“Nigerian Men! Stop Killing Ur Wives In America, Marry Your Age Mate” – US-Based Nurse

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March 29, 2014 – “Nigerian Men! Stop Killing Your Wives In America, Marry Your Age Mate” – US-Based Nurse

It’s a huge shame to see how our Nigerian men are killing their wives in the United states nowadays. I can only point on Two major factors responsible for this madness: One is the age bracket, Two is quest of materialism:

Age: When you marry a girl who is young enough to call you grand pa, what do you expect? she has to enjoy life as her age permits, because you have lived yours and retired. Her kind of music, fashion, friends, ways of talking, sex etc. are different from yours. This gap leads to jealousy and hatred on your own side.

Quest of materialism: why developing another person when you have not developed yourself? If you love nurse’s paycheck-go do nursing program before getting married or together with your wife. Why spending your time watching TV and gossiping instead of investing it gainfully. While your wife is burning day and night developing herself in nursing school, there are many other things you can do?

By the time she graduates, her problem starts: you force her to be working double shifts at her job place, You practically turn your own wife into ATM machine, You begin to use her hard earned money to be giving donations in parties. Any day she complains, the world will hear it. Nigerian men, what have you seen in Nurses’ pockets?

You have never been to Nigeria in twenty years, you have no block of your own in Nigeria. When you marry a nurse, you remember to get an architectural design to build “a befitting house of a Nigerian man based in the U.S” in your village, this is when you want to buy a big mansion in your city and drive big SUVs – to compete with your friends.

My fellow Nigerians, please, stop this killings . Marry a spouse who belongs to your age bracket, and learn to live simple. Stop putting your children into this perpetual bitterness/agony. They never caused this greed of yours!

My last advice, if you kill in this country (USA), justice will surely come after you, and you will also become a history like the spouse you killed, be warned!!!!

[Article by Ms J, a US-based nurse]

22 thoughts on ““Nigerian Men! Stop Killing Ur Wives In America, Marry Your Age Mate” – US-Based Nurse

  1. Anyone that kills will be killed. I am beginning to ponder on why these people want to marry nurses at all cost. Na by force? Even in Nigeria, U see them running after them like flies run after rotten food. Nurses should wake up and think. All these should be an eye opener for you all. Don’t throw yourself at just any man that comes your way. I will be comfortable if the man is richer than you. They are all parasites…claiming they love you, but in d real sense of it, its your pocket they love. Wise up Nurses….men are after ur lives! They want to enslave you and make you miserable, while they want to enjoy life at ur own expense.

  2. Why can’t these men improve themselves too, most of them have been in the US for years even before they went home to marry their wives. It is true they encourage their wives and support them to do nursing, expecting them to do their bids when they start working. The society is different, apart from that as human beings God has given us free will. Why not encourage andf improve yourself as the bread winner instead of putting pressure on your wife because you sent her to school. In Nigeria husbands send their wives to school but never put pressure on them financially.or turn them to ATM machine. Same thing is happening to my friend too because she is a nurse, her husband has been over there years before he came home to marry her, up till now he has not improved himself educationally or business wise, yet his family are giving him pressure to come and build only God knows how many storey building in Nigeria. the wife works day and night over there paying mortgages and bills and maintaining their children. It is bad.

  3. Some if these men are lazy, they don’t want to improve themselves once they get over there they continue doing odd jobs and expect their wives to become their ATM machine. What kind of love would want to enslave you. Love ko love ni. Is it by force.

  4. Nice writeup….. Pls, can anybody overthere connect me with a football club. Am a talent… Thank you!

  5. your write up is pointless,why didn’t you talk about those that married their age group and wife still frustrating him?let call a spade a spade.i pity those Nigerian men that went to married instead of America,they even sent them to school,now they were driving around with small guys and frustrating their husband…this your write up shows that that’s how u re treating your husband..

    • Your write up shows you are one of those lazy men who expect a woman to cater for him or maybe you do not live abroad to know how lazy men flock after women who are nurses.A man who decides to sit on his backside and allow his wife to improve herself without thinking about how he can better himself does not deserve any respect.

    • You are on the Point. If you come over with lotter ViSA, you will never understand how hard it has been for the men. For him to struggle to get her over here and She ran away is heart- broken. When “you guys bring over here we teach them how to talk the talk and work the work”. it is all about jealousy on the part of the natives here. They will constantly coach the Nigerian women to turn bad. Not all men are alike. I walked away and became a nurse myself. You will only understand if you have suffered and endured lots of hardships. I will never again marry a Nigerian woman period.

      Peter Chukwuocha RN BSN.

