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Pastor Adeboye’s Message To Singles On Choosing A Life Partner

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August 22, 2012 – Pastor Adeboye’s Message To Singles On Choosing A Life Partner

It has become a norm in the Christian community today for singles to seek their Pastor’s guidance before choosing their partners.

There is no offence in seeking spiritual guidance when it comes to choosing the person you want to spend the rest of your life however, if care is not taken going this route only may lead to disaster in the future.

Read a message below from highly respected man of God, Pastor E.A Adeboye.

Pastor Adeboye’s Message To Singles On Marriage

Those of you who go to your pastor to pray for you and tell you who to marry, if care is not taken, you will become a victim of lies. You are simply lazy. No pastor or prophet should tell you who to marry.

They are to pray along with you, counsel and guide you using the Word of God. If you fail to pay the price to hear from God on that matter, you may be deceived.

God can use your pastor or a genuine prophet of God to confirm what He had already told you. Many homes have been established on falsehood and that is why things are falling apart and the center can no longer hold. Some pastors are seriously into match-making.

They have taken over from the Holy Spirit. Match-making remains God’s prerogative and He has not delegated it to any pastor.

And in case you don’t know, God removed his hand from matchmaking after Adam told him “It was the woman you gave to me that gave me of the fruit and I did eat”.

Excellent advice!



  1. Shekina

    August 22, 2012 at 8:43 PM

    Ilove this pastor……………pls tell them what they ought to know

  2. kelvin

    August 23, 2012 at 4:38 AM

    True talk Pastor.

  3. Phlakes

    August 23, 2012 at 5:47 AM

    I dont know whom to believe

  4. onijosh

    August 23, 2012 at 6:07 AM

    A word is sufficient 4 d wise, tanx daddy

  5. Danjuma munyonga

    August 23, 2012 at 7:10 AM

    Pls pastor, haven charged us to be careful, what then can we do in order not to fall in decietful hands?

  6. Emeka

    August 23, 2012 at 7:38 AM

    Pastor, i really really love that message please keep on telling them because youth’s of nowaday are falling the victim of this

  7. george

    August 23, 2012 at 12:55 PM

    well noted.

  8. Pricelex joy

    August 23, 2012 at 1:10 PM

    Tru word pastor,u ar very correct.

  9. isioma

    August 23, 2012 at 2:12 PM

    thank you pastor for the advice, you are truly the mouth piece of God.

  10. Blessing

    August 23, 2012 at 6:16 PM

    Tell them they need to know this true world

  11. Owoebuk Blessing

    August 23, 2012 at 7:28 PM

    Tank u sir

  12. mankind

    August 24, 2012 at 12:07 AM

    The message will help youth to have a common understanding of God word,,,,Thank you daddy

  13. POPO

    August 24, 2012 at 5:46 AM

    Am a l.d.s all wht u said is true.xpecially nt ur pastor wl choose 4 u.we all’re given d indipendence of chosing.either good or is a matter of choice we makes or impact into our own world.plz single a proclaimmation 2 d world.(C.T.R)Choose The Right.

  14. Cosmos Shilgba

    August 24, 2012 at 7:51 AM

    Daddy i thank u for word u av giving us may d lord almighty heaven God shld give u more power to guid ur children.

  15. Kate

    August 24, 2012 at 8:52 AM

    God bless u jare my lovely daddie,tru talk!

  16. Jane Aguoru

    August 24, 2012 at 10:16 AM

    Daddy!!i appreciate dis message!!

  17. Samolala

    August 24, 2012 at 8:14 PM

    Daddy tanx 4 dis wondafu msg.

  18. Tunrayo Apata

    August 26, 2012 at 1:57 AM

    “And in case you don’t know, God removed his hand from matchmaking after Adam told him “It was the woman you gave to me that gave me of the fruit and I did eat.”

    You contradicted yourself with the above quoted statement. You are saying God removed his hand from matchmaking, but according to Pastor Adeboye in the Open Heavens’ manual from Monday August 20, 2012, God is still very much in the matchmaking business. Pastor Adeboye said a pastor or prophet cannot tell you who to marry, but you need to hear from God yourself and not be lazy. Pastors and prophets guide us along the way and are not oracles to tell us the exact person to marry. So lets not take God out of marriages y’all.

