Stella Damasus Suggests She Crashed Doris Simeon’ Marriage, Says Daniel Ademinokan Is In Love With Her

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April 26, 2016 – Stella Damasus Suggests She Crashed Doris Simeon’s Marriage, Says Daniel Ademinokan Is In Love With Her

In this recent chat with ThisDay, Nollywood actress Stella Damasus says she owes Doris Simeon no apology for allegedly snatching her husband.

See interview excerpts.

One of the comments I have seen consistently, over and over again’ is, ‘Stella snatches somebody’s husband’; ‘Stella the husband snatcher which is what has been going on. And I had sworn that I would never talk about it or even listen or stress myself about the issue. But I have decided to talk about it now, so that I end it once and for all .

First of all, let me paint a picture for you and you let me know what makes sense to you. Let’s go to the dictionary, when I looked up . The word snatch or steal it means forcefully taking something away from its original position or forcefully from its original position to another position; something that does not belong to you – that’s what I gathered from the word snatch or. Steal. So I looked at myself,

Stella, and I wondered, how is it possible to go to somebody’s home, and take a man, and take his son, away from his home and say follow me. (Let’s assume) You are a man, and according to their story, he is happily married inside his home. With his family. Complete and I walk into that home to forcefully take a man, able-bodied man, and a kid, away from somebody’s hand and you are there looking at me. How does that work?

So logically if people actually sit down and think about It intelligently, how do you snatch somebody from somebody and the person is there looking at you? So when you see a man who has settled ties with a woman and decides to move on with his life and you feel that there is something in this man that you like and he likes you, is there a problem there? I am not a kid. I am 36 years old. I am not about to start hiding myself. I was waiting for somebody to actually ask me this question, because all I have heard for the past two to three years are rumours. They said, blogs said, this said. Nobody has been bold enough to confront me and ask me. So I say, if I steal something from somebody, and the person is really the owner of the thing, you come and ask me, ‘You took something from me, give me back’. But nobody was able to do that, And I am like, if I meet an able-bodied man that has left (his family) and loved one; that is not even in the same house with whoever and is not doing anything with whoever, and both parties had decided this thing (marriage) is not going anywhere, and they have gone their separate ways, why is it easier for the world to “blame the woman that the man has decided to end up with? Why is it that it is always that woman that broke that home?

The two people that did things that nobody was there, no body said something must have happened between the two people. It is always somebody else that is the problem. And I always say I do not tolerate blaming anybody for your own problems. I have had problems. After my late husband’s death, I got married again and the marriage didn’t work.

After eight months, it crashed. People didn’t hear much about it; why? We were both mature to understand that we came together; we knew that the thing was not working and instead of us to become enemies we will remain friends; let’s just let it go quietly. And we let it go quietly. I didn’t blame anybody else for doing it (for not making my second marriage work). He didn’t blame anybody else for doing it. So I am wondering, two people come together and they later go their separate ways; this one meets somebody, all of a sudden, it is that somebody that is the problem. Did anybody ever ask, what went wrong? Why would a man pick up his son and walk away from his marriage? Was there any time another woman was the problem until the man moved on with another woman? Nobody brought up Stella’s name. Then, all of a sudden, ‘oh he’s moved on with somebody else (snaps fingers); it must be her’. How? I am still waiting for somebody to come with proof to say ‘oh when they were in marriage, when they were still in a house, you came and did this. So the reason why I don’t like about it is that, there are some I would say to you and you would look at me like ‘oh wow!’ But I don’t want to be derogatory. I don’t want to toe the line that other people have toed by saying bad about people. I would never do that but the stories started coming.

At first I ignored the stories. I just kept quiet and then it was all over the place Google, blogs, and I am like, one day, one day, I would tell my story. There’s a reason why I am respecting certain people, respecting certain legal issues that are going on. So there might be some things I may not hammer on, but whenever you hear this person snatched, this person’s, you will ask the person, the person that they said was the original owner, What was the person-doing when they were snatching the person from him or her. I don’t get it. Do you understand? So I look at it, I am not ugly, I am not dumb;. Of all the men in the world, I will now go and look for somebody else’s own and say this is the one I want.

If he didn’t come out of it and say I want to be with you and you want to be with me, how? Why would I come and grab……? Am I that bad-looking? Am I that old? If I have 50 husbands, how does that affect you?

Does it change my work? I do my work, you enjoy it. It’s not about what I do in my bedroom that is your issue because you don’t really know what happens in people’s bedrooms.

