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True Confession Of Single Nigerian Women Dating Married Men

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Jan 30, 2015 – True Confession Of Single Nigerian Women Dating Married Men

To Toyin Adedamola, a 36-year-old resident of Oshodi area of Lagos dating a married man “is not a big deal.”

“I am old enough to marry, but when I don’t find the right man ready to put me in his house as his wife, should I just remain like a prisoner?

“As I am now, I don’t mind being a second wife as long as I am comfortable and respected like a wife by the man,” she said.

Another respondent, who simply gave her name as Jumoke, confirmed that she was dating a married man but added that she was not ready to be a second wife.

“I am dating one married man and we have been together for two years now. He is ready to marry me, but I am not ready to be a second wife.

“Experience has taught me that being a second wife would make you fight for your life till death. So I told him I can’t be a second wife.

“I am only with him till I find the right person to marry me,” she said.

A married woman, who refused to mention her name for safety reasons, told our correspondent that it is sometimes good to date a married man for experience.

“I dated a married man here in Ogun State before I got married. I finally bade him bye two days to my wedding.

“I had a good time with him all through the period we dated. I decided to date him so that I would know how best to handle my husband.

“I felt it would also help me to monitor my husband’s activities and keep him from women. The man was actually encouraged to date a woman outside because his wife made his home hell for him,” the pregnant 29-year-old woman explained.

For Maureen, she dates a married man apart from two regular boyfriends.

While the married man pays most of her bills, she keeps the two boyfriends pending when any of them would decide on marriage.

“I am getting to 30 years old and that is not funny. That’s why I have the two guys. But for the married man, we both know we don’t have a future together, but he pays my bills and assists in other areas.

“I have been managing them. The married man knows I have another person, but the two bachelors don’t know each other or whether I have a married man,” she said.

For Eyitayo, dating a married man comes with risks, but she believes that in life, everything possess their own risks.

“There was this man I dated last year and his wife sent people after me. I was beaten mercilessly and had to spend three weeks in the hospital,”.

“At a time, I couldn’t do anything without thinking of him. Moreover, he was the one who rescued me and made me self-dependent.

“I always called and chatted with him even though I knew it was risky. That was how his wife knew and came after me.

“Though I have left the man, I am in another relationship but this time, the man’s wife is not in Lagos. The man lives alone and works here,” – the 29-year-old petty trader said.

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  1. Kolade Alli

    January 30, 2015 at 4:10 PM

    I have few of these ladies on my side. Since my wife has chosen to stay in Santa Monica, I use them for my pleasures. It has become a way of life.Who knows what my wife is doing on the other side of the world

  2. Sanyeri

    January 30, 2015 at 4:42 PM

    I can’t believe there are still guys in the world who would have a girlfriend and will not know their girlfriend is seeing someone else.How she won take do am??? E never happen to me before..

  3. Grace

    January 30, 2015 at 8:20 PM

    Ladies listen carefully. for all of you out there dating married men you think is fun but to be honest is not the best way in life. If you are still young and not ready to settle down is cool.

    But let me warn you doing that you are equally yoke with an unbeliever and will do you no good in life at all. You are fornicating and that married man is committing adultery both of you are in the worst sins. I read how some ladies says they are dating married men with 2 boyfriends by side so that one can marry her. Is not like that. You may be marrying demons or spirits.

    I know many women have done it. I experienced it for a short while when pushed by demons a such will not advise any woman who wants to marry in future and have children to try it because you will love the man but he will never love you because he is married and just using you forget the money. How much? I know at that point in time you need that money for rent and clothes.

    My dear the best advise for all you single women out there is to forget those married men and run to God. Know what goes around comes around. Confess all your past sins and pray with series of deliverance you will get the most loving husband on this planet. If is taking long examine your life. Dont give up keep praying and fasting abstain from all sins be kind giver and you will see what God will do for you.

  4. Stoney

    January 30, 2015 at 8:30 PM

    MR Kolade, very funnny!!! i wonder how your marriage is? @Sanyeri, females are something else… i do fear them not fear as in fear but in such things fear them

  5. amy

    January 30, 2015 at 9:26 PM

    Wonders shall neva end. Some people r proud of dating married men without considering d repercursion. There is no reason wot soever dat shld make a lady date somebdy’s husband. Curses r bound 2 follow such lady. Repent nd b converted!

  6. Metu Nyetu

    January 30, 2015 at 10:57 PM

    See how diz stupid ppl advertise their shameful lifestyl. Women make matters worse. Singl guys would b dying 4 their luv but they rather giv it 2 married men. Home breakers! One of dem was even audacious enof 2 say she’s not ready 2b a 2nd wife. In oda wordz she wants d man 2 drive out his wife cos of her. Authority! Women can really hurt demselvs bad.

    Now wat fate awaits d single guy? Wen im don huzzl wella com ready 2 settl down, im go realise say na half plate im wan chop becaus anoda man been don de chop d full plate since, com remain half. In short, d man even dey lucky if im see half plate chop. Som their own na only one spoon de remain 4 the plate. Haba!

  7. James brown

    January 31, 2015 at 9:50 AM

    This is to all the ladies who specialized in dating married men for one reason or another. the law of nature can never be cheated. If you date people husband/wife, when you marry your own , if you like pad-lock him/her under your nose so that he/she will not cheat, you are deceiving yourself. some one will surely date your man/woman too.QED. Stay Clear Of People Husband/Wife.

  8. DAN

    January 31, 2015 at 11:51 AM

    This is lie. How can you say that you don’t see eny boy to friend.

  9. Love

    February 2, 2015 at 1:23 PM

    Whatever goes around comes around…………..when you get married, other ladies too will run after your husband. You cannot escape it.

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