, 2019 at 6:48 PM

    Woman you should like a bloody racist. That is why you are having issue with a Nigerian.
    U should be happy she is a dating a Nigerian.
    Go and cool down and support your daughter
    Racism will kill you with heart attack if u continue like dis

  2. Princess Kehinde Aderemi

    March 8, 2019 at 7:10 PM

    I believe the woman is a racist. That you don’t like blacks is written all over your message.
    Sorry no one will advise you here. Go and sleep at FBI office If u want an answer

  3. Bintu

    March 8, 2019 at 7:15 PM

    Mothers like you are the reason why daughter abandon their families.
    Please try and be there for her instead of wasting your time criticizing her man.
    Nigerians are humans too, they are not animal.
    Show some love woman.
    You sound like those racist Christian evangelicals who live in the country side. I know you people.
    Stop this silly racism.

  4. Nikky

    March 8, 2019 at 7:40 PM

    Stupid woman… Is your daughter Jeff Bezos’ or Bill Gates’ daughter?
    Or is she under aged or mentally disabled?
    Why did you write such an insulting, racist letter to a Nigerian social media platform, you disgusting piece of shit? You think we will support your racist behavior, you dingbat? Because your daughter is American? Is America the Paradise God promised us?
    You should be happy a Nigerian man found your reject of a daughter worthy to have a baby with.
    Onyeara! Wereycious woman.
    Go and ask a Nigerian what those last three words above mean and thank me later!

  5. Amanda

    March 8, 2019 at 7:54 PM

    Get off your high horse woman and accept the fact that your daughter is in a relationship with Nigerian.

    Your statements reek rascism was probably the reason your daughter dumped you. The moment you see other race as less than human is the beginning of your sleeplessness. Sorry woman, you are now a member of Nigerian family.

  6. Jayde Ibrahim

    March 8, 2019 at 7:57 PM

    Racist woman, you missed road for asking Nigerians this foolish hate filled question

  7. Fifelomo

    March 8, 2019 at 9:46 PM

    One chance madam…your first is long gone. Woman we are equal before God! Stop discriminating!

  8. Jacob Flow

    March 8, 2019 at 11:08 PM

    Let me start by saying you a pure racist, your problem is that ur daughter is getting married to a black man and a Nigerian, For ur information, Donald Trump daughter is currently dating a Nigerian and has been to the white house….To hell with ur American Citizenship, Americans are slave in their own country, I work as a Law Enforcement Officer here in the US and I see Americans go to jails daily like the go grocery shopping. You should count urself lucky that she is married to a Nigerian…How man marriages in America leads to Divorce…Americans has the highest number if divorce in the world….Your daughter is not complaining why are you taking medication for your daughter’s pain…The baby his for him before the baby is for you…Why involving the ICE and FBI, that man his not a terrorist and has not kidnapped ur daughter. That really shows are ignorant you are…You are one of those mother in law folks pray against……Go to Hell with ur racist self…..Come to Nigeria to find out public information…

  9. iron bar

    March 9, 2019 at 2:40 AM

    cry me a river..she wanted to break that jinx to marry a as much as u sound worried,am yet to believe your story .how could a bishop officiate his own marriage and why will your daughter stay away from shows u have no connection with her as u claimed.Good family should possess good principles,by loving your neighbors as your self.u lack the virtues need in parenting hence the outcome.

  10. Danti

    March 9, 2019 at 5:48 PM

    I don’t know when Nigerians will stop all this nonsense, so with all her concerns nobody thinks she is right to talk as a mother? Everyone that called this woman a racist lacks basic understanding to say the least. Since we don’t have such public records to check, our Yoruba parents would consult Ifa oracle or Imam or a pastor to see the situation their son or daughter is getting into. Most of African parents do not want their children to marry White folks too, so are they racists ? Modernity, social media and the media have successfully bastardized the meaning of racism. Every danbo nama that have posted comments here needs to grow up, every race on this planet is racist.

    • Anjy B

      March 9, 2019 at 6:40 PM

      Well said @Danti. I’ve seen loads of white people being married to our men and being jinxed by these men. This woman is justified if she is seeing some things of concern.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

More in Hot Gists




To Top