You don’t know what happens in marriages. You don’t know why people like us are very weary of people knowing (about) our business. You don’t know how many marriages are suffering in silence. The issue of domestic violence that I am fighting for, it is part of it. There are marriages that they will tell themselves, especially celebrities we suffer from that. You are in a marriage and because you are worried about the press, the media, you stay in. You just stay in; you act, you play for the camera; you act like everything is okay. Then you get home and everything is hell because you know the moment you take that bold step and walk away, the backlash will be so bad. But you now ask yourself, to stay in and become a monster or to just quietly leave and preserve my sanity. When you leave to preserve your sanity, then the world wants to make you crazy. You understand. So, it’s a matter of choice. People make choices every day. They’ve made theirs, I have made mine; if you can’t deal with it, no problem. It is my life. Live yours and I will live mine. And I am. .Happy I am not ashamed; never a moment of regret.

On Why She Crashed Doris Simeon’s Marriage

Whatever issues a man has with his wife, when they deal with it, they deal with it I don’t come into it. And once you are done with it, and ready to move on, and you want to move on with me, and I want a life with you, it’s me and you. I don’t care what anybody else is thinking or saying. People have said this; it hurts because of the impression people tried to create but I looked at myself and asked myself, ‘Stella in your heart do you believe you did anything bad?’

If my answer is no, then my dear, there is no looking back. Because I am not a kid for me to make a decision and say I want to be with this person.

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This interview speaks volume about Stella Damasus’ state of mind, if another woman did this to her, will she be happy?

It is sad how some women take actions without thinking of the consequences.

Aunty Stella na only you sabi fine bobo???  Diaris God ooo

29 thoughts on “Stella Damasus Suggests She Crashed Doris Simeon’ Marriage, Says Daniel Ademinokan Is In Love With Her

  1. My dear Stella you have no excuse. No matter how you liked this man, you could have played a peace maker reconciling him with his wife and son even if the fault is from the wife and not to take advantage of the problem. I doubt if God will be happy with you on this. Repent my sister and restore this man back to his family and to our God He will abundantly pardon.

  2. Stella I am not happy with you. You keep saying somebody this someone that. We all no you are not a kid bit you have just acted like one. Do you expect Doris to confront you? Imagine yourself in Doris shoes. So bad the deed has been done.

  3. She is a godiga that is why she’s asking her fance to bring money for the orphanage who send you to established that
    Ole thief snatcher carry ham go na Doris silent she suppose to deal with u well well

  4. She really thinks what she’s doing is right, your 2nd husband left you because you were sleeping around, idiot, ole, oloju kokoro, you are not a kid but you have just talked and behaved like one. There’s that word called karma, you will surely get it one day.

  5. 1.Stella, there is God oooo. The spirit of that innocent baby boy will surely fight back.
    2.Daniel Ademilokan may be age mature but character shows that he is childish in mind. How can he neglect his first love and son.
    3.Tell Stella, the second wife to know that the third wife will soon apear.

  6. U can really blame her, some marriages are misatke, wen u are in a marriage ad u are nt happy is beta to walk out dan to stay dere with sadnees, marriage na for enjoyment nt enduring. Is beta u fine ur happness. Dat wat d man did, so dnt blame stella 4 dat pls

  7. From the records,this is ur 3rd controversial marrige.First was when u are still in ur town where u had ur first child.Second was when u cleverly married the Late Aboderin amidst strong protest from his sister Wunmi Aboderin.You had two daughters for before he died untimely. The third,Doris husband . Depriving Doris son the joy of living with his mother.Why?Well I’m not suprised cos you deprived your own children of previous marriage the joy of staying with you.Daniel is going to be the loser at the end of the day cos you have not reached your final destination.You are a moving train.Pls,enjoy yourself while the fun last.We are watching.

  8. Doris is a lady of quality… slence sometimes is the best answer to confine a stima to the graveyard of history. Stella, u are a fool here… the victory of evil deed over good is ephemeral……. its a matter of time

  9. stella ur just an idiot and a bitch… d evil dat men do, do afta dem. thank God uve dautas too sure they will go through the same treatment, same thing u did to jumobi damijo if not for God who intervened in their home you would have separated RMD and his wife Jumobi

  10. nd as for you Daniel I pray you wont live to regret this when ur back to ur right senses cos I doubt it..dat dauta of a bitch still had d gut to grant dis day interview and she was saying all sorts of jargons..>just watch ur back, law of kharma will surely catch up with you (Ashawo)

  11. let stella enjoy her marriage coz what she did is non of your business as long as she is happy. enjoy my dear dont mind them oooo

