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Photo: Poor Husband Abandons Wife With 3 Set Of Twins (6 Kids) In Agege Lagos Nigeria

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Friday July 3rd, 2015 – Man Abandons Pregnant Wife On Hearing She’ll Give Birth To Couple’s 3rd Set Of Twins In Lagos

Poor Husband Abandoned Wife With 3 Set Of Twins (6 Children) In Agege Lagos Nigeria

A man identified as Emeka Benjamin Uche is now wanted for abandoning his wife and 6 children over his inability to cater to their needs.

The 39-year-old factory worker abandoned his wife 34-year-old Ruth with their children since February 2015.

The woman said her hubby fled on hearing she is pregnant with the couple’s 3rd set of twins.

Ruth Uche brought the children to Lagos State Secretariat in Alausa yesterday pleading for help.

In 2009, a year after their marriage, she delivered two girls, Goodness and Goodnews.

2 years later in 2011, she produced another set of twins, Joyce and John but when her hubby learnt that her 3rd pregnancy was another set of twins, he fled their home at #32 Awori Street in Agege Lagos to an undisclosed location in Ikorodu Lagos.

Ruth delivered her 3rd set of twins last week and named them Daniel and Daniella.

Mrs. Uche said she could no longer cope with widening needs for food, clothes, drugs and school fees.

She said her salary as a teacher in a private school in Lagos no longer meet their needs.

Hear her story:

“I met my husband in 2002 but we got married in 2008. We met in the village at Umuahia. I don’t want to leave the children and run away. This is why I want government to help us,”

“I was using traditional way of family planning where I calculate some days before having intercourse. It was working for me. You can see my first set of twins is four years old.

“You know as women, we cannot deny our husband that thing whenever they request for it. Whenever I mistakenly take in, he would say that I was pretending. Sometimes, I would go through long process to abort the pregnancy. After that, another one would happen. I would still have to go through the process again to abort it. When this one happened he still insisted that I was pretending until the pregnancy became obvious.”

“My Church was responsible for the payment of the first delivery. The church paid N120, 000 for the delivery of the first set of twins. The two deliveries of the twins have been through Caesarean Section for which we paid N120, 000 each. The last twins are through normal delivery”.

“Since I gave birth to the children, I have tried calling my husband but he would not pick once he knows that it is me. I contacted his mother and other relatives to tell them that he has run away. They promised that they will call back. Since then, none of them has called me. It is not easy for me at all.

“I know only two of his relations. One of them lives in Ikorodu; the other one lives at Ajegunle. My elder brother, who could have also helped, is very angry with me for giving birth to another set of twins. He warned me before not to have any other child after the two sets of twins, especially with the kind of husband I have.

“I cannot put my hands in blood shedding by committing abortion. I want Nigerians to help me because there is nobody to pay their school fees.

“I went for immunisation some days ago and I told them my condition and why they have not been seeing me. It was there that they advised that I should come to government. Government should please help my children; no one to help me with house rent, electricity bill, school fees, food and so on,” .

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  1. mia

    July 3, 2015 at 5:25 AM

    *** men are so wicked.they have their heart in their back.gone are those days you say is good to be married to an lbo man.they are full of wickness.

    • why1965

      July 3, 2015 at 6:06 AM

      Mia, every time you have to say anything, does it have to be a foolish comment?Glad we are all blacks, regardless you Ibo, Yoruba, or Hausa, we are all blacks. Do you know that U.S.A president Mr. Obama, one of the highest educated president to rule U.S.A, White people still said he has no brain because he is black. Sometimes make a decent comment in regard to what happened without calling names.Do you ever think that name used can be fabricated? Regardless of what you said and i bet you, you probably one of the prayer warriors in one of the churches in Nigeria and still carry bitterness in your heart.Change your life and your thinking is damning.

      • Metu Nyetu

        July 3, 2015 at 1:28 PM

        I’ll make chicken perpersoup & rice 4u. Den a sparkling 2 chase it dwn. Nice comment.

  2. Lanre Gold

    July 3, 2015 at 5:37 AM

    You a very foolish woman, when you were enjoying the bed work, did you complain.

  3. Jerry

    July 3, 2015 at 5:44 AM

    lanre don’t be so foolish wht kind of a talk is that if u don’t hv anitin gud to say just shot ur mouth

    • muyi

      July 3, 2015 at 2:25 PM

      Is you that is ***** are they planing to build football team.both of them are stupid.

  4. Bench

    July 3, 2015 at 5:49 AM

    How the woman go de born only twins? First is a twins. Second is both twins also. Thed again is twins. The man go run naa. Are you want him to dies?

  5. Anonymous

    July 3, 2015 at 5:50 AM

    Pls email me her contact.

  6. mulikat

    July 3, 2015 at 5:50 AM

    Really foolish both of them, go and remove ur womb,problem finish,since u cant take injection, tablet or condom,is traditional ways, u use and keep on aborting pregancy, remove ur womb, ur body is a pig,close that leg.first birth, twins, second time twins, why on earth u wont ask urself hwo we are going to take good care of this kids, not just having kids, later they become robbers, kidnappers, Boko Harms or prosititute. so the first help Govt.should give this woman, remove are womb,no more twins again , even 1 kid no more,teacher, the husband run away ,that not the answer,come back to ur familie,just beg to remove that womb,then finish, u can sleep inside all day night, no kid will come out.

