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Stella Damasus Accused Of Killing Her First Husband Jaiye Aboderin; Ex-In-Law Reacts To New Marriage

stella damasus killed first husband jaiye aboderin

April 26, 2013 – Stella Damasus Alleged Killed Her First Husband Jaiye Aboderin; Ex-In-Law Reacts To New Marriage

An insider from the family of late Jaiye Aboderin sent an email few hours ago, the anonymous insiders who declined to reveal his identity categorically said the life of Daniel Ademonikan, the former husband of Nollywood actress Doris Simeon who dumped his wife and child for actress Stella Damasus is in grave danger.

When the first husband of Nigerian actress Stella Damasus, Jaiye Aboderin died in 2004, the Aboderins accused the actress of killing her husband.

The actress later debunked the rumour claiming that her husband’s death was natural.

As time goes on, another rumour surfaced that the actress allegedly slept with two different lovers while she was still legally married to Jaiye Aboderin.

Family sources said her wayward lifestyle of sleeping with different men caused the death of her first husband, Mr Jaiye Aboderin.

“No man can love Stella like Jaiye…. He loved her to the point of death” – said the anonymous insider.

In 2008, Stella Damasus was absent at her deceased husband, Jaiye Aboderin’s fourth burial remembrance party that took place on the 5th of December at The Oriental Hotel, Lekki Lagos. She claimed to be at her mother’s side, who’s recovering from eye surgery. The Aboderin family reacted saying ‘they didn’t as a family feel bad about her not being there. The reason being that she no longer bears their name.

In another development, Stella Damasus’s ex-law, Wunmi Obe has responded to the story of Stella’s new marriage.

Here is a quick Tweet from Wunmi Obe the wife of Tunde Obe

Vindicated At Last! Jaiye, It`s Over…Sleep On, Brother

wunmi obe jaiye aboderin sister

The late Jaiye Aboderin was the younger brother of Wunmi Obe.

Stella Damasus’s first husband died of sudden heart attack in 2004.

From the look of things, Stella wouldn’t have killed her husband intentionally.

The couple has two children together. His sudden death might be spiritual (In-laws palava)

May his soul continues to rest in perfect peace.



  1. beekay

    April 26, 2013 at 11:44 PM

    aaaaaa you people are full of crap, be very careful of what ever youre accusing her of, when there no actual fact, evil bastards…. excuse people but you this people are really really getting on my nerves for real, sons of b**ches! you guys shut the hell up and go find better things to do with yourself,arrrrrrr nooooooooo.after all she as done,all you people want is for her to remain a widow, God forbid she will not continue to live in sin , she has to get married again, she’s only 35 years old her has her whole life ahead of her….

    • omola

      April 29, 2013 at 11:48 AM

      Yes she can marry but not her colleagues husband. she is a shameless woman, Adulterer, and husband snatcher. please don’t support her.

  2. jude

    April 27, 2013 at 12:36 AM

    I have been reading all the publications from this site about her and i found out that almost all your publication reaches on her as an evil person. She has the right to marry anyone she chooses, atleast, her husband is not legally married to anyone again, . Wetin do d man wey leave e wive. Well, it is quite understanding that the world culture always put women at the recieving end of any bad deed that the men could also be blamed for. As for me ooh, happy married life, you might still hear tommorrow that they had gone their ways, so please drop this, its quite disgusting.

    • EMILIA

      April 27, 2013 at 6:21 AM


  3. Tim

    April 27, 2013 at 6:12 AM

    @beekay…REMAIN A SLOWPOKE.

  4. Love

    April 27, 2013 at 6:24 AM

    No widow should marry of snatch someone else’s husband o. Thus saithThe the word of God

  5. my joy for real

    April 27, 2013 at 7:15 AM

    there 2 sides to every story,nobody heard from Doris neither did anybody asked Daniel why he left his wife. nobody should judge Stella so that you will not be judged.
    Why do people always blame women over the loss of a husband?
    It is pity Stella Nigeria has a blame culture, don’t mind them you deserve to be happy again, take good care of your kids.
    If is the other way round nobody will accuse Jaiye and by now Jaiye would have been married with kids. Ex-law and out law go and rest.

  6. osisiogu simon

    April 27, 2013 at 7:29 AM

    abeg make una live my stella alone ooooooooo. Even if she marry 50 men is non of any bodies business pls u guys shld stop puk noising.