    • olaolu

      October 16, 2012 at 9:13 AM

      @ tunrayo apata what pastor is saying is that God can only guide Ʊ
      To get c∕̴Ɩ good wife its nt His duty again like d time of adam and
      Eve. Thats y the bible says ‘whosoever find a wife findeth a good
      Thing and obtain Favour from God’he has given us d liberty to find.
      It ourselves. However we can seek His guidance and have our own
      Confirmation plus the pastor’s support.

  19. Jacinta Ngozi Nwodo

    August 29, 2012 at 3:35 PM


  20. Nneka jacob

    September 9, 2012 at 3:09 PM

    more complicating cus God is still in the business of using pastors to let people know when the wrong man is knocking.

  21. Vikkyj

    September 11, 2012 at 10:52 PM

    Dont u understand english?read it over again and u will understand if u are not a dummy

  22. Emmanuel ojeka lazarus

    September 16, 2012 at 7:48 PM

    Tank u daddy,most families today pay their pastors to pray n fast 4dem wich is nt corect.and d reason y dey do dat is bcos dey no d holy spirit wos duty is to speak to dem is nt io dem so dey rada go to dear pastor wom dey fil God can easily speak to

  23. Gift Nwaigwe

    September 19, 2012 at 11:57 AM

    Pastor that was a great advice to we the youth,but how then can we know our real partner.

  24. Okoro Deborah

    September 20, 2012 at 10:20 AM

    U re right pastor.

  25. Baybie Giwa

    September 21, 2012 at 1:40 PM

    I agree with G.O.

  26. Funke Akanbi-Oyedokun

    September 21, 2012 at 3:24 PM

    God bless you DADDY.

  27. Mercy uwa eke

    September 23, 2012 at 5:30 PM

    God bless daddy G.O

  28. Okeke Olis

    September 27, 2012 at 7:53 AM

    Many of us need 2 read dis{dis na real man of God

  29. Awe Idowu

    October 1, 2012 at 4:09 PM

    True talk sir.

  30. Sola

    October 1, 2012 at 11:21 PM

    Thank you daddy. I pray God grace will be sufficient for us to hear from him.

  31. Benjalli

    October 2, 2012 at 10:19 AM

    Speak it Dad. Some people are now so religious that they forget the reality of things; pushing all to God and not taking any step. God no go come down from heaven come say : Bros, that babe na your wife or < Hey u girl, that guy na ypur husband…………….Work out your man/woman. Good bless u dad…………………..JESUS IS LORD

  32. Florence Sunday

    October 4, 2012 at 12:29 PM

    Thanks for your advice sir.

  33. Precious

    October 8, 2012 at 12:21 PM

    Tx,pastor i luv dis message, i reli apreciate.

  34. MMJ

    February 11, 2013 at 5:10 PM

    This is a very good advice from now are built on false hood because a pastor says….Please dont be deceived.If u want to know who your partner is,the holy spirit is there to direct ur path and that is why you must accept Jesus Christ as ur personal Lord and Saviour an then,the holy spirit will come.If u dont know Jesus my brother,then there is no holy spirit counselling.Thank you

  35. Arinze

    May 12, 2013 at 5:51 PM

    Daddy, may evry word dat proceed out of ur mouth kip on enreaching d life of pple in Jesus Name, Amen…Daddy, U shal liv long in gud elt 2 fulfil dat which ur Father in heaven has sent u 4…Thnx Daddy b’cos we’v learn’t 4m ur life Institution msg.

  36. Miss Unique

    September 4, 2013 at 8:30 AM

    Daddy thank you for ur word.


    November 10, 2013 at 9:56 PM

    More of God in your life sir, that’s just the truth. it’s high time we start channeling our strength to seeking and hearing from God.

  38. Gwenny

    February 17, 2014 at 2:44 PM

    Hahahahahaha pastor you too much

  39. rotimi sosanya

    July 7, 2017 at 5:39 AM

    I love this message. Deeply I expect more of this again bco. It has enlighten we youth. May God bless u sir

  40. Fisco

    July 27, 2017 at 5:54 PM

    There is no will of God in marriage. I know you will want to crucify me but believe me the present day Christians have relegated the perfect will of God to be subjected to the will of man.if you are AS you just try to take an as partner to your pastor and see if he won’t question your hearing…. Chat me up 08165647837

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