  12. Ashwoo, Home breaker, any time i hear anything about you i get upset. what are you glad about, you should go in door to wipe. smell pussy ga. gold digger why didnt you fall in love with a poor man, only rich guys useless wafi girl

  13. Their cup of tea. Stella even if Doris and Daniel marriage was not working that does mean u shld come in btw them u made her son not to enjoy motherhood. God is watching and will us all according to our deeds

  14. stella u call urself a mother and u re depriving Doris d joy of a mother. u re shameless. I bet u dis is not going to be ur last marriage since u enjoy jumping from man to man. Give Doris her son. D wrath of God will cum down on you very soon. Gold digger. I bet u will call urself a christian yet u broke a happy home. All ur colleagues had better keep their husbands when dey see u cos u are ready to snatch anoda after dis marriage fails. Bitch!!!

  15. Wow stella the voice of the people are the voice of God ,it is better you let daniel go and you look for your own man now that you are still a little bit younger else when he realize himself and leave you with no teeth in your mouth no one will come for you again. A word for a wise they say is enough

  16. not a cause but i knw the man will soon beat u with the same cane he used for his first wife then ur womanhood will recognize shame since u dont hav anynow

  17. without prejudice to anyone, I want to emphatically say that some so called married women do not deserve to be married. People keep shouting husband snatcher, where was the Doris When Stella was snatching her Husband? I am married and i can tell you that what some women do to their husbands is better kept secret. Daniel will never tell you what went wrong neither will Doris. So please leave Stella alone

  18. Lol story 4 d Gods.Dnt mind d idiot dat is so busy talking her bobo juice and big big talk words and making noise all ova d place.Anyway d evil dat men do live wit them.I really pity d man bcos he is jst standing like someone dat is been controlled by a forces power

  19. It is harden criminals and thieves that talk like you Stella. You are a thief and home breaker. What I know is that anybody that makes other person sad for her to be happy will surely never have peace. The juju you used on the guy will soon expire. God of impartiality will judge you.

  20. IF ONLY THIS HUSBAND SNATCHER KNOWS SHE,S A BIG SADNESS TO THIS GENERATION , SHE,LL SLEEP IN SYNAGOGUE 4 A COMPLETE YR AND REQUEST D SERVICES OF 21 ELDERS TO CLEANS HER . HEAR UR SELF SPEAK – I CHECKED D DICTIONARY 4 D MEANING OF “SNATCH ” . CLOSE UR DIRTY RED GUMS IN SHAME .WHO DO U THINK U ARE ? DO U THINK IF U,RE HOLDING USELESS DANIEL HOSTAGE WITH UR ASABA-BREAST , U,LL COME AND CONVINCE US TOO ?.NA DORIS LEAVE U , DORIS JUST BEHALF LIKE PORTHARCOURT PIKIN,SHE NO DO LIKE EDO AT ALL- MRS MONOPAUSE , COME BORN 4 DANIEL .U BETTER FREE DANIEL AND AVOID TROUBLES 4 UR DAUGHTERS IN D FUTURE . IF U LIKE WRITE LETTER FROM ASABA TO CANADA , U,RE EPILEPSY TO WOMANHOOD .U,RE ONLY 36 AND THIS DESPERATE. SEE CLARION CHUKWURAH @ 50YRS , YET SHE HAD TEAR-RUBBER.SEE IBINABO AFTER 4 – A LEGALLY DIVORCED MAN AFTER SOMANY YRS CAME TO MARRY HER .IF U,RE THIS YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL AS U CLAIM , YET U TOOK UR COLLEAGUE,S HUSBAND, U MUST BE A VAGABOND.

  21. If another woman take your husband from you, will you like it stella? I ask, was he the only man that came to you when you were searching for husband? How come you grabbed him so fast without considering his family? You are just committing adultery with him, nothing more.

  22. Even if the man has divorced his first wife, u don’t still have the right to go into deep relationship with the man,coz is not ideal of u,moreover u are colleagues in the same organization, that means the ethics of your job can tolerate rubbish/dirty things u are portraying all because of money and fame that can cannot take to heaven but rather it will tarnish your identity.Then tell me Stella,what are you preaching to the world and generation to come? For crying out loud,u should be a role model that people can look up to not a home destroyer,please be a peace maker and not the other side.Remember u have children…. If u have forgotten let me remind you(the law of karma)obviously this relationship cannot last forever. Don’t allow your present enjoyment to destroy your future and that of your children. Be careful of the seed u sow…

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