  7. Lanre Ajadi

    April 27, 2013 at 11:00 AM

    Stella being an actress by profession is expected to be an embodiment of moral values and virtues. She is just 35yrs and already got married to 3 men, by the time she becomes 50yrs what happens?[ Just thinking!] Even if she wants to marry another man after the unfruitful marriage with Nzeribe, it should not have been a fellow actress’ husband. Cant they settle whatever grievances that may have seperated them in the first instance. What lesson do you want the teeming fans of yours, especially, the youths to learn from you. See Omotola, see Joke Silva etc; learn and emulate the virtues in these ones. Your warwardness, if it is true may have aggravated Jaiye’s ill health and eventual sudden health. Learn from this and stick to this new husband of yours. Nigerian movie actresses, be DECENT!

    • ola

      April 27, 2013 at 9:13 PM

      why will u ever compare her to Omotola and Joke Silver? if it was Omotola that became a widow at the age she became one, how certain her you she would not have been remarried 2 to 4 times by now? i see no reason why she can’t remarry and enjoy herself. as for the in-laws (Wunmi in particular) what we heard was that they wanted the property for themselves which was make impossible cos of the deceased’s will. i wish you happy married life for as long as it lasts. every human deserves happiness. don’t mind wat some shallow thinking fools says

      • omola

        April 29, 2013 at 11:51 AM

        I don’t care about inlaw issue. but what stella did is totally bad. she is 419, thief, husband snatcher, Adulterer and shameless woman for stealing her colleagues husband.

      • lara

        May 6, 2013 at 9:48 PM

        It shouldn’t have been you Stella, no not you.

    • Ugo

      December 23, 2017 at 7:44 PM

      Is omotola and joke Sylvia a widow? Why compare personalities from different background, ethics and more importantly fate/ destiny. Life is not as we see it. Issues of life is a mystery. Just because Wunmi never liked Stella, does that qualify her to embarrass her.

  8. Nomzy

    April 27, 2013 at 11:09 AM

    After all a woman is intitled 2 marry as many husband she want.lolz i trust u my stella.

  9. Kizo

    April 27, 2013 at 11:24 AM

    Stella is a beautiful lady anytym. If truly she snatched her frend’s husband, datz tooo bad. I remember having a wet-dream coz of her. Jst as d saying goes, ” if anoder person own no spoil, anoder person own no go better”

  10. Joe

    April 27, 2013 at 12:50 PM

    We are who we are….judgmental at the first instance..Now she is been accused of killing her first husband..simply because she has decided to move on so the Aboderin’s wanted her to remain single for the rest of her life??It is a woman’s decision to remarry if she does not want to..then its fine with her…Doris or Her Husband nova talk anything self concerning the issue..and no nobody knows why Doris’s husband turn to leave her for Stella if and only if the story is true…

  11. Sop

    April 27, 2013 at 2:04 PM

    Only God knows the truth… Am speechless cos stella has been a lady I admire so much.. I love watchin her movies.. But wit this new development.., honestly am afraid

  12. OKUBULE Adelumola Abayomi Prince

    April 27, 2013 at 2:29 PM

    Marriage is a contract and it is not sacrosanct that it must succeed, it is a human endeavour loaded with errors and mis – judgement of human character and intent, so if Stella has married thrice, does not mean she is wayward or whatever but honestly, I am a great admirer of hers and I would have liked her to have dated a man not married or linked to another woman because it clearly seemed as if Doris’ husband left his wife because of his feelings/love for Stella. They might talk tough or say people can say whatever they like, but why didn’t they at least wait for some years before getting married? Especially when one considers the fact that Stella just got out of a failed marriage. But honestly, marriages are meant to last or to crash, it has always been so, it is not a must that it must succeed!

    • The Just

      August 24, 2013 at 10:40 PM

      dat is d reason it is called marriage,it must always succeed,4 beta or worse,2geda 4eva,put 2geda by God,it shud neva be assundered,truely their can be differences but it must be settled,reason y many a marriage break up is dat they dont seek God b4 and durin marriage……plz dont get things wrong,mariage must succeed,no mata wat….dont adopt ungodly cultures or blivs

      • Awuradjoa Awuah

        May 10, 2018 at 8:34 PM

        I don’t understand what you are saying. Is marriage defined as something that must last? Please check your dictionary and come again

  13. Yk

    April 27, 2013 at 2:36 PM

    I don’t know why we still keep on watching their stupid nollywood movies, if they are behaving like this, there is no lesson we can learn through their movies… It’s better we start watching Bollywood movies, yeah, for real

  14. gospel unlimited

    April 27, 2013 at 3:12 PM

    Stella u are suppose to be a good role model. No matter who u are pple must talk about u. D thing is let what is said about u be good. Nobody is sayin u shouldn’t get married but if u must get married it shouldn’t be to ur friend’s husband. Haba cant keep ur pants up? GOD is watching o

  15. Adeoye

    April 27, 2013 at 3:33 PM

    God will take control

  16. Bukky

    April 27, 2013 at 5:00 PM

    It’s alarming how women are quick to judge one another, and for people asking her to court and not marry, would you rather she lived in sin? Please people go sort out your own faults, everyone has got one and let her creator be her judge. I wonder why I haven’t heard much negativity about d man? Is cos it’s a man’s world?