    • Fred flinstone

      July 3, 2015 at 11:25 AM

      My heart is sick to hear this kind of news but Well according to a recent article on, usually this sort of women are mind-controlled by the devils army to not raise these sort of kids that might one day be the sole bread earner for EVERYone instead of the evil, selfish mind control, money hungry vultures probably banging her even right now as we speak!!! So let’s hope that this story is not cooked up by those person(s) in collaboration with hers besides her loving & soft-heated husband who is probably being blamed here for no reasons where the truth might be that he has probably not left a stone unturned in trying to 100% to assist her & children to be together financially, material wise, emotional, lovingly, & trying to reach her physically as much as possible whenever necessary…with so much of the government controlled by external sources, it becomes almost impossible to separate the mind-control devils from the good guys unless there is a second MAjor bread-winner in the extended family! Peace forever…

  7. Adams Organisations

    July 3, 2015 at 7:10 AM

    What is her contact details. Email it to me please, we would like to help

    • MIKE

      July 3, 2015 at 10:47 AM

      @Adams Organisation, Nigerians have seen your type of “cry to assist” in the past that turned out to exploit the people involved. Your very Igbo tribe ended up calling for donations for similar problems in the past and ended absconding with the money. If your organisation is genuine and not the usual 419 ploy to use the innocent woman for personal gains; you should already have a channel of assisting people like the lady without necessarily asking to be contacted on your fraudulent email address.

  8. Ola2015

    July 3, 2015 at 7:17 AM

    @Bench, Lanre and Mia, You guys are suppose to encourage her For taking care of her THREE SET OF TWINS and also she asked for help not dat she wants to kill dem. God gave her those set of twins for a reason cos we have THOUSANDS of women praying for a fruit of womb. Just Saying……

  9. latoya

    July 3, 2015 at 7:18 AM

    i dont know how some people comment so cruely …Can you please look at those innocent children and the comment.

  10. stanley

    July 3, 2015 at 8:04 AM

    I have said these b4 Africans especially Nigerian’s are bunch of ******, who gives birth like pigs not minding wat nxt after birth, they by cursing umemployment and hardship to d country

  11. Hon. Ikechukwu

    July 3, 2015 at 9:01 AM

    i need the direct phone number of this woman…. i can give her a help, my number is +601111227381

  12. Dickson

    July 3, 2015 at 9:27 AM

    Please email me her contact. Nothing is too small.


  13. esther

    July 3, 2015 at 9:34 AM

    may God have mercy on those stupid comment by Lanre, Mia and Bench

  14. Dora

    July 3, 2015 at 9:49 AM

    I dont think all dis people saying dis wrong comment here understand dis woman’s story very well or do they read their very well.
    The woman did not impregnant herself or put the three set of twins into her womb, all was the work of God. The man want sex and de woman gave to him so why blaming de woman or u xpect husband and wife to using start using condom in their marriage. I xpected u guys to pray for God to dis woman a helper not accusing her pls.


    July 3, 2015 at 11:12 AM

    Waoo! God go help u Mama Twins, bt dnt eva follow d bad advise 4rm d pple, God would create d way of happiness in these ur kids insha’Allah. 4 ur info, u dnt kno who would help u among d kids 2moro, dnt giv up continue praying u shal rejoice Insha’Allah.

  16. Femmy

    July 3, 2015 at 11:16 AM

    Life is funny o. Some people are so blesses financially but they cannot impregnate and cannot be pregnant, here are couple whose production are twins. If dis woman shd be pregnant again, she may give birth to another twins or triplet. God will will raise up helpers for them o


    July 3, 2015 at 11:27 AM

    Then my advice 2 d pple is, wat eva such of a thing occured, do nt put any blame on d parents.Remember, everything is 4rm Allah & by Allah. So, lets encourage d Mama Twins nt 2 discourage her by insult or wrong statements, pls. May Allah help al of us.


    July 3, 2015 at 1:54 PM

    please can i have her contact details? e.mail it to me,or publish it to avoid getting into the wrong hand

  19. sharton

    July 3, 2015 at 1:55 PM

    Poor woman the lord is ur strength I pray may God send u desperate helpers ijn Amennnn.

  20. Asaolu

    July 3, 2015 at 1:57 PM

    please email me her account details.
    may God forgive Lanre and Mia.

  21. viddycool

    July 3, 2015 at 3:19 PM

    Wao! i go through so many comments and i wonder why people decide to insult others just because of the situation the are in, no matter what we all have our destiny and we can’t change it, she fall into a situation that needs the help of government and good citizens of this country not insults and abuse from anyone in this forum pls try to respect peoples feelings and situation per time.

  22. Joseph

    July 3, 2015 at 5:19 PM

    Pls, email me her contact.

  23. Vickiegee

    July 3, 2015 at 5:23 PM

    Bench, Bezo and their wife (Mulikat), are something else.

  24. Bokeem

    July 3, 2015 at 7:12 PM

    Honestly I feel so sorry for that guy, its only people who are in the man’s position will understand why he ran off.but hei we dont run away from our responsibility.

    winners don’t quit quitters don’t win. I wish am in a position to support them I will. but Emeka anywhere you are God will surely provide and take care of your family.

    But guy take am easyyyyyyyyyyy,

  25. abiola

    July 4, 2015 at 11:45 AM

    It is well my dear

  26. vim

    July 6, 2015 at 9:43 AM

    Please email me your contact.

  27. Maame

    February 14, 2018 at 2:27 PM

    Owww children are gift from GOD.And should not be treated otherwise.i know the GOD who brought them into this world will cater for them.

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