Beware Of Toxic And Jealous People!!!
Beware Of Toxic And Jealous People!!
Before you read this piece, note that I’m only using it to address Nigerians, Non Nigerians are invited to comment without abusing my country of birth.
If you post any sh*t about my country, I will remove your comment.
I have held this topic for so long and I decide to put this out today because I have had enough of this madness.
Some Nigerians on the social media are toxic people please beware of them.
I launched a cool business doing really well few months ago and could you believe some jealous and toxic Nigerians were hell bound on destroying this business.
I really can’t imagine how stupid some people are.
These are lazy people who lack motivation and have no direction for their lives and anytime they see others succeeding, all they know to do best is to try and ruin it.
I’m not surprised at all. We are only human but some Nigerians are just full of it.
Thank God for some intelligent Nigerians who will never wish others bad.
My advice to anyone dealing with toxic and jealous Nigerians is to tell them to get the f**k off and mind their business and if they won’t listen, simply ban them and cut off all relationships with them.
These are people that are going no where and if you relate with them too much, they will drag you down to their level.
When I launched ********** months ago, some jealous Nigerians started saying rubbish on the social media that I don’t know anything.
To the glory of God and to their shame, I currently have 289 Ghanaians, 165 South Africans, 782 Americans, 52 Canadians and 102 really cool Nigerians I’m coaching through that business (I will not share anything about that business here) Ota po ju enemy lo.
These toxic and jealous Nigerians are low-life people who have no direction whatsoever for their lives.
I was even pissed to the extend that I wish to shut down NaijaGists.com and stop writing about anything Nigeria but because I’m more passionate than these low-lives, I have decided to not allow my passion to die down.
Come to Canada and see how Ghanaians and other Africans are supporting each other, but most Nigerians will not support their own, they prefer to shop at Ghanaian-owned African stores than patronizing their fellow Nigerians.
I’m done with the excesses of most Nigerians and I can’t really deal with it anymore.
It is time I let go of few bad eggs among us and move on with the intelligent and God-fearing ones.
Don’t get me wrong, there are so many cool Nigerians at home and abroad but the BAD EGGS among us are the problem.
Please tell these stupid ones to get the f**k off and only relate with the INTELLIGENT and FORWARDING THINKING ONES.
Going forward, I will never share any of my business dealings on this blog.
I will limit the time I spend on Nigeria related matter and move on with life.
I’m really pissed off.
Be careful the type of Nigerians you relate with.
Please don’t get me wrong, there are really cool, laid back and honest Nigerians all over the world but the BAD EGGS among them are many.
May 4, 2020 at 7:52 PM
I’m so sorry, I have never seen you write in this manner since 2012 when I came across your blog. Pls look past these ones, they are enemies of progress.
They are everywhere and all they are bent on doing is to kill your passion, don’t allow them please.
May 4, 2020 at 7:55 PM
I don’t think NG is the one writing this may be someone hacked her blog , I will wait for 24 hours to see if something change.
But if you are the ones writing it, I will share a personal story with you to know how wicked not jealous our people.
I was around 12 years old when my father’s business partner shot him right in front of our house. I was upstairs looking at everything and since then, myself and my mom never trust any human not only Nigerian.
Yes I understand the excesses of our people, now that you know, watch out for them, dont’ do business with anyone of them, you are better of dealing with the whites than men of color especially rude Nigerians.
May 4, 2020 at 8:01 PM
You are the only reasonable blogger I love, I appreciate most of your content especially the birthday post. I came across your channel when searching for my bday personality and you are more like a sheer. pls post good contents like that.
I’m an Australian and I love your blog. Don’t stop doing good
May 4, 2020 at 8:50 PM
Don’t be annoyed- never allow the do nothings( Nigerian or not) to frustrate you to the extent that you let go of your passion and that which gives you joy.
Take your eye off their downplays, once you are persuaded about what you do not pay attention to any discouraging attitude and words.
PS: Is this annoyance the reason why you rarely post article like before and why moderation of comments take longer time?
May 4, 2020 at 9:31 PM
Thanks for the encouraging comment. No, it is not because of this new issue. I limited my time on the blog because of some sort of blogging addition that almost affected my marriage. I wrote about it in another post on this blog.
