Uche Ogbodo Regrets Dumping Her Husband, Says Daughter Missing Her Father

uche ogbodo regrets leaving her husband

June 13, 2016 – Uche Ogbodo Regrets Quitting Her Marriage, Says It Is Lonely Being A Single Mother “I’m Emotional Unstable”

…….My Life As A Single Mother Is Lonely, I Can’t Trust Men Again

Excerpts from Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo’s recent chat with Punch NG.

“Sometimes it gets lonely because there is nobody to talk to. Not that there are no men but because of all the hurts and disappointment I have been through, it is not easy trusting again.

Like I say to some of my friends, it is no longer as easy as it used to be for me to trust a man again. Dating is easy but being in a proper relationship is very difficult. Once beaten, twice shy. It is so hard for me to trust someone, to know if he is coming for good and he is not going to betray my trust and hurt me. It is hard that I don’t have a friend even though there are so many men out there. But then, to get that right person that makes you feel he is your friend; someone that would never hurt me and would be there for better and for worse and I can open my fears to, is difficult and I miss that. I am also not in a hurry to have that because I am too scared to trust a man. It is a personal demon now.

Marriage is not the first thing on my mind because I am not stable emotionally but I want to be in a relationship because I want to be loved. I want to have someone pray for me, talk to me and relate with me. I would love that so much but it is so difficult finding that person and if care is not taken, you can just keep going in and out of relationships without knowing the right person.”

“I don’t have any relationship with the father of my child; we don’t talk. One would think that because we have a child we would be cool with each other but in reality, the case is otherwise. I have not seen any effort from him to reach out to me or our child. Ironically, my baby’s first word was daddy. Maybe she misses having a father figure in her life but I know she will adapt, I am strong and my baby is a strong girl,”

“There really isn’t any challenge in motherhood; the main challenge is in being a single mother. As a single mother, you are doing the job of two people on your own ranging from the financial aspect to raising a child. The challenges would be that sometimes I am not able to do some things that I would if I were not with a child as a single girl; now I have to consider my child first. Sometimes there are some extravagances that I am supposed to indulge in but I cannot.

“It is just like when I had my baby, because I had to pay for my trip to the US and also foot my medical bill, I could not get the latest car that I wanted to drive then. It is one of the challenges that I faced, if I had someone to support me, like a partner, the financial burden would have been less. There is no challenge in nurturing my baby because she gives me so much joy. She sees me through the day and when I think about all the things we do together, it keeps me going. It makes me want to struggle the more because I want to give her the best in life.”

The Nollywood actress abandoned her husband on sick bed months after their wedding.

She even denied marrying him. Unfortunately for her, the man has recovered and doing well now.

11 thoughts on “Uche Ogbodo Regrets Dumping Her Husband, Says Daughter Missing Her Father

  1. It is pay back time how can you abandon the father of your baby just because u thought he will die foolish stinking ask girl

  2. life is a circle, it will be better u call d father of ur child to take his responsibility becos when she grow up and set for marriage d father will still collect her bride price. make d child no her father don’t create enmity btw them

  3. Stupid woman who still behaves like a small girl. You don‘t know that marriage is for better for worse before going into it?

    You quickly abandoned your husband on his sick bed only to jettison just to galivant about with other men. Now that your daughter has started missing her Dad cos blood is thicker than water you are talking gibberish nonesense.
    Bad woman, bad wife, bad mother, bad role model.

    I take a stroll…

  4. Going through her interview makes you realise how empty she is. I only pity the man that ever contemplated marrying her. A wise person would have eaten the humble pie and apologize to her former husband for her error instead of babbling nonsense.

  5. Uche why crying over a split milk? You abandoned the father of your child while on the sick bed, thinking he would die. Now you are nagging about. Uche carry your cross. Don’t use your Igbo music to spoil my blues. With all you have said above, no man I repeat no man will want to marry you.

  6. SERVES SOME OF YOU MEN RIGHT , BCOS IF U SEE A GUD WOMAN THAT IS NOT UR TRIBE, YOU DON,T APPRECIATE [email protected] -LONG TROAT MAKE U GO MAKE AND STILL CAME BACK EMPTY -HANDED . WERE THERE NO YOUNG AMBITIOUS YOUNG MEN IN ENUGU ASKING UR HAND IN MARRIAGE ? AT D MENTION OF EUROPE ,UNA GO BRING OUT ALL UNA MOVIE SAVED MONEY TO SPONSOR WEDDING.JUST BE READY TO HV 3 MORE CHILDREN 4 MR ARTHUR BCOS U MUST COMPLETE 4CHILDREN LIKE OMO-SEXY.

  7. She is tryg to use d daughter to get her husband attention, by sayg her first word is dady, common cut d crap, if what I av read about u abandoning ur husband while he needs u the most is true then u are the most wicked and stupid person I av ever seen. U need to lower ur pride and beg ur husband until he forgives u.

  8. If during church weddings, the officiating priests preach concentrated messages on divorce, I don’t think that the rate would have been this high. I guess the problem is that the most priests do not have that message. For better or for worse is a vow signed and sealed in the presence of God the Almighty. Death is the ONLY thing that can break that seal. People need to know this, especially Christians.

  9. Nemeses has caught up with you, so just accept it and stop granting interviews to attract his attention.

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