  17. luchi wilson

    April 28, 2013 at 12:45 PM

    @ bukky go nd embrace ur bible,did her 2nd husband die?y will she go for her frnds husband,birds of same feathers

  18. Kokoma

    April 28, 2013 at 2:03 PM

    It is true that Stella is wayward and was never faithful to Jaiye but he was over weight and that could have led to his death. We cannot blame Stella for that. Did the family mean magun? If so, it is possible. She has hot pants and he could not satisfy her. She was a gold digger who has now married a gold digger. Let us leave the rest to God, the author and finisher of life!

  19. udewulu gloria

    May 10, 2013 at 8:48 AM

    i don’t tink stella can be capable of killin her own hushand,jaiye died a natural death

  20. Abidemi Ibok

    July 31, 2013 at 4:44 PM

    You people should leave Stella alone, let God alone be the judge and stop concluding what not.

  21. tayo

    November 27, 2013 at 1:13 AM

    that couldn’t be true

  22. Evelyn Oshinowo

    May 13, 2014 at 7:53 PM

    All the these is crap shit. Jaiye was killed by Stella. If it is Magun will it be at the basket ball or squash court or were they were doing sports. Magun kill immediately after having an affair with another man. Most times in the house.

  23. vikky zack

    August 23, 2014 at 4:29 PM


  24. don_princee

    December 19, 2014 at 7:25 PM

    If I have d opportunity I will marry stella even if she divoice one million times. Carrryyy onnnnn stellaaaaaa and don’t mind road side gossipers. Love u stellaAaaa


    July 14, 2015 at 5:37 PM

    hey hv we all nt hv our own problems y choping gala over stella own issue, can i ask a question, if ur are stella wat wil u do.


    July 14, 2015 at 5:39 PM

    hey hv we all nt hv our own problems y choping gala over stella own issue, can i ask a question, if ur are stella wat wil u do. dear stella wateva u think if u do ur heart wil nt blame u pls ride on.

  27. Desire

    November 18, 2015 at 5:11 AM

    Why is it only Stella everybody is talking about, what about the good for Notting bobo Daniel. His a thief he knew stella has more money then him and also she is more famous than his ex wife .that is the reason .As for stella she needs a man and she found one that she can remote control .l know God will provide a good and loving husband for Doris such in Jesus name.

  28. Dunni

    March 25, 2016 at 9:43 AM

    Stella is a wonderful person . She can choose to be with whoever she wanted to be with. If I were to be a man, I would do all I can to be with her.

    People stop judging this lovely woman.

    Thank you

  29. R klem Edet

    May 12, 2017 at 12:42 PM

    I’m speechless… Stella is one lady I admire so much because of the way she carry herself in movies, it ‘s shocking to hear this. I’m so disappointed.

  30. bibie

    February 13, 2018 at 10:56 PM

    were tou people call there when she did the snatching ? Was this guy legally married when she married him? If he is not th sye is not qualified to be called a husband snatcher.

  31. Charity

    May 31, 2018 at 7:48 PM

    Let’s stop being judgemental. Stella the only way to peace in your life is to ignore both the positive and negative things said about you and concentrate on your immediate family. All the best

  32. Nathan Cantock

    July 15, 2018 at 9:51 AM

    I don’t know the circumstances surrounding this case, but just like to say that I went to school with Jaiye in the 1980s at the Kings School Canterbury in the UK.
    Jaiye was a lovely guy, a gentle giant and was loved by everyone. Very sad to hear he has passed.

  33. Tracy sogbaike

    May 2, 2020 at 11:18 PM

    Stella I just love u, forget what these people say about u, if they were to be In ur shoes, they would do e end worse things, many talk out of envy and jealousy, love ur man as much as u can, what ever reasons he left doris for am sure u know about it, when life throws u lemon make lemonade, and when life throws u limes just rearrange the letters and smile, I actually love the big smile u got and prey God keep it for u.

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