May 4, 2020 at 9:33 PM
My love am so sorry about what you are experiencing, I married a Nigerian and I know what they all say behind my back. I really don’t give a damn about them. I love my man and he loves me. People from your country can be hypocritical that is my observation
May 4, 2020 at 9:54 PM
I agree with you some Nigerians even in churches can be a pain in the butt. My only way of getting escape is not to be too involved with them.
May 5, 2020 at 6:12 AM
I thought I’m the only one that share this view, most Nigerians are enemy of progress.
I don’t like makin friends with them.
May 5, 2020 at 10:13 PM
NG thanks for changing the title of this article. When I first saw the title yesterday, I felt offended and I promised not to comment on it. Now that I see you have taken this from the home page and changed the title, I felt compelled to write.
This problem is very common to black people every but Nigerians especially are jealous by nature. I have seen this same trait in Ethopians, Kenyans and Ghanaians but not as bad as Nigeria. I don’t know why they are like this. The best way to avoid the is to stop mingling with them. Sorry if you are offended but don’t allow offence to take the best of you. I visit your blog every day even when you don’t update, I read the comments.
Pls don’t stop updating, I like your articles.
May 5, 2020 at 10:45 PM
I think this is more of a personal issue than generalizing. Some Nigerians are very helpful and kind. So sorry you met the ugly ones at heart.
February 21, 2022 at 3:25 AM
Well I do have much to say about this topic. I’m happy that I found your blog and I’m looking forward to reading more. Ok this is my issue with Nigerian men. Actually all men who do what I’m about to say. And lie through their teeth that it’s untrue. The SCAMMERS! Yes, I said SCAMMERS! Every race in this world has scammers, but Nigerian men are very high on the list. Relentless is not a strong enough word. They don’t seem to understand the word NO. That only angers them and they don’t give up. To be fair (and this will sound odd) but they’re the kindest guys I’ve ever spoken to. They show respect especially to someone who’s older. I swore like a sailor to one Nigerian guy telling him what a low life he was and being only 19 he could change his life for the better if he wanted to. Be the difference. Be the one who helps to change this world. To think if they did, so many people would look at the Nigerian race a whole lot differently. It only takes one person to make that change. The guy I met who tried to scam me well we are now great friends. We are like brother & sister and still hasn’t received one dime from me and never will. Maybe it was because I scammed him. Yep sure did. Told him I sent $500.00 in US money through PayPal however the bank had it pending. Upon telling him this and how I transferred my funds from my bank I could tell he was gonna explode with anger but shockingly he was very kind. After two days of saying it was still pending I told him the truth. Asked him “how does it feel being lied to? Actually scammed but in my way” He told me it never happened before and it opened his eyes. He contacts me occasionally to see how I am. Also he asks for advice about school and such. He knows that I know way to much about how people are scammed and know what not to answer because he could still try but he will never win. I thought he’d get bored..put me on the DO NOT CALL THIS B lol but nope he stills checks in to see how I am and tells me what he’s been up to. I’m older and he was calling me Ma and I put a stop to that. Call me your sister please. He does. He has respect but he still scams people and lies. I hate liars and thieves. He knows this. I’m trying to help him apply for college and how to go about it. I truly believe he wants to change or he wouldn’t even take time to contact me. It would obviously be so boring to him. I’m happy that he came into my life because what I said to him angrily about his profession I could feel his gratefulness. I don’t believe many who have almost been scammed would take the time to help them. I feel something. I feel he wants to and will change. Whether it’s me helping him or him doing it himself. Like I said..ALL RACES scam people but Nigerian men are at least respectful. I never thought I’d ever say my friend tried to scam me and I considered him my brother. That’s how much I care. The things I said to him even the devil would be embarrassed. I said things I never thought would ever be said but he needed to hear it. I told him to listen to James Blunts song “The Greatest” I told him that’s what I wanted for him. I really believe nobody has ever cared about him as much as I do. It changed him for the better. I pray he stays on the right path and becomes the greatest. That’s my wish for him. I pray for Nigeria that things will get so much better for the people. They never asked for such disrespect, untruths, poor living conditions, poor medical assistance oh the list is forever. Nobody should live this way. Hell the prisoners live better. Things need to change because the people from Nigeria do not deserve this. It angers me and I want you to know that I love your country and the people. I wanted to let you know how I met my Nigerian friend. Blessings