  6. This is a deceit of a woman who don’t want the world to know the truth.

    The truth is that when a Nigerian man come to his village and pick a young girl that has no future b/4 their meeting, when the man take the girls to America and spend his money training here. After her training and she starts to work and earn big money , then her family that never had any good thought for her will come up and start claiming right over her earning. Decieving her that she will face their family need as the daughter of the family , even giving her names like Eze-Nwanyi. Then when she can’t cooperate with her husband to build a family as the husband had in mind while spending his money to train here, this will become a problem that leds to anything. Who will spend money to train his wife only for her family to come up and start claiming write over her earning, even seeing the man as a parasite.

    • That is the point the writer is trying to make. As a man, why not study for your nursing qualification ? Don’t your think it is another form of slavery for a man to pluck a girl from the village to the US for the sole purpose of turning her into a cash cow whose only purposes is to will fulfil his dreams of living big. Here is the lesson. Men sponsor yourself through nursing training instead investing on another man’s daughter.

  7. Why would a 25 years old marry a 70 year old man if she is not gready . I wonder if d person who write this article think about it d other way round. Let young ladies stay with thier young boyfriends/fiance and stop looking for ready made old men .

  8. I’m afraid kazzy has a point. I know some who suffered to bring their wives to America or UK. Sponsored them in School. Once the wife graduates and starts to earn a good salary’ the man now becomes a nonentity. I not saying that all nurses are the same. The soution to this? A man should make sure he has a well paid salary before bringing a woman from Africa.

  9. what about the young girl who agrees to marry a grandpa beause he lives in AMERICA….. where are her family, didint they all agree for her to marry him, a man who is old and left for america years ago, and is seeking for a young girl at this time of his life to marry, doesn’t that ring a suspisious bell….. these are questions that needs to be looked into and addressed…. this man is retired and old…. obviously he must have being married with children and divorced, why wasn’t this investigated. when a man reaches a certain age without a wife, it is scary… there are so many of them like that in AMERICA… a lot of them are so angry and wife- beaters, especially when she has just arrived and her papers aren’t quite ready, the men really take advantage , these men don’t work… all they do is to gossip and spread terrible rumours about others, they destroy your reputation and relationship…..loads of them…..my dear in this life it is good to be independent and not to depend on anyone and find yourself at a vunerable state, were you succumb to all sorts of mental, physical and emotional abuse….so many cases like this in america.

  10. ANOTHER REASON THE HUSBANDS ENCOURAGE THEIR WIVES TO GO INTO NURSING IS BECAUSE EVERYWHERE IN THE WORLD THE MEDICAL FIELD IS A HOT CAKE AND A RESPECTABLE PROFESSION…. WHEN YOU ARE A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL THERE IS ALWAYS A GOOD JOB FOR YOU…IT IS LUCRATIVE….

  11. I dont agree with the. Narrative above
    A man wont suffer in america for to not only
    Support a woman back home and bring to
    America.even pay for her nursing school.send
    Money to inlaws back home
    The man bought his ho me out of his own
    Sweat before the woman even come.then after
    The woman comes
    She. Changes her. Thinking.since she is now
    An RN making good money.she forgets the hand
    That had fed her and start. Disrepecting him
    Even calling police on him.the ma n is thrown
    In jail.some times these women start screwing
    With younger men in th side.the court seizes
    The mans house and give to the woman.
    This is s poor girl ftom a poor family
    Without the man she wont had afford to camto ametica
    On her own
    The mans life is totally ruined
    Love knows no age.if the you girl. Did love the
    Man she wou ldnt had accepted
    The solution should be that the pay back all
    That the man had spent on her and her family
    But that’s not american way

  12. THIS IS RUBBISH WRITE UP. HE WHO WANTS TO REJECT SATAN SHOULD REJECT ALL HIS GLORY.WORKS AND POMPS. IF YOU WANT TO REJECT A MAN REJECT HIM WHEN HE CAME TO NIGERIA LOOKING FOR YOU. TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED AND DONT WANT TO COME TO AMERICA AND MAKE MONEY FOR HIM. DONT TRY TO DECEIVE HIM TO BRING YOU TO AMERICA SO THAT YOU WILL DUMP HIM AND HELP YOUR PARENTS. YOU CAN NOT EAT MONEY FROM THE DEVIL AND DUMP HIM AND RUN AWAY. THIS IS THE PROBLEM MEMBERS OF SECRET CULT IN NIGERIA HAVE WHEN THEY EARN MONEY FROM THEY THE DEVIL AND NOW WANTS TO LEAVE THE CULT AND ENJOY THE MONEY WITHOUT OFFERING THE REQUIRED SACRIFICE. THEY END UP DEAD OR LOSING ALL THE MONEY THE DEVIL GAVE THEM EVEN WHEN THEY MANAGE TO BE ALIVE. THE SAME APPLIES TO ANY WOMAN WHO WANTS TOP MARRY A MAN WITH THE PLAN OF DUMPING HIM AFTERWARDS WHEN SHE REACHES AMERICA. REMEMBER MANY HAS BEEN KILLED AND MORE WILL STILL FOLLOW IF THE ATTITUDE DID NOT CHANGE.

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